Dating in Amsterdam

About Dating in Amsterdam

Welcome to our world of dating! We're Skyker and Heidi, two friends living, dating, and navigating life in Amsterdam. Like many good friends, we regularly catch up to swap stories about our latest dates: the funny ones, the awkward ones, the exciting ones, and everything in between. Our conversations can be lighthearted, honest, or surprisingly deep. They're also exactly how we talk in real life: sometimes unstructured, unfiltered, raw, and full of side notes, but always genuine. Through this podcast, we want to share what it's like for us to date nowadays: what we love, what frustrates us, and what we wish more people understood. We hope that by sharing our experiences and perspectives, we can make dating a little easier, kinder, and maybe even a little more successful for everyone. So we thought, why keep these conversations to ourselves? Join us as we share our dating adventures, reflections, laughs, and lessons along the way. Thanks for listening, we're so happy you're here!

Publisher

Skyler & Heidi

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

29 Jun 2026

Latest episode

21 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

9 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   21 Oct 2026

   Love Bombing, Broken Toes, and Songs Written About Us

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this episode of Dating in Amsterdam, we pick up right where we left off—diving deep into our biggest red flags and refreshing green flags! From surviving first dates that feel more like therapy sessions to dating people who lack basic empathy (or forget the bread!), we share some of our most memorable dating stories. Plus, we explore what true green flags look like: emotional maturity, shared humor, self-reflection. We also discuss what it's like to date a functioning adult: initiating plans, teamwork, and making space for a partner. Grab a coffee and tune in for a fun, relatable chat about navigating love, boundaries, and everything in between!Teaser for next week: Evaluating our own red and green flags!

2. 

   14 Oct 2026

   He let me win: Unpacking unexpected red flags

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this episode, we dive into our personal experiences with dating red flags, warning signs, and dealbreakers. We share a story about a date who held onto anger over minor inconveniences, and created an unsafe, tense environment. We discuss how ambiguity—like dating profile statuses saying "still figuring it out," mixed signals, or overthinking future scenarios—signals a lack of commitment and passive energy. We share instances of subtle red flags, including homophobic remarks about playing certain instruments and condescending behavior, such as a partner secretly letting the other win at table tennis to "let her experience success. Finally, we explore how internal overthinking and poor communication can strain relationships.

3. 

   23 Sept 2026

   Raw reactions: Dating app profiles

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this episode, we break down our raw reactions to the wild world of dating app profiles, prompts, and messaging habits. We review our common annoyances, like guys claiming they "hate small talk" or offering "paid subscriptions" for cuddle. We share real-world awkward encounters, including being blocked over a one-word reply and dealing with pushy demands for video calls. From analyzing the cringiest photo trends (toilet selfies, gym shots, and motorcycle pics) to discussing the frustration of low-effort conversations and vague relationship goals, we share a candid, humorous look at the fatigue and realities of modern online dating.

4. 

   17 Sept 2026

   Eye candy for hungry men and the Danish captain scam

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this episode, we dive deep into the chaotic world of Amsterdam dating, where miscommunications take center stage. From navigating tricky accents and defensive dates to dodging "hungry eyes" and decoding subtle non-verbal cues, the hosts break down their recent dating misadventures. Plus, one of us shares a jaw-dropping story about the time she was targeted by an elaborate online dating scammer.

5. 

   2 Sept 2026

   Avoidants in different flavors: dog park drama & lone wolves

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this episode of Dating in Amsterdam, we break down our latest first (and second) dates and discuss what really makes a potential partner stand out beyond surface-level attraction. Heidi recounts a chaotic picnic date featuring an unruly wolf-like dog and a surprisingly passive date who left her defend the fort. Meanwhile, Skyler shares her experience with a "lone wolf" who turned out to be a bit too uninspiring to spark real chemistry. Together, we explore attachment styles, conflict resolution on dates, the frustration of low-effort communication, and some desirable traits: like curiosity, open-mindedness, and self-awareness that turn a pretty face into a real connection. What is a specific dating deal-breaker or green flag you'd like us to dive into in a future episode?

6. 

   12 Aug 2026

   Hasta La Pasta, Baby

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) You can't reheat a souffle, they say. In this episode we continue our deep dive into avoidant attachment styles, sharing personal stories about exes who resurface long after a breakup. Heidi reflects on a text from an avoidant ex who reached out right before moving abroad, while Skylar discusses her experience trying to give an ex a second chance, only to watch old patterns repeat themselves at high speed. We discuss why avoidant partners often return only when it feels "safe" or low-risk to their nervous systems. In the second half, we lighten the mood with a round of rapid-fire dating deal-breakers. We debate body odor and hygiene, financial stability versus ambition, height differences (and the concept of "short kings"), and whether a partner's education level impacts long-term compatibility.

7. 

   5 Aug 2026

   Dates that deplete us

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this episode we catch up on recent dates, the awkwardness of dating multiple people at once, the frustration of low-effort messaging, "dry" communication, and sudden ghosting from dates in their 40s. We discuss why effortless conversation feels so rare, how Dutch dating culture and communication norms compare to other countries, and whether cultural expectations play a role in how men flirt. Finally, we reflect on our personal attachment styles (secure, anxious, and avoidant), exploring how past dynamics, family upbringings, and dating avoidant partners impact how they show up in relationships today.

8. 

   2 Aug 2026

   Intro Dating in Amsterdam

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) Who we are, why we are doing this

9. 

   29 Jun 2026

   First dates

   Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! (https://rss.com/podcasts/dating-in-amsterdam/voicemail) In this first episode we are talking about our last first dates, our first impressions before and after the date. We briefly touch on these topics: the role of pets in dating, contrasting personalities: introverts vs extroverts, non violent communication, kissing chemistry and connection, dating preferences in physical traits and compatibility, the importance of kindness and emotional maturity,

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