An inclusive podcast about sex and sexuality. Chats on diverse topics with guests from a range of lived experiences. Also I ask people to pick their favourite sex toy and revel in the ensuing chaos.
Hosted by Quenby, follow us on Twitter @DIDildos
CW: Breeding kink
We’re chatting about queering relationship dynamics with sex writer and erotica editor/author Mx Nillin Lore (https://twitter.com/MxNillinLore). Listen to them talk with Quenby about relationship escalators, romantic scripts, and queer-as-shit dynamics as they share their perspective as a queer, polyamorous, greyromantic andro-babe with a girl cock.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos and you can find transcripts of every episode here! (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/) You can also support the podcast on Patreon from just £2 per month (https://www.patreon.com/DIDildos)
29 Sept 2021
201: Jem Zero - Intimacy and Trauma
CW: Discussions of Trauma, Homelessness, Sex Work, Transphobia
In our first episode back after the break Quenby is joined by autistic disabled transmasc writer Jem Zero to talk about intimacy and trauma in zir new book Home Within Skin. Join us as Quenby fanbies over the book, two award winning writers nerd out about immersive storytelling, and they bond over a mutual longing for gentacles.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos and you can find transcripts of every episode here! (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/) You can also support the podcast on Patreon from just £2 per month (https://www.patreon.com/DIDildos)
9 Jun 2021
108: Charlie Knight - Monsterfucking
CW: Monsterfucking, Reference to Transphobia
Quenby is joined by Charlie to discuss monsterfucking in our horniest episode yet. Charlie uses their online presence to boost marginalized voices and writers, educate authors on topics ranging from commas to inclusivity, and connect with new people. But mostly they geek out about video games, space, and their fanfic. Join us as we discuss our shared love of monsterfucking, what's so damn sexy about it, and why it appeals to queer people. Also expect shameless flirting, discussion of which monsters we want to bone, and as always what sex toy they're getting stuck on a Desert Island with.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos and you can find transcripts of every episode here! (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)
26 May 2021
107: Kitty - Factions in Alt-Sex Communities
CW: Discussions of Whorephobia, Biphobia, and Kink (including references to Choking)
This week Quenby is joined by bisexual sex worker, kinkster, and self-described polyamorous slut Kitty. She shares her thoughts on how divisions form between and within these distinct but related identities. We also chat about the politics around sex work, how kink means different things to different people, and the best outro we've ever recorded!
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos and you can find (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)transcripts of every episode here! (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)
12 May 2021
106: GOTN - Audio Porn
This week Quenby is joined by sex blogging legend Girl On The Net (https://www.girlonthenet.com/) to talk about their shared love of audio porn, misconceptions about it, and tips on how to give it a go as either a listener or a performer.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos and you can find transcripts of every episode here! (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)
28 Apr 2021
105: Amy Norton - Abuse in Kink and Polyamory
CW: Discussion of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse
In this episode Quenby chats with sex blogger and poly kinkster Amy Norton about her experiences as a survivor and ways in which alt-sex communities can enable abuse.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos (https://twitter.com/DIDildos) (https://twitter.com/DIDildos)and you can find transcripts of every episode here! (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)
7 Apr 2021
104: Andreena - Queer Poetry and Events
CW - Discussion of trauma (including childhood sexual abuse), and substance abuse.
In this episode Quenby chats with Black, working-class lesbian poet Andreena Leeanne about how poetry can help LGBT+ people process their experiences, and the special place queer events hold in both our hearts. She also shares some poems from her new book "Charred: A Survivor Speaks Her Truth To Inspire" and tells us about her Desert Island Sex Toy.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos (https://twitter.com/DIDildos)and you can find transcripts of every episode here (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)!
24 Mar 2021
103: Charlie - Disability, Sex Work & Toxic Masculinity
I chat with Charlie about her experiences as a disabled sex worker and kinkster. Join us as we chat about the accessibility of sexual spaces, how disabled people are denied sexual agency, and how toxic masculinity harms people of all genders. Wherever you're listening please give us a follow, rate the show, and check us out @DIDildos on Twitter (https://twitter.com/DIDildos).
If you'd like to access a transcript of this episode, it's available here (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/).
10 Mar 2021
102: Anne Stagg - Queer History & The AIDS Crisis
CW - This episode talks about various forms of queerphobia, and the AIDS crisis in the 80s and 90s
This week Quenby chats with qenderqueer femme author Anne Stagg about the importance of queer history, the role fiction plays in reconstructing this heritage, and their experiences coming of age in the USA during the AIDS crisis. We also get to hear the beautiful reasons behind their choice of Desert Island sex toy.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos and you can find transcripts of every episode here (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)!
24 Feb 2021
Episode 1: Eliott Simpson - Asexual Dating
For our first episode Quenby chats with asexual comedian Eliott Simpson about his experiences growing up in a sex-centred world, and what dating's like for an asexual panromantic.
Follow the podcast on Twitter @DIDildos (https://twitter.com/DIDildos) and you can find transcripts of every episode here (https://quenbycreatives.com/desert-island-dildos/)!
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