Welcome to "Divorce Decoded," where we decode the complexities of divorce with the help of Ruby Bolton. Ruby, the founding attorney at Bolton Law, brings over 30 years of experience in divorce law to the table. In this podcast, she shares her wealth of knowledge, advice, stories, and facts about divorce.Each episode, Ruby candidly explores various aspects of divorce, breaking down complex legal processes, and shedding light on lesser-known facets of the divorce journey. With her expertise, she simplifies the intricate nuances of divorce while offering practical solutions and empowering insights.From pre-divorce considerations and navigating child custody battles to property division dilemmas and emotional well-being, Ruby covers it all. She also invites guest experts and shares real-life stories to provide diverse perspectives and inspiration for listeners.Whether you're considering divorce, currently going through one, or simply seek enlightenment and guidance, "Divorce Decoded" is your go-to resource. Join Ruby as she unravels the mysteries, challenges common misconceptions, and helps you unlock a confident, informed, and empowered divorce experience.Tune in to "Divorce Decoded" and let Ruby Bolton be your trusted companion on the path to a brighter future.
Can This Marriage Be Saved? A Conversation with Haley Pettigrew
In this deeply insightful episode, Ruby Bolton sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Hailey Pettigrew of Purposeful Healing to explore the other side of the divorce conversation—what happens when couples want to save their marriage. Hailey shares how intentional therapy, emotional awareness, and healthy communication can rebuild connection—even after infidelity, conflict, or years of disconnect. They also discuss the guilt many people feel when contemplating divorce, why some marriages shouldn’t be saved, and how to know when staying together is helping—or hurting—your family. If you’re questioning your relationship or wondering whether change is still possible, this conversation offers empathy, clarity, and hope.
17 Apr 2025
Ready Set Divorce: How to Protect Yourself Before You File
In this essential episode, Ruby Bolton lays out a clear, proactive roadmap for anyone who knows divorce is coming—but hasn’t filed yet. From securing important belongings and financial accounts to documenting parenting duties and protecting your digital privacy, Ruby shares the practical (and legal) steps you must take before that first piece of paper hits the courthouse. She also dives into how to avoid costly mistakes, reduce emotional fallout, and set yourself up for a smoother process—especially when tensions are high and trust is low. If divorce is on the horizon, don’t wait until it’s too late. Get prepared, get informed, and get ahead.
17 Apr 2025
How to Avoid Meeting Me: Preventing Divorce Before Marriage
In this episode, Ruby Bolton flips the script and talks about how to avoid divorce altogether. Yes—really. If you’re in a rocky spot or starting to worry about your marriage, Ruby offers clear, grounded advice on how to reduce conflict, de-escalate tension, and avoid some of the most common behaviors that push couples toward divorce court. From communication tips to practical boundaries and emotional self-checks, this episode is about doing the work before things fall apart. Because the best-case scenario? You never have to meet a divorce attorney at all.
3 Mar 2025
Supervised Visitation 101: Should you demand that your ex have ONLY supervised visitation?
In this episode of Divorce Decoded, we dive into the important topic of supervised visitation with special guest Gloria Fawcett. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting challenges, ensuring your child’s well-being, or addressing sensitive family dynamics, this conversation sheds light on the role supervised visitation plays in creating a safe and supportive environment for families.
We explore how it works, why it’s needed, and the steps parents can take to make the process smoother for everyone involved. Tune in for expert insights and practical advice that can help families thrive during difficult transitions.
1 Mar 2025
Hot Off the Press: New Insights on Custody, Child Support & Divorce Rulings
Hot off the presses! The Family Law Section of the State Bar of Texas just released a groundbreaking survey revealing how judges across the state approach key divorce issues. Want to know how likely a judge is to order 50/50 custody? Or how much weight they give to child custody evaluators? What about their stance on guideline child support? We’ve got the answers!Join us on this episode of Divorce Decoded with Bolton Law as we break down insights from the Texas Family Law Advanced Seminar—the biggest legal education event of the year. Find out how judges are shaping family law cases and what it means for you.
15 Feb 2025
Divorced on Valentine’s Day? Your Ultimate Survival Guide
February is the month of love, but if you're recently divorced, Valentine’s Day might feel more like a challenge than a celebration. In this episode of Divorce Decoded, we’re tackling the realities of navigating this holiday post-divorce. I’ll walk you through the do’s—how to embrace the day in a way that’s healthy and empowering—and, more importantly, the don’ts—the common mistakes that can set you back.Whether you're feeling a little lost, tempted to make some questionable choices, or just looking for a game plan to survive (and maybe even enjoy) the day, this episode is for you. So put on your listening ears, take some notes, and let’s get through this together!
1 Jan 2025
Is 2025 Your Year for Divorce? 25 Reasons to Get Divorced in 2025
Many people see the new year as a chance for a fresh start. But how do you know if 2025 is your year to make that life-changing decision? In this episode, we’ll explore the signs that it might be time to move forward, the thought process behind such a significant choice, and why only you can decide if it’s the right step. Tune in for honest insights and guidance to help you approach this decision with clarity and confidence. Is 2025 the year you pull the trigger? Let’s talk about it.
26 Dec 2024
Deep Dive into Child Custody Evaluations with Dr. Jim Zettel
In this episode of Divorce Decoded with Bolton Law, Ruby Bolton, founding attorney of the Bolton Law Firm, is joined by Dr. Jim Zettle, a licensed psychologist and expert in child custody evaluations. Together, they unpack the complexities of custody evaluations: What are they? Who orders them? And why are they critical in determining what’s in the best interest of the children?With insights into the emotional challenges parents face and the legal requirements of family law, Ruby and Dr. Zettle provide a comprehensive look at how these evaluations help courts make decisions when emotions run high. Whether you’re navigating custody yourself or just curious about the process, this episode offers a deep dive into a vital aspect of family law.Tune in to learn what goes into a custody evaluation—and why it matters.
23 Dec 2024
Holiday Heartbreak: Divorce and the Holidays
The holiday season can be a challenging time, especially if you’re considering or facing a divorce. In this special holiday episode of Divorce Decoded with Bolton Law, Ruby Bolton addresses some of the toughest questions people ask during this time of year: Should you file for divorce before the holidays, or wait until after? How do you navigate the emotional and logistical challenges of the season while dealing with the possibility of separation?Join Ruby as she explores the complexities of managing divorce decisions during the holidays, offers practical tips for maintaining peace and balance, and discusses the emotional impacts on families. Whether you’re contemplating divorce or trying to find a way to navigate this season with grace, this episode is packed with insights to help you through.
29 Aug 2024
Demystifying Divorce: 50 Questions in 50 Minutes
In this episode, Ruby Bolton takes you on a deep dive into the world of divorce, answering 50 of the most common questions in just 50 minutes. Whether you're in the middle of a divorce, considering it, or simply want to understand the process better, Ruby's expert advice will help you navigate the complexities with confidence. From custody battles to financial settlements, tune in for straightforward, no-nonsense answers that demystify the divorce process.
17 May 2024
Meet Ruby Bolton
In this introductory episode of "Divorce Decoded" ,Ruby provides an overview of the podcast's purpose.. She provides insight into her personal experience, and aims to reassure listeners about the divorce process. The episode sets the stage for upcoming discussions on the topic of divorce.
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