I'm Elaine Swann, and I'm here to help you navigate real-world etiquette dilemmas with confidence and grace. Each week, I’ll answer your questions and share practical tips for modern life—all in under 20 minutes. New episodes every Tuesday!
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
Etiquette Rocks with Elaine Swann!
Elaine is back from her book tour! She has traveled the west coast, east coast, tons of interviews talking about her new book, Elaine Swann Book of Modern Etiquette.
Let's celebrate and here the good news!
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24 Nov 2025
Should I Call You Out or Call It a Lesson Learned
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann dives into the real moments that make us stop and ask what’s right, what’s respectful, and what’s just plain human. From planning a friend’s baby shower and never receiving a thank you, to wondering if showing up on time to a dinner party is polite or secretly rude, Elaine breaks down the everyday dilemmas people actually face.
Elaine takes these real questions and gives clear, modern guidance you can use right away. She teaches how to handle hurt feelings with grace, how to set boundaries without drama, and how to move through social situations with confidence and respect.
This is etiquette for real life. Real people. Real moments. Real solutions.
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann Subscribe now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.
Visit elaineswann.com for workshops, tips, and more on navigating life with confidence and class.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
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19 Aug 2025
Sharing is Caring… Until It’s Your Toothbrush
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann
From used napkins on your plate to friends hijacking dinner checks and even the nightmare of a guest using your toothbrush—this episode dives into the sticky, awkward, and sometimes downright shocking etiquette dilemmas people face every day. Elaine Swann unpacks what’s polite, what’s not, and how to handle these cringe-worthy situations with grace (and maybe a little side-eye).
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann Subscribe now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.
Visit elaineswann.com for workshops, tips, and more on navigating life with confidence and class.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
#ModernEtiquette #DiningEtiquette #FoodServiceLife #TableManners #DinnerDrama #EtiquetteTips #toothbrush #RelationshipEtiquette #AwkwardMoments #napkins #plates #shocking
12 Aug 2025
Etiquette SOS: From Hyphenation Confusion to Package Overload
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann
From the delicate dance of addressing a hyphenated last name on an invitation to setting polite yet firm boundaries with neighbors and friends, Elaine Swann tackles it all in this episode of Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann. Tune in as Elaine offers practical, gracious solutions for handling tricky social scenarios—whether it’s a childhood friend’s wedding, a never-ending package pick-up request, or an unexpected catering ask from a bride. Real-life dilemmas, real etiquette solutions you can use today.
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann Subscribe now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.
Visit elaineswann.com for workshops, tips, and more on navigating life with confidence and class.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
#ModernEtiquette #AskElaine #ElaineSwann #EtiquetteTips #SocialGrace #HyphenatedNames #WeddingEtiquette #NeighborEtiquette #FriendshipBoundaries #ClassAndConfidence #LifeWithGrace
5 Aug 2025
Secret Phone Scandal: Privacy or Betrayal?
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann
Your partner has a hidden phone they claim is for work—should alarm bells ring? Elaine tackles trust, transparency, and whether secrecy has any place in relationships.
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1 Jul 2025
Grace on the Go: Travel Etiquette Essentials
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann – Podcast Series
Sit back and listen as Elaine Swann reads from her new book, “Elaine Swann Book of Modern Etiquette.”
Real-life scenarios. Practical advice. Modern manners for today’s world.
Subscribe now to the Elaine Swann YouTube channel for more tips on confidence, class, and how to handle any situation with grace.
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24 Jun 2025
Talk It Out or Shut It Down?
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann
When your sister wants a TED Talk and you just want peace—how do you handle exhausting conversations with people who don’t know when to stop?
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17 Jun 2025
No Thanks, I Hate Your Taste: How to Decline Ugly Gifts with Grace
No Thanks, I Hate Your Taste: How to Decline Ugly Gifts with Grace
She meant well... but her porch décor suggestion is not your vibe. What’s the polite way to say “no thanks” without ruining the relationship? Elaine breaks down how to preserve kindness and your aesthetic.
Welcome to Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann, the podcast where manners meet the modern world. I'm your host, Elaine Swann, and each week we answer your most pressing etiquette questions—from awkward social moments to sticky professional situations.
✨ Subscribe now to Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts and never miss an episode that helps you live life with confidence and class.
🔗 Follow Elaine on Instagram @elaineswann or visit elaineswann.com : that’s Swann with two N’s.
🎙️ Got a question? Email questions@elaineswann.com or leave a voice memo we might feature it in a future episode!
11 Jun 2025
Keep Your Advice to Yourself: Unsolicited Parenting Tips Gone Wild
Etiquette expert Elaine Swann discusses strategies for handling unsolicited parenting advice, providing listeners with tools to set boundaries and preserve relationships in this interview.
27 May 2025
Secret Office Romance? How to Stay Classy When the Gossip Starts
Etiquette expert Elaine Swann discusses navigating a secret office romance, offering advice on maintaining professionalism and managing workplace gossip with grace.
13 May 2025
Is It Tacky to Ask Guests to Bring Food?
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann
A retirement party turns into a family debate when some guests offer to bring side dishes—and one outspoken relative calls it “tacky.” Is it rude to accept help with food, or is this just thoughtful hospitality in action?
In this episode, Elaine unpacks the real meaning of etiquette when it comes to hosting events, accepting help, and navigating differing opinions with grace.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
6 May 2025
Smile, You’re on Camera: Do You Have to Tell Your Guests?
Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann takes on today’s trickiest social questions with clarity, humor, and class. In this episode, Elaine dives into everything from over-the-top graduation gift registries to whether you need to disclose your home security cameras to party guests. You’ll also learn how to time your event invitations just right — and discover the key etiquette principles every child should know. It’s real talk for real life, and Elaine’s guidance helps you show up with confidence, compassion, and a touch of elegance in every situation.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
28 Apr 2025
Uninvited Guests and Unexpected Requests: When Neighbors Go Too Far
Elaine answers a jaw-dropping story about strangers walking around someone’s house and asking to take her flowers—for a wedding. Learn how to handle entitled behavior with poise.
Subscribe for more real-talk etiquette tips and drop your questions in the comments—we might feature yours next!You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
26 Apr 2025
Wait… Do I Have to Bring a Gift?
Wait… Do I Have to Bring a Gift? | Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann
Host: Elaine Swann, America’s Leading Etiquette Expert
Description:
From the office to the buffet table—and even a boss’s wedding reception—what’s the polite thing to do?
In this episode of The Elaine Swann Show, Elaine tackles three sticky etiquette scenarios:
The must-know basics of office etiquette
Is it ever okay to dip your fingers to get that last bit of sauce?
And if your boss invites you to a wedding reception party—do you really need to bring a gift?
With her signature wit and wisdom, Elaine breaks it all down and helps you navigate these moments with class and confidence.
Subscribe for more real-life etiquette advice—and leave your question for a future episode!
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
15 Apr 2025
Do I Really Have to Pay for That?-Splitting the Bill at Dinner and More
Episode Title: Do I Really Have to Pay for That?
Host: Elaine Swann
In this episode of Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann, callers bring the heat with three juicy questions:
Is it rude for someone to remind you about a host gift?
And when the check comes, are you really expected to split it evenly?
Should you tip a funeral director?
Elaine unpacks the etiquette behind each scenario with her signature mix of honesty, class, and a touch of sass. Tune in and find out when you should reach for your wallet—and when it’s perfectly okay not to.
Subscribe, share, and join the conversation—because good manners still matter.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
8 Apr 2025
Trip Drama: When You're Invited... Then Asked to Pay
Elaine Swann answers real-world etiquette dilemmas, including how to respond when a neighbor sends an unexpected thank you note, what to do when you're invited on a birthday trip and suddenly asked to pay for an expensive meal, and how to handle gift-giving expectations.
You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to questions@elaineswann.com to get personal guidance from Elaine.
7 Apr 2025
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2 Dec 2023
Gifts Of Grace: Navigating the 'Empty-Handed' Dilemma
Uncover the age-old dilemma of arriving "empty-handed" on the latest episode of 'E Style Living' with Elaine Swann!
Whether a seasoned party pro or new to holiday gatherings, listeners will explore the dos and don'ts of expressing gratitude with a thoughtful gift for hosts and hostesses.
Elaine unwraps timeless classics, modern twists, and unexpected suggestions, guiding you through the season of giving with grace. Tune in for insights, tips, and a touch of holiday magic. Make this season truly special!
21 Oct 2023
Love, Relationships, and Big Announcements
Jada Pinkett Smith tells the world about her relationship through her new book called "Worthy". Is it proper? Lupita Nyongo makes a big announcement about her relationship. Did she follow the correct relationship protocol?
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In this episode, we delve into the world of Hollywood and the latest relationship revelations. First, we explore the captivating insights shared by power couple Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. Jada's new book, "Worthy," takes us on a profound journey through their remarkable relationship, unveiling the ups, downs, and the lessons learned along the way. Discover how this couple defines love and partnership in the spotlight.
But that's not all. The episode takes an exciting turn as we discuss Lupita Nyong'o's big announcement about her relationship. Join us as we uncover the details and celebrate with one of Hollywood's most talented and beloved actresses. Love, relationships, and life-changing moments await in this episode that's sure to leave you inspired and intrigued.
Tune in to 'Elaine Swann's Oh Behave' for an insightful exploration of the ever-fascinating world of modern manners, relationships, and the latest from your favorite celebrities.
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