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This is Fan Into Flame – the podcast where purpose takes center stage.
2 Timothy 1:6 "Fan into flame the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands."
What does it actually mean for a man to lead his home under God? with TJ Bolling
AN INTERVIEW WITH BRITLEY'S MAN
In this powerful and honest conversation, we sit down with TJ to unpack biblical leadership, overcoming lust, spiritual authority in marriage, and what it truly looks like for men to rise into integrity — while women learn how to rest in safety instead of striving.If you are:• A high-achieving woman longing for a man who leads with strength and humility• A man tired of passivity and ready to reclaim your authority in Christ• A couple navigating faith, hierarchy, and mission• Someone wrestling with purity in a hyper-sexual cultureThis episode will challenge you and call you higher.We dive into:• What healthy masculine leadership actually looks like• Is biblical hierarchy oppression… or protection?• Why good men feel stuck or passive• How to defeat lust without living in shame• What real repentance looks like inside marriage• How women can call men up without mothering them• What happens to a society when men stop leading their homesThis conversation isn’t about control.📲 Connect with TJ for Men’s CoachingIf you’re a man ready to rise, text:“3D Man” to 615-522-7290This is your first step toward:• Defeating lust• Defining leadership• Discovering legacyNo pressure. Just alignment.Subscribe to our channel:@FanintoFlameCoWays to Work with Us
⚡️ FREE INTRO CALL:
Head to our Website:➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbDlNZEMtbVBubThzblo2N0FMajU3MDhnMURhQXxBQ3Jtc0tsMzdvWTJreHR1SUZzSFRyYjRsWHZ0UkZBRWJVczFnVXBwek81R0tGT2Vra2c5ZmUxSzBhWHVkV2RObUFUQlduT25fTjlVLXFqSno5WGJBS1Q3WHpOa1Q2MXIyX1owYTBuN1hHZmRjaU1QcU9uZHo3QQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2F&v=DFyMH-rV1MM)⚡️ BOOK 2:1 COACHINGConnect with us!IG: ➡︎ @ellie_bt & @britleyannSubscribe and Listen to the Fan Into Flame Podcast HERE:➡︎ YT: @FanintoFlameCo
19 Jan 2026
The Real Reason Men Retreat in Relationships
Why do men retreat in relationships and why does it so often happen at home?In this episode, we sit down with Cody Jefferson to uncover the real reason men pull away—not from a lack of love, but from misalignment, broken trust, and environments that no longer feel safe to land in. We explore masculine identity, feminine peace, polarity, and the quiet ways contempt, control, and unmet expectations erode intimacy over time.This is a grounded, faith-rooted conversation about:• Why high-performing men withdraw• How identity (“I am”) precedes behavior• What men actually need to lead well• The role of a woman as peace, safety, and support• How trust is broken—and how it’s rebuilt• Why God is calling both men and women to release the need to be rightIf you are navigating partnership with a driven man…If you’re a woman longing to rest without losing yourself…If you’re a man who wants to lead without losing your soul…This conversation will meet you.———Subscribe to our channel:@FanintoFlameCoWays to Work with Us⚡️ FREE INTRO CALL: ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0pPaGU3SEZpZE5ETENScTUtRWhCSl9mMmFOZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuUVEzYWd0c1phUGRVZ20zSGtSOEt4dExST1QtdUJ3RlV3Mks1NzJGR283bUw1Wnd4VnZBNXBQZ0JkdURiR2Q1cGNMNGZPeVFuWjJoeXJqY1c4NV9ROG5JR0pKdTJrSE8zX3RpWjdoTXI1VjhvYWM2cw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2F&v=1qUSooPezsU)⚡️ 2:1 COACHING (Peak Performance): ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/peak-perf.. (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEhxS0hhM2xtalV0X3ZoaWpQc0NERU9pNkY4d3xBQ3Jtc0trMW1qZHkzcWcyNFNJZDNnTWJnLURWa1VjWTVOZ0VXUEhERG9SU1R2V0taWGtsTVdEN2hqVmU5Yk1NLVpYSEdQZ0ZVeXMwNUhhSVRkVFVIZUhreDJGdzVWTXhnTzJHUHJfTlNPWW5fbWVYX3R2Nm9OYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2Fpeak-perf..&v=1qUSooPezsU).Connect with UsIG: ➡︎ @ellie_bt & @britleyannListen to the Fan Into Flame Podcast➡︎ YouTube: @FanintoFlameCo➡︎ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/68BlvA2.. (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3EtN2xLWlpqUFJTSHExejB3YXYyanJwWm5jUXxBQ3Jtc0tueDN0NmxPLTlDVlBrNEYzc05VTk0zUGwwNmZaQ3NzU3dTWncyWVNFOG4tRjZab2tMcy04VjVheVNCdkR0M2lDWDdiWVRnX0FsUi1hZzFxcEZiNW9JbGhsOGRiNXdLZnRDNnlnSXZ5MFZoUkxES2VhNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F68BlvA2..&v=1qUSooPezsU).Question for you:Where have you been trying to be right instead of being at peace?About Fan Into Flame🔥 Identity before performance🔥 Somatic + Spirit-led transformation🔥 Order, embodiment, and obedience#fanintoflame (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/fanintoflame) #relationships (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationships) #masculinity (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/masculinity) #femininity (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/femininity) #polarity (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/polarity) #faith (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/faith) #leadership (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/leadership) #godaboveall (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/godaboveall)
15 Aug 2025
God's Word as Your Filter
In this episode, Brianna, Ellie, and Britley share the raw truth about marriage, biblical roles, and the power of sanctification. From childhood wounds to kingdom purpose, they reveal how God’s Word—not feelings—became their foundation. A must-listen for anyone navigating faith, purpose, and covenant.
🔹 How unresolved childhood patterns impact your marriage
🔹 The truth about submission, sanctification, and spiritual leadership
🔹 Why God’s Word must be your filter—not culture or feelings
Connect with Brianna Flores
Explore her work + free resources: HERE (https://spiritdrivensuccess.org/coachingwithbri/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafMaOCqo9As7k1y858GQB6Cmh_k1IZsVjzVAMUGH2xOXTohIiur1M3NOlDFLA_aem_Ka6MLxGEq7O3GwUPCsnnww)
Follow on Instagram: @briannaleannflores (https://www.instagram.com/briannaleannflores/?hl=en#)
Interested in joining HELD: A 3-month container for women of God to go from scattered to streamlined and expand their capacity for growth, abundance, and connection?
Learn more HERE (https://www.fanintoflame.co/held) or Message us on Instagram
@britleyann
@ellie_bt
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10,007
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5.0 / 5
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5.0 / 5
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Podcast Authority Score: 62 / 100
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