Dirty Panties Podcast

About Dirty Panties Podcast

One guest. Ten deeply personal questions. Host Venus Valentine digs deep into the dirty laundry of drag queens, queer luminaries, authors, artists, religious leaders, activists, performers, sex workers, and others for hilarious, horrifying and touching uncensored stories about their love and sex lives. This podcast is recommended for listeners 18 years or older.

Publisher

Venus Valentine

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

31 May 2020

Latest episode

1 Sept 2021

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Sept 2021

   Damian Rath and Madeira Darling: Satanic Sex Worker Power Couple (Part Two)

   "There's nothing wrong with fucking to Dolly Parton." -Madeira Darling This episode is part two of a two part interview with Satanic Faith Community Leaders Damian Rath and Madeira Darling. Damian Rath is a professional Master and phone sex operator. He specializes in Satanic domination, hypnosis, humiliation, heavy sadism, feminization, and bisexual encouragement. He draws on more than a decade of kink scene experience, as well as training in creative writing, theater, and theology. When he isn't busy tormenting submissives, he enjoys horror films, live music, and the study and practice of occultism. Madeira Darling is a professional dominatrix, stand up comic, erotic author and Satanic Priestess residing with her husband, a black cat, a massive pitbull and an antique china hutch in a giallo cinema inspired apartment in Providence Rhode Island. In this episode we discuss: The perils of San Francisco's most notorious lesbian bar Why are so many vegan restaurants operated by cults? The best goth and industrial music for working out "Jolene" as cuckquean fetish anthem Catacombs and hedge maze fantasies Relevant links: Damian's Niteflirt (https://www.niteflirt.com/DamianRath) Madeira's Niteflirt (https://www.niteflirt.com/MadeiraDarling) SoMa novel (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SoMa_(novel)) Nitzer Ebb's "Join in the Chant" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0HsjYtdAKM) Ballad of Ho Chi Minh (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyE1_0itU84) Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com (mailto:venusstarfruit@gmail.com)

2. 

   18 Aug 2021

   Damian Rath and Madeira Darling: Satanic Sex Worker Power Couple (Part One)

   "When it comes to incubi and succubi, I tell them that those demons are going to show up if they want to. They will show up if they fucking feel like it, and not otherwise." -Damian Rath This episode is part one of a two part interview with Satanic Faith Community Leaders and Sex Worker Power Couple Damian Rath and Madeira Darling. Damian Rath is a professional Master and phone sex operator. He specializes in Satanic domination, hypnosis, humiliation, heavy sadism, feminization, and bisexual encouragement. He draws on more than a decade of kink scene experience, as well as training in creative writing, theater, and theology. When he isn't busy tormenting submissives, he enjoys horror films, live music, and the study and practice of occultism. Madeira Darling is a professional dominatrix, stand up comic, erotic author and Satanic Priestess residing with her husband, a black cat, a massive pitbull and an antique china hutch in a giallo cinema inspired apartment in Providence Rhode Island. In this episode we discuss: Historical descriptions of the Devil's penis The "Chronic Masturgator" 365 Days Movie and the dangers of "dickmosis" "The boy with the polished golden asshole" Bimbo Jesus Stay tuned for Part Two, in two weeks! Relevant links: Damian's Niteflirt (https://www.niteflirt.com/DamianRath) Madeira's Niteflirt (https://www.niteflirt.com/MadeiraDarling) Sommore's "Dickmotized" bit (https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x38z2ie) The Motley Crue Burrito story (https://sleazeroxx.com/motley-crue-members-would-rub-egg-burritos-on-their-crotches-to-hide-sex-smell/) 365 Days movie (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/365_Days_(2020_film)) Stigmata movie (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stigmata_(film)) Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com (mailto:venusstarfruit@gmail.com)

3. 

   28 Jul 2021

   Elyse Elaine: Burlesque Performer, Radio Host, Model

   "People are lied to out of politeness. Am I blunt, or are you so lied to on a consistent basis that what I say sounds harsher?" -Elyse Elaine This week I am interviewing Burlesque Goddess Elyse Elaine! Hailing from the bay area, Elyse Elaine came onto the scene in Oct. 2011 as a burlesque performer and Co-producer of Womanopoly SF. 9 years later she resides in Las Vegas as a radio host at Hot 702.5FM, a core member of burlesque troupe HAUS OF GLAMOUR, and a model/muse for local artists and photographers. Known for bringing raw sex appeal and GLAMOUR, Elyse is RAUNCH IN ITS FINEST FORM. Episode highlights include: -Burlesque as sex magick -The problem with uneven accountability for sexual predators across racial lines -Elyse's recipe for an E-40 Slurricane cocktail -A dreamy bookstore date -How 2 Chainz got the nickname "Tity Boi" -What does it really mean when someone offers to buy you a drink? Relevant links: Elyse's Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/themarilynwithmelanin/) 2 of a Kind Radio Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/2oakradio/) The Haunting on Hill House book  (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Haunting_of_Hill_House) Out novel (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Out_(novel)) Show email: Venusstarfruit@gmail.com (mailto:Venusstarfruit@gmail.com)

4. 

   30 Jun 2021

   Bethany Stevens: Sex and Disability Expert and Activist

   "This is what love looks like for a wheelchair user, to travel across the world to climb some stairs for someone." This time, we dive deep with Bethany Stevens, MA, JD. Bethany is a wheelchair using white cis (AFAB), pronouns (she/her), queer sexologist and sociology doctoral student in Sociology at Georgia State University. She’s writing her dissertation about the politics of pleasure within the history of the disability rights movement in the United States, particularly focusing on discourses of disability resistance and pleasure politics presented in the Netflix and Obama production teamed documentary Crip Camp (2020). Her other research and activism has centered on ableism impacting sexual and reproductive health of disabled people, prevention of sexual violence, transability, and the radical possibilities of sexual communication. Episode highlights include: Getting one's dicks in a row Libra Bethany was (unsuccessfully) engineered to be a Scorpio by her Pisces parents (!?) The importance of extending eroticism beyond the genital zone (for EVERYONE!) A regrettable threesome with a law school ambassador Reenacting the Odessa Steps scene from Battleship Potemkin as an act of love Using bungee cords to make sex toys accessible Relevant links: Bethany's instagram (https://www.instagram.com/disabethany/?hl=en), where you can view the Corona Look of the Day Project Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com (mailto:venusstarfruit@gmail.com) Our theme music is "Euphoria" by Decek (https://decek.bandcamp.com/album/euphoria-single).

5. 

   24 Jun 2021

   Bonus Episode: Lisa Carver Talks About Online Dating in France

   Friend of the pod and previous guest author Lisa Carver returns for a bonus episode, where she talks about her time spent on Meetic, the French version of Match.com, where she is being wooed by numerous suitors in preparation for her upcoming romantic 3 month trip to Paris! Episode Highlights Include: -Lisa is accused of being a "Tourist of Love" by French men, who find her "thrilling" -The time that Venus manifested a date with a sexy Osama Bin Laden lookalike in Iceland -Lisa was catfished by a British man pretending to be French! -The appeal of a man in a jaunty scarf -A discussion of "Paris Syndrome," an psychosomatic condition in which visceral disillusionment with Paris may lead to paranoia, vomiting, and hallucination Support Lisa on Patreon to follow her adventures in France!  (https://www.patreon.com/LisaCarver)

6. 

   2 Jun 2021

   Alexxxis Allure, BBW Adult Entertainer

   "What happens on the way to Vegas stays in Vegas!" I am excited to welcome beautiful and charming BBW adult film star Alexxxis Allure back to Dirty Panties podcast! Last fall we did a mini episode where we talked about Alexxxis' cameo in the Pauly Shore film Guest House (https://www.amazon.com/Guest-House-Pauly-Shore/dp/B08H2HYPMD/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2VZG9HJ63YZ8W&dchild=1&keywords=guest+house&qid=1599635466&s=instant-video&sprefix=guest+%2Cinstant-video%2C212&sr=1-2), this time Alexxxis gets in the hot seat for the ten questions! Episode Highlights Include: -The trials and tribulations of using Tinder while fat -Embracing homewrecking as sexual fetish -What it's like to date as a porn star -Is Peter Steele actually Tommy Wiseau? Follow Alexxxis on Twitter: https://twitter.com/AlexxxisAllure (https://twitter.com/AlexxxisAllure) Subscribe to Alexxxis's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/alexxxisallure (https://onlyfans.com/alexxxisallure) Alexxxis's clips store: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/461560/Alexxxis-Allure/Store/Videos/ (https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/461560/Alexxxis-Allure/Store/Videos/) Want a free Dirty Panties Podcast sticker? Rate up 5 stars and leave a review for the show on Apple Podcast, and send a screencap of the review venusstarfruit@gmail.com (mailto:venusstarfruit@gmail.com). I will send you one of these awesome limited edition stickers as thanks, and may even read your review on the show! (Offer limited to USA addresses only, sorry!)

7. 

   12 May 2021

   Sunny Megatron, Sexuality Educator and Media Personality

   Sex Educator Sunny Megatron talks to host Venus Valentine about some of her funniest sex and dating moments.

8. 

   28 Apr 2021

   Jamie Dewolf, Performer and Filmmaker

   So, let’s just address the elephant in the room when it comes to Jamie Dewolf: It’s an open secret that while he is a vocal opponent of Scientology, he is indeed the great grandson of the notorious L. Ron Hubbard. And much like his forebear, he’s a dangerously charismatic redhead who has amassed a cult of devoted followers. However, Jamie has used his powers for good not ill, building a successful career as a writer, performer, and filmmaker. He’s written and performed with inmates at San Quentin Penitentiary, won “Performance of the Year” by NPR’s Snap Judgment, was voted “Best Poet” and “Best Filmmaker” from the East Bay Express, and has lead writing workshops at over 90 universities, high schools and juvenile detention facilities nation-wide. As one of the most in demand hosts in the Bay Area and beyond, he’s a regular ringmaster and curator for circus troupes, vaudeville showcases and music festivals across the U.S., and has produced and hosted the variety show Tourettes Without Regrets, now known as The Rumpus and Ruckus Revival (https://www.ruckusandrumpusrevival.com/), for over twenty years. We've been friends since we used to smoke cigarettes in cemeteries as teenagers, and Jamie allowed me to do a deep dive into his sordid romantic past. Some highlights include: -How Jamie's worst date ever almost ended in death and dismemberment -Why every Scorpio has a scorpion tattoo -Being haunted by "ghost groupies" -Jamie's problematic crush on Ivanka Trump ...and much more Relevant links: Battery's industrial cover of Gangsta's Paradise: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBr2Wm7yPlw (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBr2Wm7yPlw) Veronica Compton: https://criminalminds.fandom.com/wiki/Veronica_Compton (https://criminalminds.fandom.com/wiki/Veronica_Compton) Jamie's Website: https://www.jamiedewolf.com/ (https://www.jamiedewolf.com/) Jamie's Instagram: @jamiedewolf (https://www.instagram.com/jamiedewolf/) Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to Jamie for being our guest, our graphic designer Pedro Recio (https://www.instagram.com/droz19ei8hty/), and Decek (https://decek.bandcamp.com/), who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria (https://decek.bandcamp.com/album/euphoria-single)".

9. 

   9 Sept 2020

   Minisode: BBW Porn Star Alexxxis Allure talks about Guest House

   Alexxxis Allure is a stunning Vegas-based BBW adult performer, known for her bubbly personality, alternative style, and sexy curves! She makes a cameo appearance in Pauly Shore's new comedy film Guest House (https://www.amazon.com/Guest-House-Pauly-Shore/dp/B08H2HYPMD/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2VZG9HJ63YZ8W&dchild=1&keywords=guest+house&qid=1599635466&s=instant-video&sprefix=guest+%2Cinstant-video%2C212&sr=1-2), which was released on streaming platforms on 9/4. Pauly Shore frequently mentions his love for BBWs in this film, which is made extra apparent during the scene in which Alexxxis and Pauly get it on in a sex swing in his red-lit stoner den! We talk about how we met ("you were the girl with blue hair and glitter on her titties!"), the difference between working on porn sets vs. Hollywood film sets, and what it's like to have simulated sex with Pauly Shore. Relevant links: Guest House Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yoXFhob6AmI (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yoXFhob6AmI) Follow Alexxxis on Twitter: https://twitter.com/AlexxxisAllure (https://twitter.com/AlexxxisAllure) Subscribe to Alexxxis's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/alexxxisallure (https://onlyfans.com/alexxxisallure) Support Dirty Panties on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.com (http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.com) Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentine (https://www.instagram.com/bbwvenusvalentine/) Venus’s other projects: https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine (https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine) Email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com

10. 

    26 Aug 2020

    Lisa Carver, Author and Performer

    Lisa Carver began her career in the 1980s as a founding member of the touring performance troupe Suckdog, notorious for their noise music operas that involved aggressive audience participation. In the 1990s she published the seminal zine Rollerderby, which highlighted the works of many prominent underground artists and musicians, myself included. In the 21st century she has written 15 books, including Dancing Queen: A lusty look at the American Dream, her autobiography Drugs Are Nice, and most recently I Love Art, which contains 105 reflections on phenomena ranging from Shia Leboeuf to Legos to the Bible. Lisa Carver is a living legend and was a personal inspiration to me as a young writer in the 1990s. We met via a fateful phone call in 1994, and reconnected in Las Vegas in 2019, where we conducted this in-person a year later. While Lisa has always been extremely public about her private life, we dive even deeper, and discuss: -How we met (Lisa asked Venus for a drawing of her genitalia) -The erotic appeal of Willem Dafoe's wizened chest -Is it better to not be friends with the people you fuck? -Lisa's complicated relationship with guided meditations ...and much more Relevant links: The Lighthouse (Movie): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7984734/ (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7984734/) I Love Art, Lisa's newest book: https://www.tigerbeepress.com/store/p20/I_Love_Art.html (https://www.tigerbeepress.com/store/p20/I_Love_Art.html) Lisa's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/LisaCarver (https://www.patreon.com/LisaCarver) Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentine (https://www.instagram.com/bbwvenusvalentine/) Venus’s other projects: https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine (https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine) Download free show transcripts and support us on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.com Email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio (https://www.instagram.com/reciop4disaster/), and Decek (https://decek.bandcamp.com/), who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria (https://decek.bandcamp.com/album/euphoria-single)".

11. 

    12 Aug 2020

    Bonita Applebum, Sex Advice Columnist, Part Two

    This is part two of my interview with sex advice columnist Bonita Applebum. Please go back and listen to part one (https://dirtypantiespodcast.podbean.com/e/bonita-applebum-sex-advice-columnist-part-one/) if you have not yet! This time we discuss: -The truth about HPV: real talk from a sex educator, and why “Girls” actually kinda got it right -Elizabeth Holmes' titties -That time that watching Star Trek: First Contact was better than sex -Monastics: do we want to fuck them, or be them? -Why sugar Daddies are overrated -The best drone metal music for getting it on -“Voting with your pussy” Relevant links: Om “Conference of the Birds”: https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/9095-conference-of-the-birds/ (https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/9095-conference-of-the-birds/) Bernini’s Ecstasy of Saint Theresa: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ecstasy_of_Saint_Teresa (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ecstasy_of_Saint_Teresa) More about Bonita: Bonita Applebum is an advice columnist in Athens, GA.  She writes for Flagpole Magazine, where she answers questions and shares her thoughts on sex, love, dating, and relationships.  Bonita is a pseudonym, but she is less of a character and more of a way to allow for honesty and transparency when talking about things so intimate and personal.  She is in her late thirties and is a Black woman of color originally born in the deep south.  She enjoys playing the clarinet, watching gameplay videos on Youtube even though she is not a gamer, and casually studying the history of Britain and its monarchy - but not in a good way.  Her favorite monarchs are the ones who get executed. If you’d like to send Bonita a question or comment or anything, really, you can do so anonymously at http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice (http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice) , or you can email her directly at advice@flagpole.com (mailto:advice@flagpole.com). Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentine (https://www.instagram.com/bbwvenusvalentine/) Venus’s other projects: https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine (https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine) Download free show transcripts and support us on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.com Email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio (https://www.instagram.com/reciop4disaster/), and Decek (https://decek.bandcamp.com/), who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria (https://decek.bandcamp.com/album/euphoria-single)".

12. 

    29 Jul 2020

    Bonita Applebum, Sex Advice Columnist, Part One

    “What I'm trying to work towards now is really understanding that there's nothing wrong with me. I do deserve love, I do deserve happiness. And if someone doesn't want to experience those things with me, that is not a judgment on me.” -Bonita Applebum I met Bonita Applebum on Livejournal in 2003. We bonded over our love of queer culture, switchblade knives, and the Bobby Caldwell song “What You Won’t Do for Love.” We ended up having such an amazing conversation that I decided to make her interview a two part episode! In part one of my interview with Bonita, we discuss an amazing array of topics, including: -Learning self love and sexual empowerment after growing up in the bible belt -That time that Venus’s ex-boyfriend gave her a piece of evidence from an eco-terrorist crime as a romantic “gift” -The magic of being a Gemini who is also an identical twin -The ex who made Bonita hate “Burt Reynolds mustaches” -Colorism, Internalized racism, and the re-emergence of Bonita’s “designated hater” Relevant links: Bonita's advice column: https://flagpole.com/advice/hey-bonita/ (https://flagpole.com/advice/hey-bonita/) The Cannibal Warlords of Liberia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRuSS0iiFyo&vl=en (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRuSS0iiFyo&vl=en) Jessie Ware’s cover of “What You Won’t Do for Love:” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-ltza7hYls (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-ltza7hYls) Part two will drop in 2 weeks and you’ll get to hear about Bonita’s best and worst dates, her favorite sludge metal to get it on to, and her forbidden crush on a former Attorney General of the United States! More about Bonita: Bonita Applebum is an advice columnist in Athens, GA.  She writes for Flagpole Magazine, where she answers questions and shares her thoughts on sex, love, dating, and relationships.  Bonita is a pseudonym, but she is less of a character and more of a way to allow for honesty and transparency when talking about things so intimate and personal.  She is in her late thirties and is a Black woman of color originally born in the deep south.  She enjoys playing the clarinet, watching gameplay videos on Youtube even though she is not a gamer, and casually studying the history of Britain and it’s monarchy - but not in a good way.  Her favorite monarchs are the ones who get executed. If you’d like to send Bonita a question or comment or anything, really, you can do so anonymously at http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice (http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice) , or you can email her directly at advice@flagpole.com (mailto:advice@flagpole.com). Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentine (https://www.instagram.com/bbwvenusvalentine/) Venus’s other social media and projects: http://www.bbwvenusvalentine.com Download free show transcripts and support us on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.com Email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio (https://www.instagram.com/droz19ei8hty/), and Decek (https://decek.bandcamp.com/), who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria (https://decek.bandcamp.com/album/euphoria-single)".

13. 

    15 Jul 2020

    Argenta Peron, Drag Queen and Sexual Health Specialist

    Welcome to Dirty Panties Podcast, hosted by Venus Valentine. Every episode we ask a different guest the same ten deeply intimate questions about their love and sex lives. Our inaugural guest is Argenta Peron, a queer Latinx sexual and reproductive health specialist by day, and drag queen by night. Argenta refers to herself as "The People’s Diva; offering her advice to anyone who will listen, often unsolicited.” We met pursuing Masters in Public Health degrees in the pastoral college town of Bloomington, Indiana, and have become each other’s family of choice. In the course of asking Argenta ten very personal questions, we discuss a wide array of topics, including: Parallels between dating during the HIV epidemic and the COVID-19 pandemic The best way to kill the mood while getting a lapdance Which Harry Potter character we both secretly want to fuck How an electrifying kinky toy got its start as an MLM scam Why we won't be having sex to Argentinean folk music And much more...Listen to find out! Drake's "HYFR" video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KCWqnldEag) Argenta’s Instagram: @argentaperon (https://www.instagram.com/argentaperon/) Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentine (https://www.instagram.com/bbwvenusvalentine/) Venus Valentine's Linktr.ee (https://linktr.ee/VenusValentine) Support us on Patreon! You can also download show transcripts there, free of charge. (https://www.patreon.com/DirtyPantiesPodcast/membership) Email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com (mailto:venusstarfruit@gmail.com) Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio (https://www.instagram.com/reciop4disaster/), and Decek (https://decek.bandcamp.com/), who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria (https://decek.bandcamp.com/album/euphoria-single)".

14. 

    31 May 2020

    Introducing Dirty Panties Podcast

    One guest. Ten deeply personal questions. Sexpert Venus Valentine digs deep into the dirty laundry of drag queens, queer luminaries, authors, artists, religious leaders, activists, performers, sex workers, and many more for hilarious, horrifying and touching uncensored stories about their love and sex lives. This podcast is recommended for listeners 18 years or older.

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