Explore More Intimacy — honest, open conversations about intimacy, sex, relationships, pleasure and connection. Kat & Alex answer real questions from the community with straight-talking perspectives, practical insight and zero judgement.
Quick Question: Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex?
Kat and Alex look at a question from Explore More Intimacy:
“I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong with me?”
In this Quick Question, we talk about how personal sexual sensation can be, and how to approach the conversation with curiosity rather than blame or pressure.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered with care.
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Kat – Explore More Intimacy
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Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex (https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex/)
Website: alex-gear.com (https://www.alex-gear.com/)
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:
Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wrong?
I really like being spanked. Why do I enjoy it, and how do I tell a new partner I want it?
I’m in a long-distance relationship. How do we keep the sexual intensity and connection alive when we’re apart?
A relaxed, honest conversation about delayed ejaculation, performance pressure, sensation and arousal, spanking, trust, consent, long-distance intimacy, anticipation, communication and keeping connection alive between visits.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.
Got a question for a future episode?
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Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy (https://www.instagram.com/EXPLOREMOREINTIMACY/)
Website: Explore More Intimacy (https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com)
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members (https://www.patreon.com/c/exploremoreintimacy)
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex (https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex/)
Website: Alex Gear (https://www.alex-gear.com)
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
29 Sept 2026
Quick Question: I Know She Likes Oral. How Can I Get Better?
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:
I know she likes oral. How can I get better?
In this Quick Question, we talk about taking the pressure off the finish, slowing things down, building arousal and paying attention to what she responds to.
No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.
Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.
Kat – Explore More Intimacy
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/exploremoreintimacy.podcast)
Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy (https://www.instagram.com/EXPLOREMOREINTIMACY/)
Website: Explore More Intimacy (https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com/)
Explore More Intimacy app: Join the waitlist (https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com/the-app)
Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members (https://www.patreon.com/c/exploremoreintimacy)
Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach
Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex (https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex/)
Website: alex-gear.com (https://www.alex-gear.com/)
For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.
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