The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.
Closeted and Complicated: Dating Someone Who Isn't Out
What happens when you're dating someone who isn't out of the closet? Maybe they're out to a few close friends but not their family. Maybe you're completely open about who you are while they're asking you to keep your relationship a secret. And maybe you understand why they're not ready—but you're starting to wonder how long you're willing to wait.
In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer Podcast, we're talking about the complicated reality of dating someone who isn't out. We'll explore the difference between privacy and secrecy, how being closeted can affect intimacy and sex, and what it feels like to be someone's partner but not be acknowledged publicly.
We'll also tackle some difficult questions: Can a relationship work when one person is still in the closet? Is it fair to ask someone to come out for the sake of the relationship? How do you set boundaries without pressuring someone? And what happens when supporting their journey starts coming at the expense of your own happiness?
Because coming out is a deeply personal journey—but so is deciding what you need from a relationship. Sometimes loving someone means giving them time. And sometimes loving yourself means deciding that you can't wait forever.
Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com.
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The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
7 Oct 2026
The STI You Didn't Know You Had
What if you could have an STI and have absolutely no idea? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer Podcast, we're talking about the infections that can fly under the radar—sometimes for months or even years—without obvious symptoms.
We'll break down what people really mean when they say an STI is "dormant," which sexually transmitted infections can remain hidden, and why feeling perfectly healthy doesn't necessarily mean you're STI-free. We'll also talk about why regular testing matters, what you should actually be asking to be tested for, and how different sexual activities can require different types of screening.
But an STI diagnosis isn't just a medical issue—it can become a relationship issue, too. What happens when someone tests positive and immediately wonders, "Did my partner cheat?" Can a positive test tell you when an infection was acquired? And how do you have an honest conversation about sexual health without turning it into a blame game?
From testing and prevention to trust, communication, stigma, and sex after an STI diagnosis, this episode is all about knowing your status, protecting your partners, and remembering one very important thing: no symptoms doesn't always mean no STI.
Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com.
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The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
30 Sept 2026
Bear Necessities and Other Dirty Details
Bears, Bears, Everywhere!
This week on The Dildo Whisperer, Romaine is shaking things up! With Ajay out this week dealing with some medical issues, Romaine welcomes her good friend Chris to the podcast—and he comes armed with plenty of stories and opinions.
The topic? Bears! From bear weekends and regional gatherings to some of the biggest bear events around the world, Romaine and Chris dive into what makes this community and its events so much fun. Chris has been to bear events all over the globe, and he's ready to spill the tea on what really happens once everyone arrives.
What should a first-timer expect? What are these events actually like? How do you navigate the crowds, the parties, the social scene and all the different personalities? And perhaps most importantly… what the hell should you pack?
Chris also gives his take on some of the biggest bear events in the U.S., including what's working, what could use some improvement, and what organizers and attendees might want to think about for the future.
And just when you think you've heard it all, there's a poop scandal that you absolutely have to hear to believe!
Whether you're a seasoned bear-event veteran, bear-curious, or someone who has wondered what actually goes on at these weekends, this episode is packed with stories, laughs, advice and plenty of surprises.
Grab your gear, pack your bags and come join the bears!
Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com.
Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer
The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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