Done There, Been That

About Done There, Been That

Emmy-award-winning sports journalist and author Mike Hill and NFL veteran turned TV producer and host, Ephraim Salaam, deliver their unique perspectives on relationships, mental health, fatherhood, culturally controversial topics, and relationships. While they don't claim to be experts, Mike and Ephraim's real-life stories offer a relatable foundation for authentic discussion

Publisher

iHeartPodcasts

Category

comedy · health & fitness · music · news · society & culture · sports · tv & film

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

30 Nov 2023

Latest episode

7 Mar 2026

Latest episodes

26 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   7 Mar 2026

   Don’t Ask for A1 at Prime 112 (feat. Louis Gee)

   Clint Coley and Lou Gee are back in the building for Episode 3, and the rent is definitely due on these opinions. The guys dive deep into the unwritten rules of the high-end steakhouse—and Clint shares the infamous story of the time he dared to ask for steak sauce at Prime 112. Is it a crime against culinary art, or are we paying too much to not have flavor? In this episode, we’re breaking down: Steakhouse Etiquette: The dos, the don'ts, and the "don't you dare" moments when dining at world-class spots. The Prime 112 Incident: Clint’s personal battle with fine-dining snobbery. Ari Lennox’s New Project: A breakdown of her latest album. The guys ask the real question: Who is this music actually for, and why does it hit the way it does? The Old Head Hierarchy: A masterclass in the social structure of Black families. How do you earn your stripes, and when do you officially transition from "nephew" to the man in the plastic-covered chair? Pull up a chair, keep your A1 in your pocket, and tap in. See omnystudio.com/listener (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information.

2. 

   22 Nov 2025

   Ryan Michelle Bathé on Marriage, Motherhood & Making Room for Grace

   In this deeply honest and joy-filled episode of Choosing Joy, host Deborah Joy Winans Williams welcomes actress, producer, and mother Ryan Michelle Bathé for a soul-nourishing conversation about embracing the chaos of life without apology. From navigating marriage with fellow actor Sterling K. Brown to building a life rooted in faith, humor, and resilience, Ryan opens up about the lessons, missteps, and mantras that keep her grounded. Together, they unpack what it means to redefine womanhood, honor your emotional bandwidth, and build a home full of love—even when your champagne flutes are mismatched. Ryan shares vulnerable reflections on aging, self-care, parenting through exhaustion, and finding joy in a world that rarely slows down. With warmth, wisdom, and a whole lot of laughter, this episode is a celebration of imperfection, intention, and unapologetic Black womanhood. If you've ever felt the weight of being everything for everyone, or struggled to feel safe in your own skin, this one’s for you. Chapter Markers 00:00 – Building a Life of Joy 03:00 – Australia, Motherhood & God's Surprises 06:00 – 19 Years of Marriage & Unpredictable Careers 09:00 – Faith, Stubbornness & Acting as a Calling 12:00 – Hollywood Rejection & Learning to Stay 15:00 – Parenting & Losing Yourself in the Process 18:00 – Perimenopause, Health, and Black Women Aging 21:00 – Family, Fear & Avoiding the Doctor 24:00 – Illness, ALS, and Loving Through Change 27:00 – Alzheimer’s, Caregiving & Choosing Joy Daily 30:00 – You Don’t Have to Get Through it Pretty 33:00 – Marriage Realizations & Letting Go of Perfection 36:00 – Church Culture, Legacy & Beautiful Homes 39:00 – Broken Glass & Emotional Meltdowns 42:00 – Stewardship, Provision & Taking Care of What God Gives 44:00 – Growing With Your Partner & Listening Deeply 47:00 – Community, Evolution & Loving the Present 49:00 – One Word She Wants Her Sons to Remember See omnystudio.com/listener (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information.

3. 

   14 Nov 2025

   ThatChickAngel Interview | How Faith and Laughter Shaped ThatChickAngel’s Journey

   How do you balance being a wife, mom of four, content creator, comedian, and actress — all while keeping your joy? In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Choosing Joy, host Deborah Joy Winans Williams sits down with her friend That Chick Angel (Angel Laketa Moore) for a conversation about motherhood, marriage, faith, and the unexpected journey from actress to content creator. Angel opens up about pivoting her career when she became pregnant, building a digital brand, raising four Black boys with her husband Marcus, and how outrageous faith has guided her through every season. From funny pregnancy stories to the challenges of communication in marriage to finding joy in serving others, this episode is both laugh-out-loud and deeply inspiring. 💜 “When I can’t see the way forward, I serve.” — That Chick Angel If you need encouragement, laughter, and a reminder that joy is always within reach, this conversation is for you. #ChoosingJoy #ThatChickAngel #DeborahJoyWinans #AngelLaketaMoore #BlackWomenInComedy #MotherhoodJourney #FaithAndFamily #ContentCreatorLife #JoyAndPurpose #CelebrityPodcast #BlackJoy See omnystudio.com/listener (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information.

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Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

10 ratings

Spotify

4.3 / 5

3 ratings

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