When you boil it down at the end of the day everybody wants to be heard. We are a group of 5 young black men, who want our voices to be heard. We talk about real-world issues and how they affect us. We don’t hold back that’s why we are Different by Default
Podcast Season 6, Episode 11Ladies, let’s talk! In this episode, we’re diving into the real, unfiltered conversations every girl has with her besties. We’re asking the BIG questions:💅 What makes a man sassy? Are we overusing the term, or does it apply?👀 Have you ever been secretly attracted to your man’s friend? Be honest!💰 Does money really make you ignore red flags, or is it just a myth?Nothing is off-limits in this hilarious and raw discussion, so grab your snacks and let’s get into it!------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Timeline0:00 - Intro00:41 - What do you do when your man has everything going for him but he’s not an “eater”2:56 - What makes a man sassy4:50 - What makes a man a provider7:10 - How can you notice a broke man10:01 - Does money make you ignore red flags12:07 - What would you do if your man say your pussy stank14:36 - Are you keeping the kid if your man is a cheater16:27 - If your man cheats are you going to get your get back19:00 - Have you ever been secretly attracted to your mans friend 19:41 - Has there ever been a time you went back for closure ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------💬 We want to hear from you! Share your thoughts and reflections in the comments below.🔗 Links:📲 Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/Differentbydefault🎧 Listen to the podcast on Spotify/Apple: https://linktr.ee/Differentbydefault🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations and relatable moments!#GirlPower #WomenEmpowerment #DiverseVoices #InspirationalWomen #FemalePerspective #QuestionAndAnswer #EmpoweringConversations #ShareYourStory #BreakingBarriers #GirlTalk #SassyMen #RedFlags #Relationships #GirlCode #SpicyConvos
Podcast Season 6, Episode 10 | Identity, Growth & Overcoming Life’s ChallengesIn this episode, we’re diving deep into personal growth, mental health, and self-reflection. We’re unpacking:🔹 How do you define your personal identity?🔹 How has your identity evolved from your teenage years to adulthood?🔹 Have your priorities shifted as you’ve grown older? What matters most to you now?🔹 Biggest challenges women in our age group face with mental health & how we can support one another🔹 Imposter syndrome—have you faced it? How do you push through?🔹 How do you stay motivated when facing obstacles or setbacks?🔹 The biggest lesson from your last relationship🔹 Advice you’d give your younger self (ages 15-18)🔹 Are you an optimist or a pessimist?🔹 What are you most passionate about right now?This episode is all about self-discovery, growth, and learning from life’s ups and downs. 💭✨💬 What’s a lesson you’ve learned that shaped who you are today? Drop your thoughts in the comments!🔗 Links:📲 Follow us on social media: [Insert Links Here]🎧 Listen to the podcast on Spotify/Apple: [Insert Links Here]👕 Grab the merch: [Insert Links Here]🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations and real-life discussions!Hashtags:#Podcast #SelfGrowth #MentalHealth #Identity #LifeLessons #Motivation #ImposterSyndrome #OptimistVsPessimist #PassionAndPurpose
3 Feb 2025
Why Nobody Talks About This Side of Life
Podcast Season 6, Episode 6 | Navigating Life’s Lows, Insecurities & TikTok Drama
In this episode, we’re getting real about life’s challenges, mental health, and viral moments:
🌧️ How do you deal with the lows in life?
🧠 Have you ever faced depression? Let’s break the stigma and talk about it.
🍃 Does medicating with weed or alcohol really help you get through tough times—or does it make things worse?
💭 What are some common insecurities you notice in yourself or others?
📱 With TikTok going down for a while, did people overreact, or was the panic justified?
💬 Join the conversation! Drop your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
🔗 Links:
📲 Follow us on social media: https://linktr.ee/Differentbydefault
🎧 Listen to the podcast on Spotify/Apple: https://linktr.ee/Differentbydefault
🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations and unfiltered takes!
Hashtags:
#Podcast #MentalHealth #LifeStruggles #Depression #Insecurities #TikTokDrama #RealConversations
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YouTube views
103,009
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
8 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
4 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 70 / 100
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Quality
60
Social presence
91
YouTube
82
Engagement
71
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