Advice That Hurts & Helps is a bold, honest podcast about relationships, confidence, identity, and personal growth.
Hosted by coach and mentor Eden Mitelman, this show blends real-life insight with powerful mindset shifts and emotional intelligence to deliver the uncomfortable truths that actually create change.
Expect tough love, clarity, and practical tools to help you build self-worth, set boundaries, and create healthier connections. If you’re ready to evolve emotionally and level up your life, this podcast is your starting point.
It hurts. It helps. You grow.
Stop Wasting Time Dating: Make Your Intentions CLEAR
Dating shouldn't be a guessing game. So why are so many people afraid to say what they actually want?Whether you're looking for something casual, a serious relationship, or you're still figuring it out... Making your intentions clear is one of the most important things you can do in dating.In this episode of Advice That Hurts & Helps, we're talking about how to date with intention without coming across as desperate, forcing a connection, or playing games.We're getting into:- Why being honest about what you want isn't desperate- How mixed signals create unnecessary confusion- The difference between communicating your intentions and forcing a commitment- Why you need to pay attention to actions, not just words- How to recognize when someone isn't looking for the same thing- Why walking away from the wrong connection is better than trying to convince someone to choose youThe bottom line? You shouldn't have to manipulate someone into wanting the same things as you. Be clear about your intentions, give people the opportunity to show you theirs, and decide whether you're actually compatible.It hurts. It helps. You grow.Subscribe for honest conversations about dating, relationships, self-awareness, and becoming a better version of yourself.#DatingAdvice #DatingWithIntention #RelationshipAdvice #MixedSignals #ModernDating💌 TEXT ME: https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithme/p/text-eden-private-text-coaching💬 Work with me (coaching & mentorship):https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithme🛍 My Amazon Storefront (favorites):https://amzn.to/3QIpGSd📲 Follow me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/advicethathurtsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelmanInstagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/🎥 Real Life / Mom Vlog Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@edenleemitelman #datingadvice #relationships #selfgrowth #selfmastery #edenmitelman
24 Sept 2026
ARE YOU FALLING OUT OF LOVE OR SELF-SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
TEXT ME: https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithme/p/text-eden-private-text-coachingDo you actually have a relationship problem — or have you convinced yourself that you do?Sometimes when a relationship is healthy, stable, and no longer giving you constant emotional highs and lows, your brain starts looking for something to worry about.Do I still love them?Am I settling?What if there’s someone better?Why don’t I feel as excited as I used to?What if this means we’re not meant to be together?And the more you analyze the relationship, the more uncertain you become.In this episode of Advice That Hurts & Helps, we’re talking about relationship self-sabotage: why you can start searching for problems when nothing is obviously wrong, how anxiety and overthinking can make normal relationship changes feel like warning signs, and how to tell the difference between a genuine issue and a pattern of constantly questioning what you have.We’ll get into why healthy love can sometimes feel “boring,” the danger of chasing certainty, comparing your relationship to an imaginary alternative, and what to do when your own thoughts are becoming the biggest source of conflict in your relationship.Because sometimes the question isn’t “Is this the wrong relationship?”It’s “Why am I trying so hard to prove that it is?”💬 Work with me (coaching & mentorship):https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithme🎧 Watch this episode on Youtube:https://youtu.be/FNjAzwoyEj0🛍 My Amazon Storefront (favorites):https://amzn.to/3QIpGSd📲 Follow me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/advicethathurtsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelmanInstagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/🎥 Real Life / Mom Vlog Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@edenleemitelman New videos weekly. Subscribe for real growth.#datingadvice #relationships #selfgrowth #selfmastery #edenmitelman
12 Sept 2026
THE RED FLAGS YOU DON'T NOTICE UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE
The worst red flags usually aren’t the obvious ones. They’re the ones that whisper.The little comments you brush off.The subtle inconsistencies.The way you start changing your behaviour to avoid a reaction.The things that feel slightly off... But not bad enough to leave over.Until months or years later, you realize they were telling you exactly what was coming.In this episode, I’m breaking down the red flags that are easy to overlook in the beginning but can eventually become the reason your relationship makes you miserable.Because sometimes the biggest warning signs don’t scream at you.They whisper first.TEXT ME: https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithme/p/text-eden-private-text-coaching💬 Work with me (coaching & mentorship):https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithme🎧 Listen to the podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=nMAD19ShQ1-LTuuAPQ99cA🛍 My Amazon Storefront (favorites):https://amzn.to/3QIpGSd📲 Follow me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/advicethathurtsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelmanInstagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/🎥 Real Life / Mom Vlog Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@edenleemitelman New videos weekly. Subscribe for real growth.#datingadvice #relationships #selfgrowth #selfmastery #edenmitelman
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YouTube views
857,793
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
4.9 / 5
11 ratings
Spotify
4.4 / 5
44 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 66 / 100
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65
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0
YouTube
93
Engagement
77
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