(de)Tour Guides

About (de)Tour Guides

Two millennial chicks navigating life's detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails.

Publisher

Tory Shulman and Ali Dubrow

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

12 Mar 2025

Latest episode

7 May 2025

Latest episodes

9 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   7 May 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #9: From Jew to Bu

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Today, Tory opens up about her spiritual detour from Jew to Bu. How did a good Jewish girl decide to study Buddhism? You're about to become enlightened and find out. But first, Ali's got beef with a favorite restaurant and Tory's taking a knee. Buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -BEBIRD R1 Wax Removal Tool for Ear (https://www.amazon.com/BEBIRD%C2%AE-Removal-Otoscope-Silicone-Compatible/dp/B08M9G18H3/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-BC4Ww04eljQSWNUy_0uCqOOVhbQap2by4wcTbnMgghKZ7udpZlZ0Nj2VXN2RYO73QPkjDb9wxPHr08AR0LYyBrwjpfn2Mh-zhHhCiE-DGD1taffA0JSzF6ICZJ63voVtLIHIhCx41itl_Pf1L-IPdNlSqsAZ5cZQy-JzHHdW5V_YrEUsFiI1sLG8QBi95Qdbcb-8AbW-AL6c_g15c0zptY0sCD2aiQjuqjwh7zxOAO1S8MG5alAu4lkkWf9dZnsbzL990dpbXZpgf-VmobJKjKMe4qIeG4djehs2U23Ln4.dxNOkRLxJtZO0ivgvf6CtGyy_lte--ZE5PhtLQUpuJk&dib_tag=se&hvadid=695091505637&hvdev=c&hvexpln=67&hvlocint=9028784&hvlocphy=1006094&hvnetw=g&hvocijid=3862498658128137462--&hvqmt=e&hvrand=3862498658128137462&hvtargid=kwd-1036666916589&hydadcr=26630_11679179&keywords=bebird+ear+cleaner+amazon&mcid=4b3240a427e33637909903eeda873384&qid=1746600893&sr=8-1-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&psc=1) -Dash Egg Cooker (https://www.target.com/p/dash-3-in-1-everyday-7-egg-cooker-with-omelet-maker-and-poaching/-/A-79345581?preselect=53731036#lnk=sametab)

2. 

   30 Apr 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #8: She's Too Much

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Today (tomorrow and yesterday), we're talking too much. Yes, we may yap a lot, but we're actually breaking down what it means to be "too much" and how, more often than not, this is a female thing...and not a bad thing! But before we say too much, Tory's waiting for the other shoe to drop and Ali's pissed at Southwest (along with everybody else). Buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -Ellevest (https://www.ellevest.com/) (the financial platform Ali uses and loves) -@maryoliversdrunkcousin (https://www.instagram.com/maryoliversdrunkcousin/?hl=en) -@weratedogs (https://www.instagram.com/weratedogs/?hl=en) -Mophie (https://www.mophie.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoqEChl21zL_dQESE8P5c9WqpvgxhVGbMD0WHMGsSbOhHiin9rvx) phone chargers -Jefferson Fisher (https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/)

3. 

   23 Apr 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #7: Body Talk

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Today, your guides are doing a deep dive (deep drive?) into all things body: weight loss, body image and of course, Ozempic (yep, one of us tried it). We could yap about this topic forever, but we got hungry. Before we weigh in, Ali went on an expensive date and for whatever reason, Tory is her own accountant. Buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -Ali’s Substack essay (https://alidubrow.substack.com/publish/posts/detail/136168683?referrer=%2Fpublish%2Fposts%2Fpublished) -sheologian quote (https://www.reddit.com/r/EDanonymemes/comments/1j73otx/wait_am_i_cured/?share_id=yWUfqPg3LK3J_LexMeuwE&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&utm_source=share&utm_term=22) -The Idea of You (https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-idea-of-you-robinne-lee/15994912?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwzYLABhD4ARIsALySuCS278ziF17yBEYumKVw4GE_k9tCE4wExx14wlYqNR_L8vyc4ctKX0IaAk3EEALw_wcB) -Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel (https://open.spotify.com/show/3fKOTwtnX5oZLaiNntKWAV)

4. 

   16 Apr 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #6: Moving Abroad

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Today, Ali and Tory are going international as they reminisce, wax poetic and gab about life on the other side of the Atlantic (we think). And Ali shares what inspired her to uproot her life, and how her move abroad journey's been going so far. But before we dive in, Tory stole Ali's friends and Ali's headed to France soon (appropriate). So buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -Vermut Rojo (https://www.totalwine.com/spirits/amaro-aperitif-vermouth/vermouth/sweet/vermut-lustau-vermouth-red/p/190116750?glia=true&cid=plia:Shopping+US+None+ENG+SPART:::google&s=2301&&pid=cpc:Performance+Max%2BUS%2BCOLO%2BSTANDARD+PRIORITY::google::&gad_source=4&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqIm_BhDnARIsAKBYcmuUwoKd_qbpUAbDIOV8mqAUNCE4fq6D6bv_rc6UBLAFh1nCS8EAYBcaAvmVEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds) -Contiki tours (https://www.contiki.com/en-us/activity/popular-trips?utm_campaign=travelyourway&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwh_i_BhCzARIsANimeoFjSo6Ua8UyCE3H3kplXtsP_4qzM8wrDyhWcbdGRYjF7lAx_92Zov8aAp_TEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds) -Robert Irwin is hot (https://www.instagram.com/p/DH_8aYoT80S/?igsh=b3R2ZHhvY252OTFx) -Move Abroad Coach (https://www.instagram.com/moveabroadcoach/) -Move Abroad Crash Course (https://www.moveabroadcourse.com/join-now) -Chom Chom Roller (https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/6F5212D2-2BF7-4404-A75C-EFC4FD1E68E6?aa_adgroupid=159112792029&aa_campaignid=21060593481&aa_creativeid=ad-692415393982_kwd-375792735990_dev-x_ext-&maas=maas_adg_api_591716823680335323_macro_1_36&ref_=aa_maas&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqIm_BhDnARIsAKBYcms1r-Epm2XkbLuU3Yxzpz08ghzkld3tmQqIePUIaBt3750ZnCXOb-QaAqvwEALw_wcB) -TanWISE Dark Bronze Sunless Tanning Mousse (https://www.sallybeauty.com/cosmetics-and-skin-care/waxing-and-tanning/self-tanning/dark-bronzing-sunless-mousse/SBS-775028.html?gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADFdChhS064-i9kTQ1hP0rcpcZ82W&gclid=Cj0KCQjw2N2_BhCAARIsAK4pEkU8qNAAX0k0F4bV_yLlS2wVdTqTSUePASvumEjQI2fJcxI6HG-7qCMaAizEEALw_wcB)

5. 

   9 Apr 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #5: Career Curveballs

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Today, we're taking a hard left turn and chatting career curveballs. After all, that's sort of what started this podcast in the first place! But before we go up to bat (sorry), Tory's therapist reminds her of Ali and Ali's neck is aging way too quickly. So buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -Big Magic (https://bookshop.org/p/books/big-magic-creative-living-beyond-fear-elizabeth-gilbert/588716?ean=9781594634727&next=t) -The Four Tendencies Quiz (https://gretchenrubin.com/quiz/the-four-tendencies-quiz/) -Ali’s Substack (https://alidubrow.substack.com/) -Grit (https://bookshop.org/p/books/grit-the-power-of-passion-and-perseverance-angela-duckworth/6700116?ean=9781501111112&next=t) -Fairlife protein shakes (https://www.costco.com/fairlife-nutrition-plan%2C-30g-protein-shake%2C-chocolate%2C-11.5-fl-oz%2C-18-pack.product.100727293.html) -Natasha Denona concealer (https://www.sephora.com/product/natasha-denona-hy-glam-concealer-P505800) (yes, again)

6. 

   2 Apr 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #4: Friendship Breakups

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Today we're talking friendship breakups: Why they suck, how to heal and our personal experiences cutting ties with our friends...and our friends cutting ties with us. Before we hit the (end of the) road, Tory's a plant murderer and Ali joined Costco/civilization. So buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -The amazing Costco deal (https://www.groupon.com/deals/n-costco-membership?cjdata=MXxOfDB8WXww&cjevent=6c2251430f6a11f08209004d0a1cb825&utm_medium=afl&utm_campaign=cid*3959405_pub*USA+Today_pid*100262046&utm_source=cj&subs_group=afl) -The First Law Trilogy (https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-first-law-trilogy-joe-abercrombie/112263) -Fairlife Shakes (https://www.costco.com/fairlife-nutrition-plan%2C-30g-protein-shake%2C-chocolate%2C-11.5-fl-oz%2C-18-pack.product.100727293.html) -Natasha Denona Hy-Glam Concealer (https://www.ulta.com/p/hy-glam-concealer-pimprod2038096?CATARGETID=330000200003198927&CAPCID=697019557382&CATCI=aud-1969033816997:dsa-1645102292151&CAAGID=164159355074&CADevice=c&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwna6_BhCbARIsALId2Z3_FqFHlsKn4mRhb8BZ8hrAC04nF01pt-lwcuVALTh72uoyC2-bGVAaAlcEEALw_wcB)

7. 

   26 Mar 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #3: Sober Curiosity

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Except on stop 3 of our (de)Tour, we're laying off the booze. This week's topic? Sober Curiosity. Curiosity may have killed the cat, but it's also allowed many people to live richer lives. Before we begin, Ali's got an unemployment update and Tory's into bougie yoga. Today and only today, we encourage drinking (mocktails!) and driving. So buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -Good Twin (https://drinkgoodtwin.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoq4ydws47twmaNubc_sA5InSM0i7GZ1g6yoTPdCibb4lt92tkLL) -Ali’s dry month blog post (https://alidubrow.substack.com/p/a-month-off-the-sauce) -The Sobriety Deck (https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/750832/the-sobriety-deck-by-tawny-lara-and-lisa-smith/) -Sunbeam Heated Mattress Pad (https://www.sunbeamhome.com/en/blankets-bedding/heated-mattress-pads) -Apple Cider Vinegar (https://www.netflix.com/title/81637595)

8. 

   19 Mar 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #2: The Comparison Spiral

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Join us on stop 2 of our (de)Tour: The Comparison Spiral. We all do it (shout-out Instagram!), but we don't all know how to stop it and/or turn it on its head. Before we begin, Tory's off to FL (by choice) and Ali's realized the error of her unemployment ways. Plus, we've got another giveaway (we might make this a regular thing). Buckle up, (de)Tourists, and enjoy the ride...just don't compare your journey to anyone else's, ok? -- Show notes: -Good Material (https://bookshop.org/p/books/good-material-dolly-alderton/20589766?ean=9780593801307&next=t), Dolly Alderton -When Things Fall Apart (https://bookshop.org/p/books/when-things-fall-apart-heart-advice-for-difficult-times-pema-chodron/9757480?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA5eC9BhAuEiwA3CKwQj1inTBpqqXW0E3kUklmnahigMx3CDTLkx4LvNZAsfnWPnNpabdWRhoC8tAQAvD_BwE), Pema Chödrön -Whatnot (https://www.whatnot.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorvU4auHIt1g_OYjT9Do_fxwqOtuLX2Kppq3x8L7jdq63WbBlCR) -ResortPass (https://www.resortpass.com/?utm_source=google-paid&utm_medium=paid-search&utm_campaign=21833928898&utm_content=168377575599&utm_term=resortpass%20app&ad=717958749808&src=g&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA5eC9BhAuEiwA3CKwQgeDOdMzVpTaDVZdZKGRklLxvSJ2EBbI9tvvcvv3spKpmhmK0isjjBoC2pAQAvD_BwE)

9. 

   12 Mar 2025

   (de)Tour Stop #1: ENM

   Welcome to (de)Tour Guides, a podcast hosted by 2 chicks navigating life’s detours, while sipping on candor and cocktails. Join us on the very first stop of our (de)Tour: ENM, or Ethical Non-Monogamy! We take a deep(ish) dive into the world of multiple romantic partners...but check your preconceived notions at the door. Before we begin, we've got some roses, buds, and thorns to discuss. And be sure not to bounce early, because we've also got a giveaway for you. Buckle up, (de)Tourists. And enjoy the ride. -- Show notes: -Loose Ends (https://looseends.org/) -Polysecure (https://bookshop.org/p/books/polysecure-attachment-trauma-and-consensual-nonmonogamy-jessica-fern/14490932?ean=9781944934989&next=t&next=t) -Mating in Captivity (https://bookshop.org/p/books/mating-in-captivity-unlocking-erotic-intelligence-esther-perel/7385511?ean=9780060753641&next=t&next=t) and The State of Affairs (https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-state-of-affairs-rethinking-infidelity-esther-perel/6434081?ean=9780062322593&next=t&next=t) -Babygirl Father Figure scene (https://www.tiktok.com/@a24/video/7456896295618317610?_r=1&_t=ZT-8truCu03KGI) -Milani in Luminoso (https://amzn.to/3WMs4di)

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YouTube views

57,197

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

15 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

15 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 58 / 100

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Quality

65

Social presence

0

YouTube

76

Engagement

51

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