Dear Naija Girl
Cynthia ‘Tasha’ Osajibenedict
5.0from 3 ratings
- 18
- Episodes
- 3
- Ratings
- Weekly
- Cadence
- 2020
- First episode
About Dear Naija Girl
Welcome to Dear Naija Girl! Hosted by the incredible Tasha, Author, Speaker, Feminist. This captivating podcast delves fearlessly into womanhood, sisterhood, relationships, and life's profound truths. Join us on an extraordinary journey of emotional well-being,personal growth, &global empowerment for women. Tasha's unwavering dedication uplifts, supports, and inspires women to succeed. Within our vibrant community,share your thoughts,experiences,seek advice, & embrace vulnerability. Tune in to each episode of Dear Naija Girl, be enthralled, and spread the enriching experience to friends❤️
- Publisher
- Cynthia ‘Tasha’ Osajibenedict
- Category
- society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 21 Jun 2020
- Latest episode
- 30 Oct 2025
Latest episodes
18 episodes in the feed.
30 Oct 2025
Cooking in Ella’s Purple Kitchen|On Friendship,Dating & What Food Really Means to Women
What happens when women cook, gist, and heal together? Welcome to Dear Naija Girl podcasf. On this episode we vidit Ella’s purple kitchen, where the food is hot, the laughter is loud, and the conversations are real. In this episode, we’re not just cooking — we’re talking about friendship, dating, heartbreak, and the secret language of food. Because sometimes, food is love. Food is therapy. And food is how we say, “I’m here for you.” ✨ We talk about: 🌟 Why female friendships are the real love stories. 🌟 What dating feels like when you’re tired of performing softness. 🌟 How food connects memory, comfort, and survival. 🌟 Why Nigerian women deserve softness — and better meals. 🍲 Expect laughter, vulnerability, and plenty of “I’ve been there” moments. 📌 Subscribe for more conversations that feed the soul: 👉🏾 [https://youtube.com/@dearnaijagirlpod?si=WTc_8DbCYSFTUaE7] 📌 Follow me for behind-the-scenes: www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl 💬 What meal reminds you of love? Drop your answer in the comments. Let’s talk food, feelings, and female friendship. 🔔 LIKE, COMMENT & SHARE this with your sisters — the ones who feed you, even when your heart is hungry. 🥹 #cooking #DearNaijaGirl #kitchen #foodie #FoodAndFriendship #NigerianWomen #CookingShow #FemaleFriendships #DatingInNigeria #friendship #ComfortFood #nigerianfood
13 Oct 2025
Part 2: 10 Wild Questions Women Are Too Afraid To Ask
💬 If you thought Part 1 was wild, wait till you hear THIS! We’re diving into even deeper, crazier, and more honest questions from women around the world — especially Nigerian women. From love and loyalty to money, body image, sex, and self-worth, we’re getting brutally honest. No filters, no shame, just truth. Sis, this one will have you laughing, nodding, and rethinking everything you’ve been taught. 💭 📌 Subscribe for more unfiltered episodes: [  / @dearnaijagirlpod ] 📌 Follow for daily gems: [www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirlpod] 🚀 Don’t just watch—join the conversation. Drop your thoughts below or DM me your own “wild question.” 🔔 LIKE, COMMENT & SHARE with your girls — we’re rewriting the womanhood narrative one episode at a time. #DearNaijaGirl #UnfilteredConversations #WomenTalkTruth #AfricanWomenVoices #FeminismIn2025 #RelationshipsUnfiltered #StrongWomanMyth #NigerianWomenPodcast #SelfLoveJourney
4 Oct 2025
5 Wild Questions Nigerian Women Are Asking
In this episode, I’m answering the readiest, funniest and most controversial questions from women across Nigeria and around the world. From Love, marriage, money, friendship, career, and even sec! Nothing is off limits! This episode is unfiltered and laugh-out-loud real! Drop your thoughts in the comments—i will be answering more questions that’s you have 📌 Subscribe for more bold, honest conversations: [ / @dearnaijagirlpod ] 📌 Follow for daily gems: [www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl] 🔔 LIKE, COMMENT & SHARE with your girlfriends—because these are the convos we ALL need! #DearNaijaGirl #nigerianwomen #RelationshipsIn2025 #women #feminist #podcastforwomen #FeministConversations #Marriage #womeninbusiness #motherhood #mothers #men #nigerianmen
5 Feb 2025
The Hustle Culture Lie: Why Overworking Won’t Make You Successful!
Is hustle culture ruining your life? We’ve been told that success comes from working harder, staying up late, and grinding 24/7. But what if that’s a lie? In this video, I break down why overworking is NOT the key to success and how you can start working SMARTER, not harder. If you've ever felt guilty for resting, this one’s for you! ✨ What You’ll Learn: 🌟 Why hustle culture is toxic and unrealistic 🌟 Signs you’re overworking yourself 🌟 How to actually build wealth without burnout 🌟 My personal story of redefining success 📌 Let’s Talk! Have you ever felt guilty for resting? Drop a comment below—I want to hear your thoughts! Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SHARE this podcast with someone who needs it! 📌 #HustleCulture #WorkLifeBalance #WomenEmpowerment #FinancialFreedom #SelfCare #BurnoutRecovery #ProductivityHacks #Entrepreneurship
30 Jan 2025
Cooking, Conversations & Food: The Recipes For Lasting Friendships
Can food and friendship truly go hand in hand? This special Christmas cooking episode dives into the art of nurturing meaningful relationships while preparing a heartwarming meal for my closest friends. Join me, Tasha, as I share the secrets of sisterhood, personal anecdotes, and the profound truths about friendship that every woman needs to hear. It's more than just a cooking video - it's a soul-stirring conversation about the bonds that hold us together. Don't miss out on this heartfelt episode filled with love, laughter, and life lessons. Listen now and let's talk about it! #cooking #christmascooking #friendship #fyp #youtubevideos #DearNaijaGirl #femalefriendships #FriendshipGoals #CookingAndConvos #PodcastForWomen #Sisterhood
2 Oct 2024
Best Friend or Wife: Where Should a Man Be?
If your best friend was in the hospital fighting for his life from a gunshot wound and your wife was giving birth, where would you be? This fiery debate ignited social media this week, and in this episode, we break down the conversations surrounding this controversial topic. From unpacking societal expectations of men’s roles in relationships to delving into the broader discussions of gender dynamics, we explore the complex issues women face in today's social landscape. Tune in for an insightful, raw, and real discussion on the most pressing topics surrounding women across platforms this week. Women’s Issues, Social Media Discourse, Gender Dynamics, Men’s Roles, Feminism, Relationships, Birth and Friendship Choices #GenderRoles #SocialIssues #WomenEmpowerment #TrendingTopics #RelationshipDebates #Feminism
17 Apr 2024
Bold Conversations: Addressing Taboo Topics and Challenging Uncomfortable Cultural Norms
Join us for an insightful episode of Bold Conversations where we fearlessly delve into taboo subjects and confront societal norms head-on. From breaking down childhood trauma to discussing uncomfortable truths, guests on the show provide valuable insights and perspectives on navigating today's cultural landscape. Tune in for thought-provoking discussions and get ready to discuss uncomfortable topics. Connect with Me: Instagram: [@dearnaijagirl] www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl Twitter: [@dearnaijagirl] www.twitter.com/dearnaijagirl YouTube: [@dearnaijagirlpod] https://youtube.com/@dearnaijagirlpod... #podcast #dearnaijagirl #trending #nigerianwomen #motherhood #nigerianmen #fypシ #love #books #relationship #sisterhood #nigerianwomen #trending #podcast #society --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
2 Mar 2024
Nigerian Women, Nigerian Landlords and Real Estate
I am not over this episode! So in-depth, relatable and eye opening! In this episode, we’re delving deep into the fascinating world of real estate, and we’re thrilled to have a seasoned real estate consultant as our special guest @jimipeter_ ! Join us as we uncover the unique challenges women face in the real estate industry. From insightful discussions on navigating the market to shedding light on common pitfalls, we’re here to empower you with invaluable insights for success! This episode is a must-listen for every woman who has faced issues with Lagos landlords, owning real estates or intends to get their own place. Follow @dearnaijagirl ❤️ Apartment @beachwalk_apartments ————- Grab a copy of @dearnaijagirl to understand more. Dear Naija Girl, is a blend of stories, and experiences, highlighting the ordeals of women and what it means to be female in Nigeria. It opens up its readers to what women go through in this part of the world to be successful and also be heard or given a voice in their individual spheres. Asides from sharing true life stories of several women, it also highlights the struggles of women in Nigeria even when they appear successful, and how they have to constantly defend their success in the judging and preying eyes of the society they come from. Amidst all, it offers a way forward. Send a dm to order ——————————————————- #dearnaijagirl #selflove #selfrespect #selfcare #selfworth #selfacceptance #societyfeelings #africansociety #africanwomen #literature #bookcommunity #bookstoread #bookreels #lagoslandlord #lagos #nigerianwomen --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
24 Jan 2024
The Wedding Tea | All The Deets And All The Drama
Dear community! 🌟 You've flooded my DMs with one question: "Tasha, where's the wedding recap?" Well, wait no more! 🎉 In this special podcast episode, I'm opening up about my feminist wedding journey and giving you sneak peeks into the day that meant the world to me. 🥂✨ What to Expect: Join me as I share short, heartfelt insights into the wedding process, the unforgettable moments, and express my gratitude to the incredible souls who made it all happen. It's a celebration of love, empowerment, and community support. Have questions or curious about certain details? Drop them in the comments below, and I'll personally respond to each one! Thank You: A massive shoutout to everyone who contributed to this magical day. Your love and support mean the world to me. 🙏❤️ Connect with Me: Instagram: [@dearnaijagirl] www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl Twitter: [@dearnaijagirl] www.twitter.com/dearnaijagirl YouTube: [@dearnaijagirlpod] www.youtube.com/dearnaijagirlpod #weddingpodcast #storytime #feminist --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
18 Oct 2023
Dear Naija Girl: DM Series Premiere
Join us in this riveting episode of the Dear Naija Girl Podcast hosted by the incredible Tasha! Get ready to dive deep into the unfiltered world of women's experiences as Tasha unveils her highly anticipated DM Series, a monthly special where she unveils the raw, real, and often hilarious messages sent in by women just like you. In this episode, Tasha opens the treasure trove of DMs that flooded her inbox over the past month. Brace yourselves as she candidly shares the heartfelt stories, the raw vulnerabilities, and the empowering triumphs that these amazing women have confided in her. But that's not all! Tasha goes the extra mile by bringing you into the heart of her community, reading out the comments and reactions from the listeners and community members. Hear the gasps, the laughter, and the occasional tears as the community rallies around these stories, creating a safe space for women to be heard and supported. Get ready for an emotional rollercoaster filled with empathy, wisdom, and a dash of humor. Tune in as Tasha delves into these DMs, sharing her insights, reactions, and providing a compassionate voice to the unheard stories of women. Don't miss this eye-opening and heartwarming episode dropping on the third week of every month, exclusively on the Dear Naija Girl Podcast. 🎉✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
5 Oct 2023
Your behavior might be a shield you’ve built from childhood traumas
In this empowering episode of the "Dear Naija Girl" podcast, join Tasha as she explores the unspoken traumas faced by Nigerian women and the resilient armor they create to protect themselves. M Tune in as I unravel the layers of emotional resilience, independence, and cultural heritage that shape Nigerian women's identities. Discover the powerful narratives of strength, but also the vulnerabilities hidden beneath the surface. Let’s discuss how these once-protective shields can sometimes hinder personal growth and intimate connections in adulthood. 🔊 Listen now to this eye-opening episode on the "Dear Naija Girl" podcast, available on all major podcast platforms. Don't miss out—hit play and let's embark on this powerful exploration together! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
23 Aug 2023
Silent Tumors: Nigerian Women's Struggle with Fibroids
Episode title: Silent Tumors: Nigerian Women's Struggle with Fibroids Join us for an emotionally charged episode as we delve into a topic that affects countless lives but remains in the shadows. In this heart-to-heart conversation, we sit down with the incredible @bolajigelax, 1/3 of the silent tumor documentary team! This incredible women are a beacon of knowledge and compassion in the realm of women's health. 🌟 Discover the untold stories as we break the silence surrounding fibroids, those quiet battles fought by women across Nigeria. These silent tumors, often misunderstood and unspoken, have woven their way into the lives of so many. But fear not, for this episode is your guide to understanding, empowerment, and a brighter path forward. 🌸 @bolajigelax, a true advocate for women's health, takes us on an enlightening journey through the complexities of fibroids. Her wisdom and insights are a beacon of hope for those navigating this often lonely journey. 🎗️ If you've ever known a woman dealing with fibroids or silently fought this battle yourself, this episode is a lifeline of support. We bring this discussion to light, uniting women in strength and solidarity, fostering a safe space for sharing experiences, and providing the information we all need to break free from the shackles of silence. Join Tasha and Gelax on this remarkable episode as they explore the transformative journeyof dealing with fibroid 🌍 JOIN me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl/ ☀️ Sign Up TO My Newsletter : https://mailchi.mp/2ed30f978999/thehot-truth-and-other-sermons-on-life-love-and-feminism 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/dearnaijagirl 💌 subscribe to my YouTube channel : https://youtube.com/@DearNaijaGirl 💕 Join My PCOS support group : https://chat.whatsapp.com/CTSZglEzFdP3k9ZqwG5hmR Join the Dear Naija Girl and the community on facebook@DearNaijaGirl #dearnaijagirl https://www.facebook.com/dearnaijagirl?mibextid=LQQJ4d --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
9 Aug 2023
The Man Who Was Raised By A Feminist: A Candid Conversation with Sensational Artist Viqq
Join Tasha on a deeply insightful episode of the Dear Naija Girl podcast as she engages in a heart-to-heart conversation with the sensational artist, Viqq. In this illuminating episode, we delve into Viqq's unique upbringing, having been raised by a single parent who proudly identifies as a feminist. Tasha and Viqq embark on a thought-provoking journey through his childhood and early years, exploring the profound impact of growing up under the guidance of a strong, empowered parent. Viqq shares his personal experiences and candidly opens up about the challenges, triumphs, and life lessons that shaped his perspective on gender roles, relationships, and self-identity. Don't miss out on this eye-opening and deeply personal conversation with Viqq, as he bares his soul and offers valuable insights into what it truly means to be raised by a feminist. Join Tasha and Viqq on this remarkable episode as they explore the transformative journey of a man who defied convention and emerged as an inspiring artist and individual. 🌍 JOIN me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl/ ☀️ Sign Up TO My Newsletter : https://mailchi.mp/2ed30f978999/thehot-truth-and-other-sermons-on-life-love-and-feminism 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/dearnaijagirl 💌 subscribe to my YouTube channel : https://youtube.com/@DearNaijaGirl 💕 Join My PCOS support group : https://chat.whatsapp.com/CTSZglEzFdP3k9ZqwG5hmR Join the Dear Naija Girl and the community on facebook@DearNaijaGirl #dearnaijagirl https://www.facebook.com/dearnaijagirl?mibextid=LQQJ4d --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
12 Jul 2023
Motherhood in Childhood: Why Most Nigerian Women Don't Want Children ft. Hadassah
In this thought-provoking episode of the Dear Naija Girl podcast, hosted by the insightful Tasha, we delve into the sensitive topic of motherhood and explore the reasons why many Nigerian women choose not to have children. Joining Tasha is Hadassah, a vibrant and successful young Nigerian woman who openly shares her decision to forgo motherhood. Drawing from Hadassah's own journey, the episode delves into the complexities of societal pressures faced by Nigerian women when it comes to starting a family. Tasha and Hadassah explore topics such as career aspirations, personal fulfillment, and the societal stigmas attached to women who choose a different path. Join Tasha and her special guest, Hadassah, as they unpack the intricacies of this complex topic and shed light on the reasons behind the choice to not have children. Whether you're someone who shares a similar perspective or simply seeking to understand the motivations of those who do, this episode offers a compassionate and informative exploration of the decision to embrace a child-free life. 🌍 JOIN me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl/ ☀️ Sign Up TO My Newsletter : https://mailchi.mp/2ed30f978999/thehot-truth-and-other-sermons-on-life-love-and-feminism 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/dearnaijagirl 💌 subscribe to my YouTube channel : https://youtube.com/@DearNaijaGirl 💕 Join My PCOS support group : https://chat.whatsapp.com/CTSZglEzFdP3k9ZqwG5hmR Join the Dear Naija Girl and the community on facebook@DearNaijaGirl #dearnaijagirl https://www.facebook.com/dearnaijagirl?mibextid=LQQJ4d --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
28 Jun 2023
The Karma for Men Who Cheat 🤧🫠
In this episode of the Dear Naija Girl podcast, hosted by the insightful Tasha, she delves into the intricate web of consequences faced by men who cheat. She starts by dissecting the highly publicized Davido vs. Anita cheating and pregnancy saga, examining the implications for Chioma, Davido's long-time partner and mother of his child. Tasha fearlessly tackles the emotional aftermath experienced by women who find themselves entangled in such situations, shedding light on the pain and heartbreak caused by infidelity. Drawing from real-life examples and personal experiences, she delves into the impact of cheating on trust, self-esteem, and mental well-being. While exploring the Davido-Anita saga, Tasha shares her candid thoughts on the complex dynamics at play and what this high-profile case means for other Nigerian women who may find themselves in similar circumstances. With a compassionate approach, she offers guidance and support to Chioma and anyone navigating the treacherous waters of infidelity. In the latter part of the episode, Tasha directly addresses Nigerian men, providing insightful advice on the importance of trust, communication, and commitment in relationships. With her trademark blend of wisdom and wit, she implores men to consider the consequences of their actions and emphasizes the value of loyalty and fidelity. Join Tasha on this thought-provoking episode as she delves deep into the karma that awaits men who cheat, uncovering the ripple effects it has on the lives of those involved and offering guidance for a more respectful and fulfilling approach to relationships. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
21 Jun 2023
Stereotypes in Nigeria And The Crazy Things Women Hear Ft. Pamela Ajumuka
In this episode of Dear Naija Girl, we dive deep into the world of Nigerian stereotypes and the outrageous things women in Nigeria often hear. Join me and special guest Pamela Ajumuka, a fierce feminist, as we unravel the impact of stereotypes on women's lives. From Hilda Baci to Chimamanda Adichie to Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, we explore the powerful stories that challenge these stereotypes and celebrate the resilience of Nigerian women. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation that will inspire you to break free from societal expectations and embrace your true self. Tune in now and let's shatter stereotypes together! 🌍 JOIN me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl/ 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/dearnaijagirl 💌 subscribe to my YouTube channel : https://youtube.com/@DearNaijaGirl 💕 Join My PCOS support group : https://chat.whatsapp.com/CTSZglEzFdP3k9ZqwG5hmR Join the Dear Naija Girl and the community on facebook@DearNaijaGirl #dearnaijagirl https://www.facebook.com/dearnaijagirl?mibextid=LQQJ4d --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
31 May 2023
Is Your Inability To Hold Grudges A Response To Trauma? Here’s What I’ve Learned
Have you ever wondered why it's so hard for you to hold a grudge or stay upset with someone for a long time? Trust me, I feel you. Today, we're exploring the roots of this phenomenon and shedding light on the traumatic response easy forgiveness, and inability to hold grudges points to and shedding light on the strength and resilience it takes to forgive. ☀️ Sign Up TO My Newsletter : https://mailchi.mp/2ed30f978999/thehot-truth-and-other-sermons-on-life-love-and-feminism 🌍 JOIN me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearnaijagirl/ 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/dearnaijagirl 💌 subscribe to my YouTube channel : https://youtube.com/@DearNaijaGirl 💕 Join My PCOS support group : https://chat.whatsapp.com/CTSZglEzFdP3k9ZqwG5hmR Join the Dear Naija Girl and the community on facebook@DearNaijaGirl #dearnaijagirl https://www.facebook.com/dearnaijagirl?mibextid=LQQJ4d --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
21 Jun 2020
Sould Single Mothers Celebrate Father’s Day?
Hello everyone, today's podcast tries to understand the importance of celebration of parenthood and to understand the downside of gender battles and societal negative expectation of single parenthood. Every parent deserves celebration, whether single mothers or fathers. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-naija-girl/message
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