Welcome to the Dating Unsettled Show where we dare to date differently hosted by Joy Ofodu, a Creative Executive who has reached millions of people with my original comedy content, voiceover and original stories.
I am unsettled by my Nigerian culture's expectations of dating. I'm unsettled by American dating norms and traumas.
I harnessed my inner romantic and childhood dreams of a healthy BLACK relationship to author a new set of dating rules, ones that work for me, rules that made Black love not only possible but PROBABLE. I was going to fall in love, and I knew I would find it online. I refused to settle.
I swiped on over 2,000 profiles, matched with over 150 fine young gentlemen and went on about 20 first dates with some amazing guys.
You already got 50 apps in your phone baby, what's one more? Dating Unsettled, where we dare to date differently.
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Dating, Family and everything in between.
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18 Oct 2025
Dating Immigrants to the United States
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Thoughts on dating immigrants to the united states, cultural differences, how Ivan & I mesh in music, culture and more and we respond to an immigrant woe from an online lover.
Immigrants? We get the job done.
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12 Sept 2025
Egg Freezing Start to Finish - My Complete Cryopreservation at Spring Fertility ft. Dr Srini Reddy
You’re here because you have questions about balancing and freezing, and your career or relationship, and we are here to answer them. We’re going to spend the next hour breaking down what egg freezing is and talking about making unconventional dating and fertility decisions. I'm joined by special guest, my doctor, Dr. Srini Reddy at Spring Fertility.
Partnership with Spring Fertility: Get $150 off your first consult in CA, NY or Oregon with code JOY150
My first consult is filmed, so you can see exactly what happens in that appointment.
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We’re here to bust myths not brains--- we’re gonna talk about what the crowd preservation process looks like, what it costs, how to get started, how it feels in the body and to answer your questions live.
In this episode, we cover:
Egg Freezing 101
The Personal Side: Dating, Career & Egg Freezing
Technology updates: How safe is cryopreservation? How reliable?
Listener Qs / Rapid-Fire Round
Big Picture
We have 8 more episodes of Unsettled locked & loaded -- don't go anywhere!
I shared my personal egg freezing journey and chatted with the fertility doctor from Spring who performed my surgery for a funny, honest conversation to help others learn more.
The conversation was for anyone curious about egg freezing—what the process looked like, how to get started, the costs, and key things to consider. I opened up about my experience as a Spring patient in the format of a Dating Unsettled episode (and it all went on the pod after), while Dr. Reddy provided expert guidance and answered common questions. Everyone was welcome to attend this free live podcast taping, proudly in partnership with Spring Fertility.
About Dr. Srini Reddy:
Dr. Reddy is a double board-certified Reproductive Endocrinologist and Obstetrician-Gynecologist, committed to providing exceptional, evidence-based fertility care in a compassionate and collaborative environment. She believes in empowering her patients by ensuring they feel informed, supported, and actively involved in every step of their journey.
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