25 May 2026
Stepmom Guilt, Blended Families, and the Weight Women Were Never Meant to Carry
Episode Guest: Jessica Koptis, The Steady Stepmom
This week on The Empower Hour, we sat down with Jessica Koptis, also known as The Steady Stepmom, for an honest and deeply relatable conversation about blended families, step parenting, guilt, boundaries, and the emotional weight so many moms carry.
Jessica shared her personal story of walking through divorce, becoming part of a blended family, and learning how to stop carrying everyone else’s emotions. As a mom of three and stepmom to three, she brings wisdom, compassion, and lived experience to a role that is often misunderstood.
In this episode, Jessica talks about the pressure many stepmoms feel to be perfect, love instantly, keep the peace, and hold the family together. She also shares the heart behind her guide, The Glue, a method for women who are done carrying everyone else’s emotions and are ready to find themselves again.
Follow Jessica on Instagram: @thesteadystepmom
Check out her guide, The Glue:
The Method for women who are done carrying everyone else’s emotions. (Episode Guest: Jessica Koptis, The Steady Stepmom This week on The Empower Hour, we sat down with Jessica Koptis, also known as The Steady Stepmom, for an honest and deeply relatable conversation about blended families, step parenting, guilt, boundaries, and the emotional weight so many moms carry. Jessica shared her personal story of walking through divorce, becoming part of a blended family, and learning how to stop carrying everyone else’s emotions. As a mom of three and stepmom to three, she brings wisdom, compassion, and lived experience to a role that is often misunderstood. In this episode, Jessica talks about the pressure many stepmoms feel to be perfect, love instantly, keep the peace, and hold the family together. She also shares the heart behind her guide, The Glue, a method for women who are done carrying everyone else’s emotions and are ready to find themselves again. In this episode, we talk about: Jessica’s story of divorce, healing, and blended family life The emotional weight moms and stepmoms often carry The guilt and pressure that can come with step parenting Why boundaries matter, even when people do not like them How to stop fixing what was never yours to carry Jessica’s guide, The Glue Connect with Jessica Follow Jessica on Instagram: @thesteadystepmom Check out her guide, The Glue: The Method for women who are done carrying everyone else’s emotions. https://stan.store/thesteadystepmom/p/the-glue?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGnmZDvCZx_3gwK2v4bXibvm-lByZKpEssB-A-TjuEgFZ3_7iYUga9NybG9U04_aem_528smxZUxlEyuqkDTbiXGg Thank you for listening to The Empower Hour. If this episode encouraged you or made you think of someone who needs to hear it, please share it with a friend.)
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