Disruptor Inspires

About Disruptor Inspires

Hello, I’m so glad you chanced on this podcast.I am your host and my name is Promise Billions.Before I got inspired to design this podcast, growing up as a child I had a short lived privilege of experiencing genuine loving relationship. I was so close to repeating history when I made a conscious decision to DISRUPT any negative relationship pattern by learning in the reverse way.So if you can relate with my story, then I’ve got you covered.Get ready to be inspired to DISRUPT patterns to take charge.Your support means the world to me so kindly subscribe and write a 5- star review for the show.

Publisher

Relationship Guide Academy

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Jan 2024

Latest episode

9 Dec 2025

Latest episodes

13 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   9 Dec 2025

   Choose Wisely: Beyond Chemistry to Character

   In this essential episode of Disruptor Inspires, your host, Promise Billions , speaks directly to single women preparing for marriage about the most critical choice they will ever make. It's time to look beyond the intoxication of chemistry and focus on the bedrock of character. Many relationships start with butterflies and intense connection, but as Promise Billions explains, chemistry is not enough to sustain a marriage when the storms of life inevitably hit. In this episode, you will learn: 1. The Common Trap: Why building a relationship solely on emotional and physical chemistry is like building on sand, and how to avoid the inevitable collapse. 2. The Three Deal-Breaker Red Flags: Discover the three non-negotiable character flaws ie laziness, arrogance, and intellectual incompatibility, that can ultimately suffocate a partnership, even one filled with love. 3. The Biblical Priority: A powerful challenge to shift your focus from feeling connected to discerning the fruit of character (Proverbs 31:10). 4. Practical Steps for Discernment: Actionable wisdom on how to observe a man's true character by watching how he handles responsibility, treats others he doesn't need, and engages in meaningful conversation. Don't choose connection alone, choose character. Don't just chase chemistry,choose compatibility. Listen now and gain the wisdom and courage to make a truly life-giving choice!

2. 

   20 Nov 2025

   Breaking Out of The Mold

   Are you living a life that was forced upon you? Host Promise Billions dives into the subtle, silent prison that holds many disruptors back: The Mold. This episode is a powerful call to action for anyone who feels they've shrunk their identity to keep others comfortable. Promise breaks down: • What a "Mold" really is (hint: it's anything that limits your true self). • The 4 critical signs that your growth is being capped. • The internal shifts: Permission, Separation, and Redefinition necessary to shatter inherited expectations. Stop confusing familiarity with destiny. It's time to confront the blueprint that wasn't designed for your future and step into the unfiltered, bold, and authentic disruptor you were meant to be. You don't break a mold by wishing. You break it by choosing.

3. 

   23 Sept 2025

   Born a Disruptor - Owning Your True Identity

   Born a Disruptor – Owning Your True Identity In this episode of Disruptor Inspires, we unpack what it truly means to be a disruptor not by accident, but by divine calling. Drawing from Jeremiah 1:5 and my own journey of navigating disrupted spaces, I share lessons on purpose, identity, and the courage to stand out when fitting in isn’t an option. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, set apart, or weighed down by your story, this conversation will remind you that you were chosen on purpose for a purpose.

4. 

   16 Aug 2025

   I Love You… But I Don’t Like You Right Now”

   “ I love you…..but I don’t like you right now.” If you’ve ever thought that about your spouse, this episode is your safe space. We’re talking about the unspoken struggles in marriage…annoying habits,fading butterflies,and how to choose love even when it doesn’t feel easy.

5. 

   28 May 2024

   Journey to a Shared Destiny: Picking the Right Co-Pilot

   Are you choosing a life partner based on potential or compatibility? In this thought-provoking episode of "Disruptor Inspires," host Promise Billions delves into the crucial decision of marriage selection. Drawing from her own experiences and a broken home background, she underscores the importance of aligning life's various facets with your partner's. This episode promises practical advice, expert insights, and a call to deeply examine your partner's ambitions, values, and history. Join Promise Billions as she equips you with the knowledge to forge a stable future, emphasizing the power of faith and perseverance to triumph over adversity. Here are the main topics of discussion present in the podcast description: 1. Importance of choosing the right partner for marriage 2. Personal experiences and advice shared by the host 3. Manifesting the desired kind of relationship 4. Encouragement to face life's challenges and commit to faith 5. Gratitude to listeners and introduction of the podcast's mission 6. Impact of disrupted homes and the significance of compatibility in various aspects 7. Advice on asking relevant questions about potential partners 8. Emphasis on marrying the reality of the person, not just their potential 9. Guidance for making informed decisions about relationships and future marriages.

6. 

   7 May 2024

   "From 'Hey' to 'I Do': The Perils of accepting the Question on a Small Screen"

   Summary: In this podcast episode of "Disruptor inspires" hosted by Promise Billions, the importance of honoring oneself by rejecting text message relationship proposals from the opposite sex is discussed. The host emphasizes the significance of setting standards, communicating openly, and maintaining authenticity in relationships. Topics discussed: * Importance of honoring oneself by rejecting text message relationship proposals * The impact of how a relationships start sets the tone for the entire journey * Biblical perspective on relationships and communication * Identifying genuine intentions behind text messages in relationships * Strategies for handling text message proposals and promoting open communication * Setting standards and valuing oneself in relationships Key takeaways and lessons: * Choosing a life partner is a significant decision that affects not just individuals but future generations. * Communication in relationships, especially during proposals, should be authentic, respectful, and intentional. * Rejecting text message proposals can help set standards and filter out insincere or disrespectful partners. * Open communication and setting boundaries are crucial in maintaining healthy relationships. * Trusting one's instincts, being patient, assertive, and prayerful can guide individuals in navigating relationship dynamics. * Encouragement to prioritize self-worth and not settle for less in relationships, fostering respect and authenticity. References: * Proverbs 22:6 * 1 Corinthians 14:40

7. 

   26 Mar 2024

   Divine Unity: A Young Couple’s Guide To Marital Bliss

   In this podcast episode, Promise Billions hosts a young Christian couple, Mr. and Mrs. Arthur, who share their journey of love, marriage, and spiritual growth. The couple discusses the importance of prayer, having a vision, a teachable heart, and a mindset of teamwork in marriage. They emphasize the role of spirituality in their relationship and how it has influenced their love and understanding of each other. Topics discussed: * Importance of prayer and spirituality in marriage * Having a vision and setting goals together * Maintaining a teachable heart and open communication * Cultivating a mindset of teamwork and focusing on the positive aspects in a relationship * Balancing individual goals and ambitions while prioritizing the relationship * Overcoming assumptions and misunderstandings through clear communication * Learning from mistakes and growing together in marriage * Upholding mutual respect, understanding, and appreciation for each other Key takeaways and lessons: * Prayer and spirituality: The couple emphasizes the significance of prayer and spirituality in building a strong and lasting marriage foundation. * Having a vision: Setting common goals and having a shared vision for the future helps in aligning priorities and working towards a harmonious relationship. * Teachable heart: Being open to learning, growing, and adapting as a couple enhances understanding and unity in marriage. * Teamwork mindset: Viewing marriage as a partnership and working together as a team fosters cooperation, support, and mutual respect. * Clear communication: Open and honest communication helps in resolving conflicts, avoiding misunderstandings, and strengthening the bond between partners. * Maintaining positivity: Focusing on the strengths, joys, and positives in the relationship can contribute to a happier and fulfilling marriage. * Balancing individual goals: Supporting each other's ambitions while prioritizing the relationship helps in creating a harmonious and supportive environment for both partners. References: * Mr. and Mrs. Arthur (guests) * @iam_promise_billions ( host)

8. 

   5 Mar 2024

   Finding Balance: Nurturing Individuality and Connection in Relationships

   In this episode, Promise Billions shares insights on preserving your true self in a relationship and offers practical tips on setting boundaries, self-reflection, open communication, pursuing individual passions, embracing vulnerability, respecting each other, and guarding your heart. Topics discussed: - Setting boundaries in relationships - Practicing self-reflection to stay connected to your authentic self - The importance of open communication in maintaining a healthy relationship - Pursuing individual hobbies and passions while in a relationship - Embracing vulnerability as a strength in relationships - Respecting each other's uniqueness and differences - Guarding your heart to protect from negative influences and doubts Key takeaways: - Learning to set boundaries is crucial in establishing healthy relationships and ensuring both partners have space to pursue personal interests and goals. - Regular self-reflection helps stay connected to your authentic self and clarifies what truly matters to you. - Open and honest communication is key to sharing thoughts, fears, and dreams with your partner and supporting each other's personal growth. - Pursuing individual passions and hobbies adds depth and richness to your relationship while preserving your identity. - Embracing vulnerability and expressing emotions genuinely strengthens intimacy in relationships. - Respecting each other's uniqueness and differences fosters a healthy relationship where both partners support each other's individuality. - Guarding your heart by discerning and focusing on thoughts that align with your values helps protect your true self in relationships.

9. 

   20 Feb 2024

   Teenage Motherhood: A Candid Conversation on Overcoming Challenges and Building Resilience

   In this episode of the "Disruptor inspires" podcast, Promise Billions invites her blood sister, Ama, to share deep, personal stories about her challenging past as a teenage mother. They delve into their struggles, family dynamics, societal judgments, and the lessons learned from their experiences. Topics discussed: - Promise Billions introduces her sister, Ama, who shares personal stories about their upbringing, struggles, and experiences. - Ama narrates her journey of becoming a teenage mother at 15 and the challenges she faced during that time. - The sisters discuss the lack of family support , societal judgment, and the impact of church reactions on young mothers. - Ama reflects on the importance of self-identity, support systems, and motivation in overcoming challenges as a young mother. - They share lessons learned from their experiences and address the need for understanding, support, and empowerment for teenage mothers and their families. - Acknowledgment of individuals who provided support and guidance during difficult times and the importance of appreciating those who stand by you. Key takeaways and lessons: - **Motherly love:** Mothers love their children unconditionally, regardless of circumstances. It's essential to support and stand by young mothers. - **Support systems:** Having a strong support system, whether from family, friends, or mentors, plays a crucial role in overcoming challenges. - **Self-identity:** Embracing one's identity and experiences can lead to personal growth and empowerment. - **Church and societal support:** Churches and communities should offer understanding, compassion, and support to teenage mothers and families facing challenges. - **Hard work and determination:** Working hard, being motivated, and striving for a better future can lead to personal success and breaking societal norms. - **Communication and understanding:** Open communication, empathy, and non-judgmental attitudes can foster positive relationships and support networks. - **Empowerment:** Empowering young mothers and individuals to disrupt negative cycles and create positive change is crucial for personal growth and societal progress.

10. 

    13 Feb 2024

    Ask PB Anything: Empowering Advice for Healing from Betrayal and Renewing Relationships

    In this episode, the host addresses a listener's story of betrayal in marriage and provides insights on how to navigate the painful situation. The host emphasizes the importance of finding strength through faith, setting boundaries, seeking support, and prioritizing emotional well-being in the face of betrayal. Topics discussed: - Introduction to the podcast and its mission to inspire positive disruptions in relationships. - Addressing a listener's story of betrayal in marriage and offering guidance on how to handle the situation. - Encouraging the listener to focus on changing their perspective rather than trying to change the situation itself. - Emphasizing the role of faith, prayer, and seeking wisdom in finding healing and peace. - Advising the listener to confront their husband about the pain caused by his actions and to prioritize their emotional well-being. - Recommending setting boundaries, seeking support from friends and family, and considering professional counseling. - Reminding the listener of their worth and value, independent of others' actions, and the importance of trusting in the healing process. Key takeaways and lessons: - Betrayal in a relationship can be deeply painful, but it is possible to find strength and healing through faith and self-care. - Changing one's perspective on a challenging situation can lead to personal growth and resilience. - Seeking support from loved ones and professionals can aid in processing emotions and finding peace. - Setting boundaries and prioritizing emotional well-being are essential in navigating difficult circumstances. - Trusting in the healing process and allowing oneself to feel emotions are crucial steps towards forgiveness and moving forward. References: - Matthew 5:44 and Romans 12:17-21 (Bible verses for solace) - Professional counseling services

11. 

    6 Feb 2024

    Discovering True Love: The Power of Self-Reflection, Patience, and Trust in God's Timing

    The podcast episode hosted by Promise Billions focuses on encouraging listeners to disrupt negative relationship patterns and offers advice on finding love from a Christian perspective. The host shares personal stories and biblical references to inspire listeners to have faith, embrace vulnerability, set realistic expectations, and approach dating with a positive mindset. Topics discussed: - Importance of faith and patience in finding love - Embracing vulnerability in relationships - Setting realistic expectations and understanding that no relationship is perfect - Finding love in unexpected places - Importance of prayer in the search for a life partner Key takeaways: - Embrace vulnerability in relationships as it leads to deep connections and authenticity. - Approach dating with a positive mindset and realistic expectations, understanding that love takes time to build. - Remember that love can be found in unexpected places, so be open to new experiences. - Prioritize prayer in your search for a life partner and seek guidance from God in your journey. References: - 1 Peter 5:10 (Bible verse referenced in the podcast) - Biblical teachings on love and faith

12. 

    30 Jan 2024

    Rebuilding From Within: The Journey Of Owning Up

    In this podcast episode, host Promise Billions discusses the impact of not apologizing in relationships and the importance of learning how to effectively apologize. She shares her personal experiences and encourages listeners to recognize the value of offering sincere apologies to heal and grow relationships. # Topics discussed - The impact of refusing to apologize in relationships - Personal experiences with the impact of not receiving apologies - Overcoming the fear of apologizing - Understanding the true meaning of apologizing - Importance of being accountable for one's actions - Allowing time for forgiveness and reconciliation - Resources for learning how to effectively apologize # Key takeaways and lessons - Apologizing is a crucial part of maintaining healthy relationships. - Refusing to apologize can negatively impact relationships and self-worth. - Offering apologies is a sign of strength and accountability, not weakness. - It's important to give others time to process and forgive after apologizing. - Learning to effectively apologize is a continuous journey, and there are resources available to help improve this skill.

13. 

    11 Jan 2024

    Podcast Trailer: A peek inside Disruptor Inspires🫶🏽

    Introducing Disruptor Inspires with me, Promise Billions.My mission is to challenge you to take charge and shift the direction of any distasteful relationship patterns you may find yourself.With this knowledge packed podcast, each week you will listen to real talk, deep dive solo episodes from me, experienced and expert guests interviews, as well as Q & A episodes starting January 30th, 2024. So make sure to subscribe and tune in each week. If you have been looking for a Christian sister to join forces with to disrupt patterns, then you are in the right place!Buckle up, and let’s change the course of the GAME👌🏾!!!

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