A podcast exploring how to create enjoyable, long-term romantic relationships we actually want to be in! Hosted by Nathan Holritz.
Deciding to Love
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A podcast exploring how to create enjoyable, long-term romantic relationships we actually want to be in! Hosted by Nathan Holritz.
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12/18/2025
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June 18, 2026
Ep 13: 3 Keys to a Vibrant Relationship - Dr. David Banks
<p>Summary</p><p>In this insightful interview, Dr. David Banks shares profound principles for building long-term, vibrant romantic relationships. Covering topics from identity and purpose to communication and intentionality, this conversation offers practical wisdom rooted in psychology, faith, and personal experience.</p><p><br>Key Talking Points:</p><p><br></p><ul><li><p>The importance of individual wholeness before entering a relationship</p></li><li><p>How clear purpose and vision build lasting bonds</p></li><li><p>The role of intentionality and planting seeds for future growth</p></li><li><p>The significance of leadership and initiative in partnership</p></li><li><p>Practical components of effective communication to foster closeness</p></li><li><p>Common pitfalls like seeking validation and superficial sparks</p></li><li><p>The power of principles over emotions in long-term love</p></li><li><p>How to develop a relationship vision that guides ongoing efforts</p></li><li><p>Catalyst stories of couples transforming through intentional effort</p></li></ul><p><br>Resources</p><p><br>Dr. David Bank's Website: <a href="https://www.noblebusinesssuccess.com/ta/Noble%20Success%20Strategic%20Group/@nbs" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.noblebusinesssuccess.com/ta/Noble%20Success%20Strategic%20Group/@nbs</a></p><p><br></p><p>Dr. David Bank’s June 27th, 2026 Single's Masterclass: <a href="https://bit.ly/KingdomPrinciplesforSingles" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://bit.ly/KingdomPrinciplesforSingles</a></p><p><br></p><p><br>Check out the show website at <a href="https://www.decidingtolove.com" target="_blank">https://www.decidingtolove.com</a> and if you're interested in being a guest on the show, go to <a href="https://www.decidingtolove.com/share-your-story" target="_blank">https://www.decidingtolove.com/share-your-story</a> to learn more and apply to be on the show! <br>You can also follow Deciding to Love for short clips and inspiration from the show: <br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/decidingtolovexo" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/decidingtolovexo</a><br><a href="https://www.facebook.com/decidingtolovexo" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/decidingtolovexo</a><br><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@decidingtolovexo" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@decidingtolovexo</a></p>
May 21, 2026
Ep 12: How to Encourage Greater Honesty - Judy Herman
<p>In this conversation, Nathan Holritz interviews Judy Herman, a licensed therapist, about her journey into therapy, the simplicity of love, and the complexities of relationships. They discuss the importance of awareness, responsibility, and authenticity in romantic partnerships, emphasizing that while relationships can be simple, they often require effort and understanding to navigate challenges. Judy shares insights from her own experiences and her books, highlighting the significance of communication and personal growth in fostering healthy relationships. Nathan and Judy emphasize the importance of taking ownership, understanding the authentic self, and the critical role of honesty and vulnerability in fostering intimacy. They explore how curiosity can mitigate conflict and create a safe space for open communication, ultimately leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.</p><p>Resources</p><p><br></p><p>Judy's Website: https://www.judycounselor.com/</p><p>Judy’s Books:</p><p>Resources Relationships with Purpose: Secrets to Better Relationships and A Better Life, Judy Herman - https://link.deciding2.love/47wckn5d</p><p>Beyond Messy Relationships: Diving Invitations to Your Authentic Self, Judy Herman - https://link.deciding2.love/59rty63k</p><p>Judy’s Podcast: Better Relationships, Better Life - On Apple, https://link.deciding2.love/kjvfz4rj and on Spotify, https://link.deciding2.love/ymkuyt9jDeciding to Love is a podcast exploring how to create enjoyable, long-term romantic relationships we actually want to be in! The podcast is hosted by Nathan Holritz, long-time entrepreneur and podcast host - and a romantic at heart. Check out the website at decidingtolove.com, and if you're interested in being a guest on the show, go to decidingtolove.com/share-your-story to learn more and apply to be on the show! Check out the website at decidingtolove.com, and if you're interested in being a guest on the show, go to decidingtolove.com/share-your-story to learn more and apply to be on the show! You can also follow Deciding to Love for short clips and inspiration from the show: https://www.instagram.com/decidingtolovexo https://www.facebook.com/decidingtolovexohttps://www.tiktok.com/@decidingtolovexo</p>
May 2, 2026
Ep 11: Creating Independence - Steve and Shannon
<p>Summary</p><p>In this interview, Nathan Holritz speaks with Steve and Shannon about their long-term relationship, exploring themes of romance, curiosity, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of maintaining curiosity in relationships, the challenges Shannon and Steve faced in their relationship, and how they navigated through difficult times. The couple shares insights on the significance of presence and mindfulness, the dynamics of new relationship energy, and the impact of inner child work on their partnership. Their journey highlights the importance of self-awareness, communication, and emotional health in sustaining a loving relationship. Nathan, Shannon, and Steve explore the complexities of trauma, emotional processing, the importance of somatic release, and the significance of of sovereignty and emotional independence for the sake of a healthy, long-term romantic relationship. The discussion also touches on the unconventional choice of sleeping in separate beds and how it can positively impact relationships by allowing for personal space and emotional clarity.</p><p>......</p><p><br></p><p>Resources</p><p><br>Living Untethered, Michael Singer - <a href="https://link.deciding2.love/yhtwmwvw">https://link.deciding2.love/yhtwmwvw</a></p><p>Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel - <a href="https://link.deciding2.love/2p9dv4s8">https://link.deciding2.love/2p9dv4s8</a></p><p>Shannon Hammaker on Instagram - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shannonhamaker/">https://www.instagram.com/shannonhamaker/</a><br>Check out the website at <a href="decidingtolove.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">decidingtolove.com</a>, and if you're interested in being a guest on the show, go to <a href="decidingtolove.com/share-your-story" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">decidingtolove.com/share-your-story</a> to learn more and apply to be on the show! <br>You can also follow Deciding to Love for short clips and inspiration from the show: <br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/decidingtolovexo" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.instagram.com/decidingtolovexo</a> <br><a href="https://www.facebook.com/decidingtolovexo" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.facebook.com/decidingtolovexo</a> <br><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@decidingtolovexo" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.tiktok.com/@decidingtolovexo</a></p>
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