Don’t @ Your Hooyo is a podcast by Amina [pseudonym] about identity, faith and becoming yourself in cultures where those conversations aren’t always welcome. Through honest reflection and cultural nuance, the show explores breaking generational patterns, navigating expectations and saying the quiet stuff out loud.
Created primarily for Somalis in the diaspora raised Muslim and those who are questioning, with care, humor and intention.
New epsidoes bi-monthly.
In this episode, we dive into the painful reality of growing up in a low-effort family where basic needs are met, but emotional connection, warmth and active engagement are completely missing. Sharing my personal, lived experience, I open up about the slow and often confusing journey of coming to terms with this deep-seated emotional disconnection.
Whether you are currently feeling isolated by your family dynamic or are well on your way to healing, this episode is a gentle reminder that you are not responsible for carrying the weight of a one-sided relationship.
29 Jun 2026
Somali IDENTITY & CULTURE part 2 with Capri
Listen to our continued conversation. You won't want to miss it!
11 Jun 2026
Somali IDENTITY & CULTURE part 1 with Capri
Here is the first part of my conversation with podcast listener Capri, a young Somali woman living in North America, as we discuss navigating identity and creating a sense of self within our communities.
30 May 2026
To HIJAB or NOT to HIJAB
Do you wear a headcovering?
Do you dress modestly?
If yes, what led you to make those decisions?
If you don’t currently, did you feel embraced/accepted for that decision?
9 May 2026
When you have to put up with SOMALI AUNTIES flapping their gums
I identify 3 different types of Aunties and explain a bit about what my experiences have been with Aunts in my life.
1 Jan 2026
Everyone NEEDS to get in THERAPY
If you've ever thought about going to therapy, but don't know where to begin or if you have questions, this episode will touch on key things to consider when selecting a mental health professional, how to deal with family who disapprove of therapy and give you that final sign to start your therapy journey in 2026!
11 Dec 2025
Going no contact OPRAH Pod REACTION
If you've gone no contact with your family, or are considering it, I have some tips and book recommendations for you.
18 Nov 2025
Why wait for someone else to LIVE your LIFE?
Eating out, bars, travel ... you don't need to wait for someone to go with you to have a good time. Do the thing you've been putting off and you just might amaze yourself.
5 Nov 2025
Elders DEMANDING RESPECT when they a'int givin' any
How did your elders treat you growing up? What expectations did they place on you? How did they treat you in return? Let's get in to it!
22 Oct 2025
Love is Blind Denver - Annie & Patrick
My hot take on Annie and Patrick's behaviour and choices on LiB Denver. What a juicy season! Does contain spoilers for those who have not watched all the episodes up to and including Oct 15, 2025.
8 Oct 2025
Can you be both BLACK & SOMALI?
Why do some Somalis say they aren't Black? Let's unpack this line of resoning and why some Somalis vehemently oppose being called Black, including my own Mom.
26 Sept 2025
Black women don't settle for STRUGGLE LOVE love the people who love you.
'Struggle love' - don't accept less than you deserve. How do childhood dynamics and role modelling influence our love lives as adults? Let's unpack this idea of 'struggle love' and redefine the romantic love we want in our present and future.
2 Sept 2025
Not MUSLIM Not SOMALI?
Take a listen to this week's episode diving in to the opinion that if you're not Muslim, you're not Somali.
19 Aug 2025
Pod Name + Art + Life Choices
Get an inside peek in to the backstory of the podcast's name, the art and a little taste of Amina's take on growing up Somali in Canada.
7 Aug 2025
FOOD is LOVE
This is the very first epsiode of the Don't @ Your Hooyo Podcast by your host, Amina!
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