Deconstructing Dating is a podcast where two matchmaker cousins invite hilarious guests to help them pick apart a common dating idea to determine whether it is a dating myth or a dating truth. Do you have to wait three days to contact someone after a date? Can you have too many dealbreakers? Is there always something better out there? Tiana, Marnie, and their fabulous guests will discuss the things we’ve been wondering about courtship since before dating apps existed and give real-life, actionable steps to navigate the modern dating world.
Justin Kaufmann explores the challenges and potential transformations within the bachelor lifestyle, examining commitment, temptation, and the possibility of settling down in this interview.
9 Jun 2025
Do Americans find more success dating abroad? with Melanie Reiff
Melanie Reiff shares her international dating experiences with hosts Tiana and Marnie, revealing the realities and fantasies of finding love abroad in this interview.
2 Jun 2025
Platonic Relationships - Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends? with Jason Lucovich
Jason Lucovich explores the complexities of platonic relationships between men and women, discussing personal experiences, timing, jealousy, and the importance of boundaries in this interview episode.
26 May 2025
Is There Always Something Better Out There? with Natalie Katona
Natalie Katona discusses the pitfalls of unrealistic expectations and endless swiping in the search for a partner, questioning if the pursuit of "better" obscures genuine connection in this interview.
19 May 2025
Wait 3 days to text after the 1st date? Dating rule or dating roulette? with Julia Washington
Joined by guest Julia Washington, founder of Pros and Glow, we delve into the longstanding myth of waiting three days to text after a date and whether it still makes sense in today’s fast-paced digital dating landscape. From classic dating norms to modern communication styles like texting, voice memos, and social media, we unpack the psychology behind playing hard to get, the role of authenticity in relationships, and how responsiveness (or the lack of it) can influence attraction. Julia shares personal stories, navigating dating apps, the impact of early relationship dynamics, and how confidence shifts the way we connect. Does waiting really spark intrigue, or is it just an outdated game?
Find Julia at:
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13 May 2025
Long distance relationships don't work? with Ray Delgado
Tiana and Marnie, the matchmaking duo, dive into a lively debate on whether long-distance relationships can truly work, or are they destined to unravel? Guest Ray Delgado shares his own cross-country love story, taking listeners on a journey filled with surprises, challenges, and hard truths. As the conversation unfolds, trust, compatibility, and relationship logistics take center stage, sparking thoughtful insights. With expert advice on communication, emotional maturity, and long-term planning, Tiana and Marnie break down what it really takes to make love last across the miles.
Keep a watch for Ray Delgado's upcoming podcast:
Sobriety Sucks! But You Need It! A podcast about the challenges and rewards of getting sober.
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6 May 2025
Must Haves - Is there such a thing as too many? with Chris DeRosa
This week on Deconstructing Dating, Tiana and Marnie are joined by special guest Chris DeRosa to tackle one of the most controversial topics in modern romance: the must-have list. You know, that internal spreadsheet of non-negotiables we all pretend we don’t have—until someone shows up wearing crocs to a first date.
With a blend of personal stories, hard-won wisdom, solid professional insight, and just the right amount of oversharing, they break down what really matters in a relationship. Is it shared values? Emotional intelligence? Or just someone who doesn’t ghost after three dates and knows how to split an appetizer?
Chris also reveals his own must-haves, from family dynamics that won’t require therapy (yet), to friends who pass the vibe check, adaptability in social chaos, and yes—even ambition and generosity. Tune in for laughs, insights, and possibly a minor identity crisis.
Check out Chris' podcast Fixing Famous People with Chris DeRosa and Dominick Pupa:
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Who has been a guest on Deconstructing Dating
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Justin Kaufmann
Melanie Reiff
Jason Lucovich
Natalie Katona
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YouTube views
436
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
1 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 33 / 100
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Social presence
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YouTube
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Engagement
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