The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner.
Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep.
This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosen—by you first.
It’s the show that turns your triggers into triumph—and your pain into personal power.
Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy.
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.
Ep 62: Money Manifestation: Heal Your Relationship With Money To Attract More
Candice Tamara, a coach, explores how childhood money wounds and nervous system beliefs block abundance, offering practical shifts to manifest more wealth.
8 May 2026
Ep 61: How to Actually Change Your Self-Concept (So Your Relationships Change Too) | Law of Assumption
Anxious attachment, self-concept work, manifestation, subconscious reprogramming and nervous system healing all go hand in hand… and in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to actually change your self-concept so your relationships and reality can finally change too.
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If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, avoidants, hot and cold behaviour, rejection, abandonment or relationships where you never fully feel chosen, this episode will help you understand WHY.
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I explain:
what self-concept really is
how your beliefs and assumptions create your relationship patterns
why anxious attachment is an identity/state
how subconscious beliefs are formed
why you keep repeating the same experiences in love
how to identify your triggers and core beliefs
how to start reprogramming your self-concept
why affirmations alone sometimes don’t work
how the nervous system impacts manifestation and relationships
why EFT tapping helps you feel safe being chosen, loved and secure
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I also share my own journey from anxious attachment, chasing emotionally unavailable relationships and feeling unchosen… to becoming secure, loved, engaged and pregnant through changing my self-concept and nervous system.
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This episode will help you start shifting the identity that is creating your current reality so you can stop recreating painful relationship patterns and finally feel secure, chosen and deeply loved.
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My program Create Your Secure Relationship (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/createyoursecurerelationship) shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want.
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Join here: Create Your Secure Relationship (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/createyoursecurerelationship)
Signature Program: Anxious to Secure in Love (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/anxious-to-secure-in-love-1)
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Free Masterclass: Stop Sabotaging Love (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/signuptomasterclass)
Free Series: 7 Manifestation Mistakes (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/quiz)
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Connect with me on Instagram @candicetamara_ (https://www.instagram.com/candicetamara_/?hl=en)
Watch on Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzvLnbtwu0hk42PVnDKTKPA)
Ways to work with me: Click here (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/link-in-bio?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacDVHo3iDboiGldMJU82qnWg4020lE5RwbniasrLk6iSMpSf1CpDGM5KIB1Gw_aem_IJZ_TR4IKRWVQYbnIEcuoQ)
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1 May 2026
Ep 60: How I Manifested My Pregnancy (But I Had to Shift This First)
In this episode, I’m sharing something really personal - how I manifested my pregnancy, and the deeper shifts that had to happen for me to actually receive it.
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Because the truth is, it wasn’t about “trying harder” or doing more. It was about what I was still holding onto underneath -fears around responsibility, subconscious beliefs from my childhood, and patterns in my nervous system that didn’t feel safe to hold what I truly desired.
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I talk about:
The hidden beliefs that were blocking me without me realising
How anxious attachment and hyper-independence were showing up
Why your nervous system has to feel safe to receive what you want
The identity shifts I had to make around responsibility, trust, and motherhood
How I used my Secure Method EFT tapping to reprogram these patterns
Letting go of timelines and fully accepting it as done.
Whether you desire a baby, a relationship, or any manifestation - this episode will help you see what might still be sitting underneath the surface.
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Because it’s not always about what you’re doing… it’s about who you’re being and what your body believes is safe to receive.
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If this resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear it
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✨ Ready to receive all of your desires?
My program Create Your Secure Relationship (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/createyoursecurerelationship) shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want.
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Join here: Create Your Secure Relationship (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/createyoursecurerelationship)
Signature Program: Anxious to Secure in Love (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/anxious-to-secure-in-love-1)
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Free Masterclass: Stop Sabotaging Love (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/signuptomasterclass)
Free Series: 7 Manifestation Mistakes (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/quiz)
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Connect with me on Instagram @candicetamara_ (https://www.instagram.com/candicetamara_/?hl=en)
Ways to work with me: Click here (https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com/link-in-bio?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacDVHo3iDboiGldMJU82qnWg4020lE5RwbniasrLk6iSMpSf1CpDGM5KIB1Gw_aem_IJZ_TR4IKRWVQYbnIEcuoQ)
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Inside a recent episode
Ep 62: Money Manifestation: Heal Your Relationship With Money To Attract More
Published 29 May 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] So be really honest with yourself. What did you learn about money as a child? Like what beliefs do you still hold around money as a child? Because that is exactly reflecting in your relationship with money now. And, you know, if you're really honest with yourself, you'll probably see that it's quite similar to the relationships that you have when it comes to love and people where, you know, some of you, I speak to you and you're more the people that like, as soon as you get money, you have to spend it and you cannot hold it. You don't trust yourself to hold it. And then there's some people that were like, maybe more like me, where you're so tired and you don't want to spend anything because you fear losing it that way. […]
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