EMBODIED LOVE LOUNGE PODCAST
Welcome to the Official Spotify Channel for Embodied Love, a collaborative co-created channel where Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael share leading-edge insights on women's & men's health, sensuality, sexuality, & relationships. Join us as we Make Intimacy Simple & Change The Way The World Makes Love.
Twice per month, we will release a NEW PODCAST where we share evocative concepts and practical tips you can immediately apply to get instant results.
EP 72: Out of Africa: Relational Lessons from the WILD
Walk toward the lions. Read the wind. Trust your senses. Know when to lead. Know when to follow. And NEVER assume you know what happens next.
That’s how Big C moves through the African wilderness.
Now bring those same instincts into sex, love and relationship.
Fresh from 10 days in the wild, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael sit down with Sicelo “Big C” Mbatha, wilderness guide and author of Black Lion, and discover just how much the wild has to teach us about being human.
Why do we stop truly seeing someone we’ve loved for years? Why can trying to recreate great sex get in the way of great sex? And what can lions and elephants teach us about power, protection, cooperation and leadership?
As Big C shares how he navigates a world where everything is alive, changing and communicating, Dr. Saida stops him:
“Every word you said can be translated to the bedroom.”
Lions. Sex. Power. Intuition. Partnership. The wilderness.
This conversation goes places you won’t expect.
We put it into practice.
Aaron Michael had just tried intimate waxing for the first time. He was tender, turned on, and suddenly some of our usual ways of playing were off the table.
So what do you do when you want each other... but the usual trail is closed?
You’ll listen in as we negotiate new boundaries, read each other’s bodies in real time, adapt when something doesn’t feel the way we expect, and get creative with the pleasure that IS available.
The lesson of the wild, made flesh: Stop assuming you know the trail. Pay attention. Adapt.
👉 UPGRADE TO THE MEMBERS EXPERIENCE + HEAR THE EROTIC INSERT: https://learning.embodiedloveuniversity.com/podcasts (https://learning.embodiedloveuniversity.com/podcasts)
GET BIG C’S BOOK → https://www.amazon.com/dp/177619148X (https://www.amazon.com/dp/177619148X)
EXPERIENCE THE WILD WITH US IN AUGUST 2027 → https://EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com/africa (https://embodiedloveuniversity.com/africa)
AND IN THE MEMBERS-ONLY EROTIC INSERT...
12 Sept 2026
Episode 71: She Doesn’t Want Less Sex. She Wants Better Sex. | One-Night Stands & the Orgasm Gap
Let’s kill this tired idea that women simply want sex less than men.
If a one-night stand offered you a tiny chance of orgasm and a much bigger chance of pregnancy, disease, judgment, shame, pain, or disappointment, would you be excited by the invitation?
Exactly.
Men and women are not being offered the same meal. One may expect a ”four-star” experience. The other is being handed “cold ravioli” from a can and told she must not be hungry.
In this episode, we examine what college sex and the orgasm gap reveal about desire. More importantly, we show you why this problem does not end when college does. The same pattern follows people into long-term relationships, where years of unsatisfying sex can look like a mysterious “death of libido.”
Maybe your desire didn’t disappear.
Maybe your body simply learned that what comes next isn’t worth getting excited about.
We break down the five foundations that can change that:
• Understanding your anatomy as a living system of pleasure• Moving your body instead of waiting for someone else to perform pleasure on you• Building relaxed arousal instead of racing toward release• Feeling your yes, your no, and your way through a maybe• Using your mind to intensify pleasure instead of watching yourself perform
Then we take the gloves off in the members-only section.
Aaron Michael reveals why his early sexual experiences were radically different from the three-minute encounters his college friends described. Dr. Saida shares how she explored one-night stands without surrendering her pleasure, safety, boundaries, or dignity. We talk about choosing someone for an erotic experience without pretending it must become a relationship, and why clear beginnings, middles, and endings make it easier to be fully present.
We also share what happened when our own body mechanics failed during sex on an unstable riverbed, and how changing the environment turned a painful experience into pleasure.
That’s the point.
Good sex is not magic. Bad sex is not destiny. Your body responds to what is actually happening.
And in the erotic audio insert, you’ll hear what happens when two people stop performing sex and begin creating it together.
29 Aug 2026
EP 70: WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE CHANGE
You’re on opposite ends of the couch, and neither of you is going to be the one to close the gap.
Episode 70 traces how you got here, the shift from teammates to competitors, the quiet withholding, the honeymoon phase everyone blames instead of the years of small transactions that followed it.
• Learn why “taking one for the team” quietly kills desire for both people
• Learn the difference between being teammates and being competitors in bed
• Learn why the honeymoon phase was never built to last, and what replaces it if you let it
• Learn why your partner doesn’t know what to do when your body changes, and why that’s not a character flaw
• Learn why there’s no expiry date on your sex life, no matter your age
And then they took this discussion into the bedroom.
Something we can’t share here… is the behind-the-scenes story that reveals the actual touch, breath, and hands-on skill Aaron Michael teaches men one-on-one, the kind that restores blood flow and brings a body back to life.
Click here when you’re ready to learn what to do (https://learning.embodiedloveuniversity.com/podcast/ep-70-what-men-need-to-know-about-the-change-members) when your partner says no, so the yes can actually arrive – EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com
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5.0 / 5
2 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
11 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 73 / 100
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YouTube
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Engagement
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