Don’t Scare the Newbies!
Claim This Podcastby kirizal & S
Podcast Overview
<p>Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and everything in between </p><p>Winner of Best Media, Alternative Awards 2026</p><p>Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.kirizal.com">www.kirizal.com</a></p><p>Support U/us on Patreon at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies">patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies</a></p>
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Publishing Since
8/25/2025
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Recent Episodes
July 22, 2026
Darker Than Dark: Pitch Black Romance with Ellie Sanders
<p>Dark romance and pitch black romance author Ellie Sanders joins kirizal and S this week to talk about these often stigmatised genres, her writing, and lots more! Ellie tells U/us about navigating social media reactions, censorship in the self-publishing world, and her experience of her first book ban. We dive into what it is that writers and readers get out of these books, and the crossover with the world of kink where people search for a path to explore dark ideas in a controlled environment, and whether dark romance and related genres represent kink well - or even if they need to? Plus, Ellie teases her upcoming book Decimation, the final book in The Brethren Lords series, and shares some insights into her impressive writing process, and kirizal reveals which of The Brethren Lords S most reminds them of.</p><p>Content Note: Discussion of traumatic past experiences - not detailed, consensual non-consent play, and fictional depictions of torture, sexual violence, and abuse. Mentions of death threats and sexual harrassment on social media.</p><p>Check out Ellie’s website here: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.hotsteamywriter.com">https://www.hotsteamywriter.com</a></p><p>Signed books and merch at: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/EllieSandersBookNook">https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/EllieSandersBookNook</a></p><p>Follow Ellie on Tiktok: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@elliesandersauthor?_r=1&_t=ZN-98DNt2OSNTK">https://www.tiktok.com/@elliesandersauthor</a></p><p>…and on Instagram: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/elliesandersauthor?igsh=MTZjNDB0cnZvMXRuaA==">https://www.instagram.com/elliesandersauthor</a></p><p>—</p><p>Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials and O/our merch at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.kirizal.com">www.kirizal.com</a></p><p>Support U/us on Patreon at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies">patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies</a></p>
July 15, 2026
Desire Without Empathy: The Piano Teacher
<p>It's time for another kinky movie night, and for the second time in a row kirizal suggested something slow paced and arty that S isn't all the way sold on! This time it's The Piano Teacher, talking about how sadism and masochism are explored in a way that is separate from negotiated and consensual kink, an interesting twist on corruption themes, and how this movie invites the viewer to experience isolation, disconnection, and discomfort right along with its characters. Plus, the notorious and ambiguous ending, the uncomfortable questions it forces the audience to ask, and the shifting balances of power. </p><p>Content Note: Major spoilers for The Piano Teacher throughout, in depth discussion of sexual violence, abuse (including emotional incest). Due to the content and themes of the movie, discussion around whether or not a scene depicting sexual violence is or is not non-consensual and ambiguous/extremely dubious consent. Self harm mention. Mentions of real life abuse history.</p><p>Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials and O/our merch at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.kirizal.com">www.kirizal.com</a></p><p>Support U/us on Patreon at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies">patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies</a></p>
July 8, 2026
A Masked Assailant With a Store-Bought Penis: Planning for Public Play
<p>What goes into planning for a public play event? In this episode, kirizal and S talk about the considerations for planning a public scene - fetiquette, rules, equipment, time, and the role of the audience - love the attention or terrified of it, they’re there! Then, W/we get into some actual planning - see how W/we plan four days worth of scenes for an upcoming event, including the much anticipated second interrogation.</p><p>Content Note: Discussion of breath play, blood play, consensual non-consent play including simulated sexual assault, burns, and historical torture</p><p>Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials and O/our merch at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.kirizal.com">www.kirizal.com</a></p><p>Support U/us on Patreon at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies">patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies</a></p>
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<p>Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and everything in between </p><p>Winner of Best Media, Alternative Awards 2026</p><p>Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.kirizal.com">www.kirizal.com</a></p><p>Support U/us on Patreon at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies">patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies</a></p> - How often does this podcast release new episodes?
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