This is for the Christian girl navigating her single season and wondering if there is more to it than just waiting.
Welcome to Dear Single Christian Girl Podcast. I'm KB, and this podcast exists for one reason: to help you THRIVE in your single season, not just survive it.
Every Saturday we have the real conversations about faith, identity, purpose, relationships and life as a whole.
We bring the scripture, the research, the real stories and zero judgment.
New episodes every Saturday. Join the fam sis 🥰
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S2 Finale Q&A: How Faith and Relationship Connect, Struggling to Accept Purpose and Fulfilling Purpose while in a Godly Relationship
Season 2 is a wrap. And we are going out with everything we have. 🎉
Welcome to Episode 20 of Dear Single Christian Girl — the Season 2 finale. In this final Q&A episode KB answers three of the most important questions this community sent in all season.
How are faith and relationship linked? KB gets into why there is no such thing as putting God aside when it comes to your relationship, what being equally yoked actually means beyond just dating a believer, and the six specific ways faith and relationship are meant to be woven together.
I know my purpose but I find it difficult to accept it — what do I do? KB gets honest about why purpose resistance is completely human, why delayed obedience is still disobedience, and what to do practically when you know what God has called you to but you are not walking in it yet. Spoiler — you are basically Jonah right now. 😄
How do I fulfil purpose while in a godly relationship? KB talks about why your purpose does not pause for a relationship, the pattern of women who go silent on their calling after marriage and what a partner who truly cultivates your purpose looks like versus one who quietly undermines it.
This is the last episode of Season 2. Dear Single Christian Girl is taking a three month break and returning in January with Season 3. Thank you for every Saturday. For every share. For every question. You made this season what it is. 💛
This episode is for you if you are:
💛 A single Christian woman wondering how to practically keep God at the centre of your relationship
💛 Someone who knows their purpose but keeps finding reasons not to walk in it fully
💛 A woman in a relationship wondering how to keep pursuing her calling without losing it to the relationship
💛 Someone who has followed Dear Single Christian Girl all season and wants to close it out well
💛 A new listener who wants to know what this podcast is about — start here and then go back to Episode 1
Season 3 returns in January. Subscribe so you do not miss it. 💛
12 Sept 2026
Don't Be A LEAH: Pick-Me Culture & Why Trying to Earn Love Never Works
There is a woman in the Bible whose story reads like it could have been posted on Twitter yesterday. Her name is Leah. And she is the Bible's original pick me.
In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB reads through the full Leah and Rachel passage from Genesis and stops to comment on every moment — because there is so much in this story that every Christian woman in 2026 needs to hear.
We talk about what Leah was really doing when she named her sons after desperate hopes that Jacob would love her. We talk about the moment she literally hired her own husband with mandrake plants just to spend a night with a man she was already married to. We talk about what pick me culture looks like in 2026 and why it is the exact same spirit as Leah's — playing wife before you have the ring, making yourself easy to avoid losing him, getting pregnant hoping it will secure him, competing with other women for a man who has not declared himself to anyone.
And then we talk about the most powerful moment in Leah's entire story. The moment she stopped performing and started praising God. And what God did with that surrender that literally changed the course of human history — because from that moment came the lineage of Jesus Christ.
Because you were never meant to earn love. You were created to receive it. And this episode is going to show you the difference. 💛
This episode is for you if you are:
💛 A single Christian woman who has been performing, producing or making yourself small to try to earn a man's love
💛 Someone who has been playing wife before you have the ring and wondering why it is not working
💛 Tired of competing for the attention of someone who has not chosen you
💛 Ready to stop auditioning for love and start walking in your God-given worth
💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that goes deep into scripture and makes it completely relevant to your real life today
Because Leah's story is four thousand years old. And it is playing out in situationships and group chats and bedrooms all over the world right now. Let's talk about it. 💛
New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month.
5 Sept 2026
Why Christian Women Keep Falling Prey to "Spiritual" Wicked Men
In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB gets into one of the most important and most avoided conversations in the church today. Why do Christian women keep falling prey to spiritually gifted but deeply wicked men? And how do you make sure you are never one of them?
The episode starts with the story of Mica Miller — the 30 year old worship leader and pastor's wife whose tragic death is now the subject of the Netflix documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife. A woman who loved God, served faithfully and deserved to be safe. She was not. And her story is not as rare as we want to believe.
From there KB gets into the real conversation. The critical difference between gifts of the Spirit and fruit of the Spirit and why a man can be genuinely anointed and genuinely abusive at the same time. The five specific patterns that lead Christian women into dangerous relationships with spiritually gifted but untransformed men — focusing on gifts instead of fruit, worshipping the title, over-spiritualising red flags, the saviour complex and protecting his image at the cost of your own safety. And the most important question you will ever ask about a man — not is he a Christian, not is he a pastor, not is he anointed — but is he transformed?
Because the gifts will impress you from a distance. The character is what you will live with every single day. And you deserve both. 💛
This episode is for you if you are:
💛 A single Christian woman who wants to make sure she never mistakes gifts for character
💛 Someone who has been in or witnessed a relationship with a spiritually gifted but deeply broken man
💛 A woman who has been over-spiritualising red flags and needs permission to call them what they are
💛 Someone who watched the Netflix documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife and needs to process what it raised
💛 Any Christian woman who wants to learn how to vet for transformation not just for anointing
This episode contains discussions of domestic abuse and suicide. Please be gentle with yourself as you listen. 💛
New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month.
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