Exit Interview

About Exit Interview

Dates don’t usually end with a satisfaction survey. And yet — we rate everything in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We complete "exit interviews" when we leave our jobs, so why don't we do the same with dating? Dating experts Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (Dateable) invite guests to participate in the ultimate social experiment: conducting exit interviews with their exes and past dates. For the hopeless romantic going out on hundreds of dates without any sticking, will she find out what she’s consistently doing wrong? For the reformed f-boy who’s ready for a real relationship but can’t move past a situationship, will he learn how to express affection? For the high-powered executive who worries they intimidate all their romantic prospects, will they learn what really makes them shine? Tune into every episode of Exit Interview to hear the good, the bad, the cringe, and the shock of real feedback from real dates, and the lessons we can learn from them.

Publisher

Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

28 Feb 2023

Latest episode

18 May 2023

Latest episodes

13 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   18 May 2023

   Are You Ready for Love? Season Finale

   Over the course of this season of Exit Interview, we’ve learned that most people have absolutely no clue what they’re doing wrong in dating - but with some simple fixes, love may be right around the corner. In this season finale, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable check back in with several of our featured daters to see if they’ve heeded any of their advice. Did Kirstin find someone who wasn’t intimidated by her? Did Caroline get her second chance at love? Has Justin gone out on a date? Tune in today for some key takeaways, and some big surprises from our daters. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> https://shorturl.at/cszA1 Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

2. 

   11 May 2023

   Is Your Lifestyle a Dealbreaker? w/ Caroline

   We all have that thing that we are positive is blocking our romantic paths.. For Caroline - she’s convinced that it’s being a single mom. Is that really what’s holding her back from her second chance at love - or is it something totally different? In this next installment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable makeover Caroline’s life by doing the scariest thing ever: call up her old flames for feedback. Why did one ex decide Caroline wasn’t worth driving to see? How did one relationship become “accidentally” exclusive? What was the real reason her ex moved away? The results are surprising to Julie and Yue, but especially to Caroline – because the real reason she’s not finding love is nothing she’s ever considered. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> https://shorturl.at/hyOS5 Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

3. 

   4 May 2023

   Do You Want Connection or Just Attention? w/ Kyle

   Kyle is a sex empowerment coach on the search for a primary partner who can fit in with his polyamorous lifestyle. You may have caught him on Amazon Prime’s The One that Got Away. Why can’t he be as open with his heart as his sexuality? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable put Kyle in the hot seat this week for the ultimate romance review: calling up his old flames to find out what he’s doing wrong. And some of these women have shocking stories to share. Why did Sam leave their road trip only two days in? Why did Nicki swear off dating apps for good after their experience? And what exactly happened with Zian at their shamanic retreat? You won’t want to miss a minute of this conversation. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> https://shorturl.at/afjJV Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

4. 

   27 Apr 2023

   Are You a Dating Chameleon? w/ Deborah

   Deborah is a romantic, through and through. But…maybe, she’s so hungry for love that she molds herself to adapt to whomever she’s dating.  You may remember Deborah from Christofer’s episode, and now she’s back for her very own Exit Interview. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Deborah understand what’s getting in the way of love. Tune in to hear their conversations with several of Deborah’s past flames - all of whom help shed light on Deborah’s struggles with her own sexuality and identity.  Why did Deborah sell her shoes to a stranger? What happened when she moved in with her new boyfriend during COVID? Why does Deborah do so much to conform to the women she’s dating? It’s all here in this week’s Exit Interview. TW: Sexual assault. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —>  https://shorturl.at/efBYZ Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

5. 

   20 Apr 2023

   Why Can’t You Get a Date? w/ Justin

   Justin is the full package - he’s handsome, he’s smart, he’s the life of the party. But now well into his 30s, he’s never had a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s never been on a date. What is he doing wrong? Well, luckily, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help. Julie and Yue call up Justin’s friends (because he doesn’t have any exes) to help figure out what he’s doing wrong. Is Justin going after the wrong sort of men? Is he keeping himself removed from the Austin queer scene for a good reason? Is he oversharing so much that it’s offputting? You’re going to be on the edge of your seat for the whole conversation – and listen all the way through to the end for a special guest! Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Thank you to Michael and the Gay Men’s Brotherhood thegaymensbrotherhood.com Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/lnAHM (https://shorturl.at/mnpGW) Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

6. 

   13 Apr 2023

   Are You Too Intimidating to Date? w/ Kristin

   Kristin is so strong and independent that she worries she’s scaring off potential partners. In this instalment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Kristin understand how she is actually presenting herself on dates. And who would know better - than her exes? Julie and Yue call up several of Kristin’s old flames to answer these burning questions: Are Kristin’s dates really not ready to be in a relationship, or just not in a relationship with her? Do her dates find her exhausting, overwhelming, or out of their league? Maybe all of the above. Tune in to find out. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/lnAHM Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

7. 

   6 Apr 2023

   Where Do You Fall on the Intentionality Spectrum? Midseason check-in

   So far, we’ve heard from five daters who are all struggling to find love. To help them, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable have conducted the ultimate romance review: calling up past flames to gather feedback. In this special edition of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue check in on these daters to hear if they’ve taken any advice to heart. Was Chris able to finally find love? Did Anchie finally get over Mindy? What happened when Tia followed up with her old flames? There are some unexpected updates in store - tune in for all the surprises. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/uv468 Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

8. 

   30 Mar 2023

   Are You Stuck on The One Who Got Away? w/ Anchie

   Anchie is ready for a serious partner, and yet he keeps hitting dead ends on his hunt for a longterm relationship.  But – maybe – could the key to solving his dating problems be hidden in the past? In this week’s episode, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable unpack Anchie’s dating life by calling up those who know him best - his old flames. Why did his ex feel like he wanted to just kiss “a girl” and not specifically her? Why did Anchie upgrade himself to business class, leaving his date in economy? And, the biggest question - can Julie and Yue actually reach Anchie’s One Who Got Away to find out what happened between them? You don’t want to miss this installment of Exit Interview. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/ltSZ4 Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xue, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

9. 

   23 Mar 2023

   Are You in a Relationship or a Situationship? w/ Chris

   Situationships - love them, hate them - they’re all too common this day in age. But Christofer - well, she’s the Queen of Situationships, and the fairest of them all. In this week’s episode of Exit Interview,  Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable sit down with Chris to figure out if Situationships are actually getting her the love she wants. And who better to ask – but Chris’s old flames? Get ready for a whole lot of heartbreak, as Julie and Yue call up women who actually fell very hard for Chris, only to be cast aside for the next one. Is Chris misleading people by acting too attentive? Is she actually too scared to admit she really wants something more serious? Tune in to hear every detail of this wild ride. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/azEQ1 Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

10. 

    16 Mar 2023

    Are you TOO in control of your love life? w/ Pylin

    As a recovering Type A, Pylin has dating down to a science. She’s on the boyfriend track, full steam ahead. But -  do people on board feel interchangeable? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable conduct the ultimate romance review: calling up Pylin’s exes to get their feedback. Is she scaring people away with her questions? Can she even read the room? Is she treating her dates like her psychology clients? Press play to find out. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/rBX24 Show Credits Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

11. 

    9 Mar 2023

    Can You Reform A F-Boy? w/ Angel

    Angel has some strong F-boys tendencies - but still claims he’s looking for love.  Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are on the case.  To investigate, they call several of Angel’s old flames to gather feedback, uncovering many surprises. Did Angel ghost a date after she didn’t kiss him? Why does he still have his ex’s clothes in his closet? Does he actually know how to treat a woman he likes? Hear all of this and more on this week’s episode. Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/imzEN Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

12. 

    9 Mar 2023

    Does Playing It Cool Ruin Your Dating Life? w/ Tia

    Tia is suffering from a very serious case of Cool Girl Syndrome. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help Tia recover. How? By talking to the people who know her best – her exes. In this first instalment of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue call three of Tia’s exes to gather feedback. Did she sabotage a perfectly good relationship? Why didn’t her old flame know they were actually on a date? Could someone still secretly have feelings for her?  Tune in to hear if Tia can heal from her CGS and learn how to stand up for what she wants in a relationship. Follow Tia: @SexyBizBabe Follow us: Instragram @ExitInterviewshow Twitter: @ExInterviewShow Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/bvC09 Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios Editor: Jen Jacobs Creative Producer: Samantha Martin Coordinator: Katia Kupelian Casting: Salt & Lime Media Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

13. 

    28 Feb 2023

    Introducing: "Exit Interview"

    Introducing the new podcast Exit Interview. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

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