Deeper with Red - the Podcast

About Deeper with Red - the Podcast

Informational and educational podcasts, digging deeper into the concepts of BDSM, Kink, Polyamory & Life. Don't worry, we're keeping it PG-13 around here, with a focus on the concepts of these lifestyles, not the typical sensationalism you find everywhere. deeperdynamics.substack.com (https://deeperdynamics.substack.com/s/podcast?utm_medium=podcast)

Publisher

Red

Category

health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

27 Dec 2023

Latest episode

14 Jul 2026

Latest episodes

10 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   14 Jul 2026

   E10: Dominants - Let Them Help!

   There are going to be moments when the world around you just goes crazy, and your energy is just off. When you’re struggling, how is it that you not only keep things going - but also still do your thing? And how does your submissive come into play?If you’re anything like me in this BDSM journey, you may find this a tough situation to deal with. With this episode, I am offering some insight that just might help. This Podcast is listener-supported. To receive new episodes and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Video Version Transcript: This one is for the dominants out there, and I need you to listen up because this one’s going to really help clear something up that you may very well be struggling with. As the dominant, we want to be in charge of everything. We want to take care of things. That is how we’re built. We call the shots. We make the decisions. We’re the ones in control. Now, some people would say that makes us just control maniacs. And there may be some truth to that, but reality is we like to lead. We like to direct. That is how we’re built. But what happens when the world around you becomes so chaotic and takes so much of your energy that you don’t have a lot of energy left to give in a lot of places. It is very natural for those who are in submission to you to want to help. They want to be there for you. They want to help accomplish the things that you need to do. Now, I don’t know about you, but for as much as I do love service-oriented submission, it can be hard to accept. I know for me sometimes I struggle with this mindset or this thought process of using them in a negative way. And I never want to be somebody that just uses somebody else. That’s not how I’m built. So, when they want to help and they want to do things in service to me, I struggle sometimes with that. And when my energy is low, when my mental capacity is drained and I am in like a bit of withdrawal… a little bit more of that conservation of my own energy… I know I need help with things. I know I need that help to accomplish other aspects of my life. And it becomes very hard to allow those in service to me to do that. Now, I am very aware that there could just be some bullheaded pride in play, and that’s… I don’t think that’s very uncommon at all for most of us on that top side of things. I think we’re quite proud. But if we allow our pride to get in the way of not getting the help we need, we’re doing everybody a disservice. And we’re quite frankly stealing opportunity from our submissive partners to do the very thing they want to do which is serve and please. Now this is a struggle I have dealt with for my entire journey in this lifestyle. I have struggled with this point of… how do I allow them to do these things for me without me feeling like I am now taking advantage of them, because again I never want to feel like I’m doing that. Add to that mix the real reality that in some ways they want to be used and it can get quite complex, no doubt. So, the reality of what I want to point out in this very short and very simple episode today is that when you find yourself in that place where you need the help, you know it, you can feel it… your energy is just off for whatever reason… you know you need the help… Don’t be afraid to ask for it. Let them serve. Let them step into that role. It will actually strengthen your dynamic more than you realize because you’re not showing a sign of weakness. You’re actually showing a sign of humanity. And it’s important that they see that in you as well. They need to see that you are still human. And they need to see that when you are struggling somewhere along the way, they can step in and help support you in everything you’re trying to do. It makes them feel incredibly special to do that. So, if you’re struggling with this, if you’re fighting, pushing past your own pride and allowing this to happen, take it from somebody that understands that and just let it happen for a little bit. Try it. See how it works because you might just be amazed at the impact it makes for yourself, for your partner, but then also in the dynamic that you are creating. This can be an incredibly powerful shift that benefits everybody involved. Thanks for hanging out and I hope that you’ll subscribe. Make sure you leave any comments and a little bit of love for the podcast and we will catch you in the next one. Thanks for tuning in to the Deeper Podcast. I hope that you not only enjoyed the episode, but maybe something new jumped out at you. Hopefully, something that changed your perspective and maybe has you thinking a bit more. I’d love to hear from you. If you have comments, show ideas, or questions, please check out the show website at deeperwithred.com, click on the feedback tab, and send a message there. You also find other episodes, related materials, and even ways to show your fan support right there on the website. So, we’ll see you there. Until next time, whenever or wherever you can, go deeper. Podcast Episode hosted by Red Thanks for listening in and enjoying this podcast episode. If you know of someone else that would appreciate this work, please be sure to share it with them. Comments and shares are always appreciated. Not subscribed? Let’s make it easy for you! Get full access to Deeper Dynamics at deeperdynamics.substack.com/subscribe (https://deeperdynamics.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

2. 

   2 Oct 2024

   E9: Rebuilding After the Storm

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think!Rebuilding After the Storm: Navigating Life's Unexpected ChallengesIn this heartfelt episode of Deeper With Red, Red reflects on the devastating impact of a recent hurricane on Asheville, North Carolina, and connects it to the broader theme of rebuilding after life's unexpected setbacks. Red shares personal experiences and insights on the importance of self-assessment, planning, and finding courage to start over, whether it's in rel...

3. 

   10 Jun 2024

   E8: Dealing with Drop in BDSM

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) Sub & Top Drop in BDSM: What is it, how does it affect you, how do you deal with it, and when will it ever end? This episode will dive into Drop (sub drop and top drop) to help you better understand what to do! Featuring a special guest as well! Grab a cup of coffee and get comfy. This one is going to give you a lot of information! Don't forget to subscribe, and drop a comment - tell me about your experience with drop, and how you deal with it! Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

4. 

   3 Jun 2024

   E7: Mind Reading in BDSM

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) Mind Reading in BDSM? Yeah.. You know... when that perfect Dominant just knows how to read your mind, or that perfect submissive that doesn't have to ask any questions... Yeah, we're touching on that one right here! Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

5. 

   27 May 2024

   E6: Where to Start with BDSM

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) So where do you start when exploring the kink and BDSM lifestyle? This video will help you explore a number of ways to get started, so listen in and take notes. Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

6. 

   20 May 2024

   E5: Instant Results in BDSM

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) We're so used to instant everything, but how does that impact our dynamics, play partners, friends and other relationships? In this episode, we'll talk about this issue. So tune in, download the episode and enjoy. Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

7. 

   29 Jan 2024

   E4: The Heart of BDSM

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) What is BDSM? What's at the Heart of it all? In this episode, we explore what BDSM means, as well as the power exchange. We also touch on consent in the kink lifestyle, a few safety tips for BDSM, and provide ideas on a few kinks to explore.  A bit of a BDSM 101 introduction. Come hang for a bit! Let's go Deeper! Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

8. 

   26 Jan 2024

   E3: Why a BDSM Podcast?

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) Why am I doing a podcast about BDSM? In this episode, I discuss the reasons for starting a podcast about the BDSM lifestyle, why anyone should even bother listening to me talk about this kink journey, and what I am hoping to see as a result. The Deeper with Red podcast is an informative series about the BDSM lifestyle, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

9. 

   20 Jan 2024

   E2: BDSM Frenzy - This Can Fuck You Up!

   After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) Frenzy... what the hell is it? And how can it totally fuck up your journey? In this episode, we're going to talk about the concept of frenzy, how it can mess you up if you're not careful, and how to deal with it when you're actually caught up in it. Frenzy within the BDSM lifestyle can truly cause some major issues, and lead to some very bad decisions. Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

10. 

    27 Dec 2023

    E1: I'm Scared! A BDSM podcaster's fears exposed.

    After listening... Click here to tell me what you think! (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2293655/open_sms) A behind the scenes confession from a new podcaster, about to start his own channel. Will he fail? Thanks for checking out my first podcast episode. This is a clip that happened while testing the equipment, and I just began talking. I decided to use it to practice some further editing and wanted to share. Warning, there’s some vulnerability going on here… But, I do want feedback, so feel free to comment. Support the Show. (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) About the Podcast: The Deeper with Red Podcast is an educational and informative podcast around the concepts of BDSM, Kink and polyamorous lifestyles, designed to help others as they explore the kink and BDSM world. ----- How to Connect: Subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred (https://www.youtube.com/@deeperwithred) Visit the Website: DeeperWithRed.com (https://deeperwithred.com) You can also listen to the podcast on your favorite podcast provider. --- Enjoying the Show? Please consider becoming a Fan and supporting the show! You can show your support through the podcast host, Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support), or by becoming a Fan Supporter at Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed). The ultimate hope is to offer content that makes a difference in the lives of others. Your support is needed, and greatly appreciated. The time, energy and expense that goes into this process is quite a bit, but I am dedicated to not only launching, but succeeding. Support via Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2293655/support) Become a Patreon Fan (https://www.patreon.com/DeeperWithRed)

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