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- 2026
- First episode
About Did She Just Say Sex?
Did She Just Say Sex? Yes — she did. And if that made you feel a type of way, then buckle up! This podcast is an honest, unfiltered space for Christians who love God, have real questions, and are tired of not having anywhere to feel safe to speak about it. Over here, we talk about sex, abstinence, desire, shame, identity, and the Church, without shame and through the lens of Christian faith - always. Whether you’re celibate, married, confused, waiting, healing, or just curious, this is for you. Because sex and Christianity aren’t enemies. They coexist. And it’s time we started talking about it.
- Publisher
- Lanikai Hunters
- Category
- health & fitness · religion & spirituality
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 7 May 2026
- Latest episode
- 21 Aug 2026
Latest episodes
9 episodes in the feed.
21 Aug 2026
EPISODE 8 - SEASON FINALE - So...What Do I Actually Believe About Sex?
In the Season 1 Finale - Lanikai shares her journey of starting a Christian sex podcast, exploring misconceptions about sex in faith, and the importance of stewardship, honesty, and understanding in sexuality. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and podcast background 01:56 The motivation behind starting the podcast 03:59 God's role in the podcast journey 05:53 Misconceptions about sex in Christianity 07:53 Sexual desire as a fire, not the enemy 10:02 Stewardship over sexual desires 11:51 The importance of understanding and obedience 13:47 God's openness to honesty and messiness 16:12 Abstinence as an expression of obedience 19:08 Desire and obedience coexistence 21:07 Marriage is not a reward for abstinence 23:02 Heart posture over transactional obedience 24:52 Questions about faith, desire, and purpose 28:11 Future plans for the podcast and community 32:02 Season two: visual podcast and team building 33:55 Closing remarks and upcoming episodes We are building a team! If you are or know a: Graphic Designer Social Media Manager Video Editor Please send an email to didshejustsaysex@gmail.com (mailto:didshejustsaysex@gmail.com), or send a DM on Instagram @didshejustsaysex or @lanikai.hunters Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9)
13 Aug 2026
EPISODE 7 - Questions Episode
In this episode, the Lanikai addresses some listener questions about sex, faith, and personal boundaries, emphasizing honesty with God and understanding biblical principles. Topics include regret over past sexual experiences, having a type, managing lust, and the difference between abstinence and celibacy. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 03:22 Addressing regret over past sexual experiences 09:05 The war between flesh and spirit in desires 12:28 The difference between worldly sorrow and godly sorrow 15:27 Is it wrong to have a type? 23:18 Managing sexual desire and lust 29:56 What counts as sexual immorality? 37:14 Masturbation and its biblical considerations 40:42 Difference between abstinence and celibacy 42:33 Feeling no conviction about sex as a Christian 50:27 Final thoughts and encouragement Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast as a guest - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
23 Jul 2026
EPISODE 6 - Dilemmas Episode
Lanikai shares insights on navigating sex and relationships within Christian faith, addressing dilemmas from listeners about marriage, sex, and personal growth. This episode emphasizes communication, grace, and self-awareness in the journey of faith and love. Key Topics Sexual compatibility in Christian dating Discussing hard no's and hard yes's in intimacy Healing and self-care after divorce The importance of communication in marriage Challenging purity culture myths Chapters 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 00:30 Listener feedback and episode themes 02:23 Dilemmas episode introduction 03:22 Discussing sexual compatibility before marriage 06:15 Hard no's and hard yes's in intimacy 08:14 The learning curve of sex in marriage 10:42 Healing and grace after divorce 18:52 Addressing sexual dissatisfaction in marriage 22:43 Communication and feedback in sex 27:33 Conclusion and next steps Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
16 Jul 2026
EPISODE 05 - Christian Women... Stop Being Ugly
In this episode, Lanikai explores the complex relationship between beauty, modesty, and spirituality within Christian culture. She emphasizes that enjoying beauty and taking pride in appearance are not incompatible with holiness, and discusses how societal and religious expectations often distort this balance. Key Topics The relationship between beauty and holiness in Christian culture Misconceptions about modesty and vanity Biblical examples of beautiful women and their character The importance of heart posture in modesty The role of self-care and self-expression in faith Gender differences in perceptions of modesty The danger of using appearance as a measure of spiritual worth Stewardship of beauty and self-image Chapters 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 00:31 The controversy around Christian women and beauty 01:28 Self-care versus vanity in faith 02:24 Beauty as a biblical attribute and its misinterpretation 03:53 Christian women enjoying beauty without guilt 04:52 The false dichotomy of modesty and beauty 06:46 Biblical descriptions of beautiful women 08:14 Beauty as a character, not just appearance 09:13 Acknowledging beauty without worshipping it 10:12 Confidence and self-love in faith 11:11 Effortless beauty and self-care practices 13:37 Modesty as a heart posture, not just clothing 14:35 The problem with demonizing the body 17:25 Men and modesty: addressing the double standard 20:21 The biblical view of modesty for men and women 22:15 The cultural gendering of modesty 23:14 Personal convictions versus universal standards 30:59 Dressing intentionally and heart posture 34:20 The deeper meaning of modesty beyond clothing 36:20 Validation, social media, and self-worth 38:46 Stewardship of beauty and self-image 41:14 The danger of appearance as a measure of holiness 43:24 Encouragement for authentic self-expression 45:17 Closing remarks and upcoming episodes Tiktok Video: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNRoWreVb/ (https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNRoWreVb/) Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
10 Jul 2026
EPISODE 04 - So... Where The HECK Is My Husband?
Lanikai shares her personal journey with dating, including her struggles, standards, and faith-based perspectives on finding a Christian partner. This episode offers honest insights into navigating love and faith in today's world. Key Topics Personal journey with dating and breakups The importance of non-negotiables and desirables in a partner Challenges of dating as a Christian in today's world The significance of abstinence and faith in relationships The impact of past relationships on current dating mindset Chapters 00:00 Introduction and podcast background 02:22 The fear of starting the podcast and audience appreciation 04:16 Personal struggles with dating and past relationship 07:03 Leaving a long-term relationship and identity crisis 09:55 Conscious decision to stop dating for years 12:17 Realization of being avoidant and desire for love 15:38 Deciding to open up to dating again in 2026 17:34 The rarity of her type and high standards 20:29 Attraction and physical preferences in Christian dating 23:23 Non-negotiables and desirables in a partner 26:19 The challenge of meeting abstinent Christian men 29:40 The difficulty of dating in the church context 34:57 Encouragement to approach and pursue in faith 41:15 Hope, trust in God's timing, and future plans Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
2 Jul 2026
EPISODE 03 - The ABC's of Abstinence
In this episode, Lanikai explores practical ways to steward your sexuality and maintain abstinence, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, heart posture, and seeking God's guidance. She shares personal insights, biblical principles, and actionable tips for living a Christ-centered life of purity. Key Topics The biblical definition of abstinence versus celibacy Practical boundaries to maintain abstinence The importance of heart posture and motivation Seeking God's guidance for personal boundaries The role of wisdom versus permission in self-control The significance of being equally yoked in relationships Avoiding the trap of building boundaries around current seasons The importance of Christlikeness over abstinence as a goal Chapters 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:32 God's view of abstinence as stewardship 03:02 Difference between abstinence and celibacy 04:42 Practical steps to steward sexuality 06:46 Biblical basis for boundaries in sex 09:48 Personal boundaries and self-control 11:25 Avoiding the line: asking God for boundaries 13:32 Wisdom vs permission analogy 15:52 Dating someone not abstinent: what to consider 18:50 Being equally yoked in pursuit of abstinence 21:42 Goals: Christlikeness over abstinence 22:42 Summary of practical steps for abstinence 25:03 Final encouragement and seeking God Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
25 Jun 2026
EPISODE 02 - How Could I Love God & Still Want Sex?
In this episode, Lanikai explores the complex relationship between faith, shame, and sexuality. She shares her personal journey with abstinence, the difference between conviction and shame, and how understanding God's purpose for desire can transform our approach to sexuality. Key Topics The difference between conviction and shame The role of desire in God's plan Personal journey with abstinence and shame The importance of understanding God's purpose for desire How to steward abstinence in a biblical way Chapters 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 00:53 Exploring shame and its impact on faith 01:28 Personal journey with sexuality and shame 02:11 The significance of abstinence in faith 03:25 Falling into sin and feelings of shame 04:44 Displaced identity and pride in abstinence 05:47 The difference between conviction and shame 09:56 God's grace and the role of conviction 11:30 Renewing the mind and worldly standards 12:18 Desire is not the enemy 13:41 God's purpose for desire and stewardship 16:00 The importance of understanding the 'why' 17:20 Building infrastructure for future faith 18:53 The enemy's manipulation of conviction 19:22 Renewing the mind to resist the enemy 21:31 The battle between spirit and flesh 22:23 Approaching abstinence with God's understanding 23:48 Next steps in pursuing abstinence 24:45 Closing remarks and encouragement Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
18 Jun 2026
EPISODE 01 - I Learned About Sex Before I Understood Sex
Lanikai shares her personal journey from curiosity about sex to understanding God's design, emphasizing the importance of understanding the 'why' behind biblical teachings on sex. This episode explores her experiences, questions, and the need for open conversations about sex within the Christian community. Socials @DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681 (https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681) Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3 (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2 (https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087) Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/6d31f1d8-a5ad-444c-b6b1-949b7f87ee7c/did-she-just-say-sex) Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 01:21 Curiosity About Sex 04:35 The Need for Understanding 08:12 Theoretical Knowledge vs. Personal Experience 12:25 Abstinence and Intimacy 16:37 Transforming Understanding of Sex 20:24 The Importance of Conversations 24:25 The Shift in Perspective 27:07 Creating a Safe Space for Questions The link for dilemmas & questions: https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9 (https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9) If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!
7 May 2026
Official Trailer | Did She Just Say Sex?
A lot of us were told not to talk about sex… before we were ever taught what it actually is. So we asked questions and got shut down. Or worse, we stopped asking altogether. But the curiosity didn’t go away. This podcast is a space to have the conversations we were never allowed to have growing up — about sex, faith, and everything in between. Honestly. Faithfully. Without shame. Episode one is coming soon. 🎙️ Follow the podcast on Instagram: @didshejustsaysex 📺 Watch and subscribe on YouTube & Spotify: @DidSheJustSaySex We will be available on other podcast platforms soon! ✨ & Follow me, the host: @lanikai.hunters on all social platforms
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