I’m a poet and a podcast speaker who sometimes speaks about empowerment.
My bedroom at home offers a great symbol of who I am and what is important to me. The walls are simply painted pale and decorated with photographs of imagination. My briefcases are filled with books I bought from failed dates I went on, and my desk is covered in makeup stains. I’m not very feminine, so I sometimes struggle with my identity.
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In this episode, I speak about a kind of love that does not control, does not reduce, and does not ask you to become smaller to be kept. This is not about dependency or possession. It is about choice. The kind of love that allows you to remain whole, even while being deeply connected to someone else.
If you have ever questioned what healthy love should feel like, or if you are learning to love without losing yourself, this is for you.
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21 Apr 2026
Nobody Belongs to You
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I said something out loud that most people are too afraid to admit: nobody belongs to you. Not the person you love, not the ones who promised to stay, not even the ones who feel like home.
This episode dismantles the entitlement we disguise as love and replaces it with something far more powerful choice. We don’t always love people; often, we try to keep them. And somewhere along the way, we start believing that closeness means ownership.
Here, I explore the illusion that people belong to us, and how that belief slowly distorts love into expectation, Because the truth is simple, even if it’s uncomfortable: people don’t belong to us they choose us.
And when that truth finally lands, everything shifts how you love, how you let go, and how you understand your place in other people’s lives.
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11 Apr 2026
Do Not Disturb: The Life You Didn’t Mean to silence
I talk about what people feel but don’t say about isolation, boundaries,and the quiet cost of protecting yourself too well. This space is for those who learned to survive by shutting down, and are now finding their way back to feeling without losing themselves.
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