这是一档尺度大但心眼小的闲聊播客。欢迎在小宇宙关注我们，以及在其他泛用型播客客户端上收听。
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虾饺的公众号：一笼虾饺有四个 虾饺的博客：fourxiajiao.github.io 茶茶丸的微博：@猫四万 茶茶丸的公众号：妙控猫咪
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这是一档尺度大但心眼小的闲聊播客。欢迎在小宇宙关注我们，以及在其他泛用型播客客户端上收听。 如果你有任何意见或建议，或者单纯想和我们聊聊天，欢迎在小宇宙给我们留言，关注我们的社交媒体，或者发邮件到pipineko@outlook.com，感谢你的收听！ 虾饺的公众号：一笼虾饺有四个 虾饺的博客：fourxiajiao.github.io 茶茶丸的微博：@猫四万 茶茶丸的公众号：妙控猫咪
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April 14, 2026
EP10 | 试图回答「亲密关系的本质是什么」
<p>本期出场：虾饺</p><p><br></p><p>本期是虾饺的单口，分享这几年来的大撕烤：如果性和浪漫都不是必需品，那亲密关系的本质是什么？关系里的安全感究竟来源于什么？（剧透：不是「内核稳定」）</p><p><br></p><p>PS：byelingual的虾饺有大量令人汗颜的中英夹杂，还请大家多多包涵！</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 震撼有性恋者的无性恋书籍《Ace》</p><p>06:17 男性性欲模式的霸权与女性欲望光谱</p><p>12:58 浪漫爱并非人类天性</p><p>22:03 亲密关系的核心是友情……吗？</p><p>25:16 Relationship Anarchy（关系无政府主义）：给没有标签的关系的标签</p><p>33:16 终极愿景：如果有一天，我们不再需要定义关系</p><p><br></p><p>本期提及：</p><p>- 《Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex》</p><p>- 《The Other Significant Others》</p><p>- 《拼团人生》</p><p>- 不丧 播客： <a href="https://busangpodcast.com/episodes/neng-cheng-wei-mi-you-da-gai-zong-dai-zhao-ai-d-ad9d8c9e" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">“能成为密友，大概总带着爱”：对亲密关系的再次定义与想象（ft.虾饺）</a> </p><p><br></p><p>如果你有任何建议或意见或者想通过poly治愈自己的原生家庭创伤（划掉），欢迎在小宇宙给我们留言，关注我们的社交媒体，或者发邮件到pipineko@outlook.com，感谢你的收听！</p><p><br></p><p>虾饺的公众号：一笼虾饺有四个</p><p>虾饺的博客：<a href="fourxiajiao.github.io" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">fourxiajiao.github.io</a></p><p>茶茶丸的微博：@<a href="https://www.weibo.com/u/7754908874" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">猫四万</a></p><p>茶茶丸的公众号：妙控猫咪</p>
February 3, 2026
EP09 | 当开放关系变成我们的生活方式
<p>本期出场：茶茶丸、虾饺</p><p><br /></p><p>距离播客EP03录制的三年之后，我们重新回顾我们的开放关系，也带来一些新的感悟。</p><p>00:00 - 开场：现在已经不想单方面开放了</p><p>01:13 - 开放关系已经变成我们的生活方式</p><p>18:09 - 这些年遇上的一堆困难</p><p>30:15 - 嫉妒与占有欲：永恒的话题</p><p>36:13 - 目前开放关系面对的几座大山</p><p>41:35 - 总有人问要是出现一个更完美的伴侣怎么办</p><p>42:40 - 结尾：许一个关于关系的愿望</p><p><br /></p><p>如果你有任何建议或意见或者想爱上我们（不是），欢迎在小宇宙给我们留言，关注我们的社交媒体，或者发邮件到pipineko@outlook.com，感谢你的收听！</p><p>虾饺的公众号：一笼虾饺有四个</p><p>虾饺的博客：<a href="https://www.notion.so/Shownote-261d78efb4c78038b0b2c6fba1bfcf1e?pvs=21" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">fourxiajiao.github.io</a></p><p>茶茶丸的微博：@<a href="https://www.weibo.com/u/7754908874" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">猫四万</a></p><p>茶茶丸的公众号：妙控猫咪</p><p></p>
December 4, 2025
番外 | 青木：关于死亡的三个故事
<p>本期出场：虾饺、青木</p><p>剪辑：茶茶丸</p><p>本期节目也同时发布在「来雌碰瓷Let's punch」播客，可于泛用型播客收听。</p><p><br></p><p>虾饺采访了好朋友青木，青木分享了她生命里关于死亡的三个故事。</p><p><strong>Trigger warning: 本期播客提及大量沉重的话题，show notes里写明每个部分可能会trigger的关键词。</strong></p><p>00:30 - Vibe check: 你现在有百分之多少活着？</p><p>03:00 - Intro：死亡意味着什么？</p><p>11:05 - 故事一：姥姥和姥爷的故事——有时候死亡是一种解脱</p><p><strong>Trigger warning</strong>: 死亡；癌症；老年痴呆症；代际创伤；家暴</p><p>21:53 - 故事二：小赵的故事——小赵和他的妈妈</p><p><strong>Trigger warning</strong>: 死亡；癌症；校园暴力；荡妇羞辱；抑郁；自杀未遂</p><p>44:25 - 故事三：大黄的故事——我害怕我遗忘他</p><p><strong>Trigger warning</strong>: 自杀倾向；宠物去世；抑郁</p><p>1:11:15 - Outro：什么让你感到活着？</p><p>ps：忘记录进去了，但录完播客以后虾饺的生命值上升至59%，青木的生命值上升至45%。</p><p><br></p><p>如果你有任何建议或意见或者听完复活了（划掉），欢迎在小宇宙给我们留言，关注我们的社交媒体，或者发邮件到pipineko@outlook.com，感谢你的收听！</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>
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