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- First episode
About Fender Gender
Welcome to Fender Gender! A podcast of candid conversations about life, motorcycles, and the trans experience. Hosted by Eyma (he/him) and Maxine (she/her), we tell stories, joke around, and dive into everything from hot takes to heartfelt truths. Expect honest talk, important issues, and a little delirious discourse along the way. We hope you enjoy :) New episodes every two weeks on Spotify | YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Fendergenderpodcast.com
- Publisher
- Eyma and Maxine
- Category
- society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 20 Sept 2025
- Latest episode
- 27 Feb 2026
Latest episodes
14 episodes in the feed.
27 Feb 2026
Frances Thompson
In this episode, we explore the powerful and tragic story of Frances Thompson, a formerly enslaved Black woman in Memphis whose life intersected with a pivotal moment in history and issues of race, gender, and justice. Her story sheds light on the brutality of the Memphis Massacre and highlights the resilience of marginalized communities. Sources - Frances Thompson "Frances Thompson (1840-1876)," BlackPast.org (https://blackpast.org/african-american-history/frances-thompson-1840-1876/ (https://blackpast.org/african-american-history/frances-thompson-1840-1876/)) "HRC Honors Frances Thompson, A Black Transgender Hero," Human Rights Campaign (https://www.hrc.org/news/hrc-honors-frances-thompson-a-black-transgender-hero (https://www.hrc.org/news/hrc-honors-frances-thompson-a-black-transgender-hero))
27 Feb 2026
Marsha P. Johnson
In this episode, we explore the extraordinary life and legacy of Marsha P. Johnson, a trailblazing transgender activist, drag performer, and key figure in the Stonewall uprising. We delve into her personal journey, activism, and enduring influence in the fight for LGBTQ+ rights. Sources - Marsha P. Johnson "Life Story: Marsha P. Johnson," Women & the American Story, New-York Historical Society (https://wams.nyhistory.org/growth-and-turmoil/growing-tensions/marsha-p-johnson/ (https://wams.nyhistory.org/growth-and-turmoil/growing-tensions/marsha-p-johnson/)) "Marsha P. Johnson," National Women's History Museum (https://www.womenshistory.org/education-resources/biographies/marsha-p-johnson (https://www.womenshistory.org/education-resources/biographies/marsha-p-johnson)) "Marsha P. Johnson," Wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marsha_P._Johnson (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marsha_P._Johnson))
27 Feb 2026
Romaine La Prophétesse
In this episode, we explore the life and legacy of Romaine La Prophétesse a gender non-conforming black revolutionary who played a pivotal role in igniting the Haitian Revolution. Despite limited historical records, their story sheds light on gender identity, resistance, and the complex history of Haiti. Sources – Romaine la Prophétesse Terry Rey, The Priest and the Prophetess: Abbé Ouvière, Romaine Rivière, and the Revolutionary Atlantic World (Oxford University Press, 2017), esp. ch. 2 “Romaine‑la‑Prophétesse.” “Romaine‑la‑Prophétesse,” Encyclopedia.com (summary of Rey’s work and key biographical details). “Romaine‑la‑Prophétesse,” English Wikipedia (timeline of Romaine’s life, the 1791 uprising, control of Léogâne and Jacmel, and the 1792 attack). “Romaine‑la‑Prophétesse,” French Wikipedia (additional context on birthplace, family, and revolutionary role). “Romaine‑la‑Prophétesse,” Nonbinary Wiki (discussion of Romaine’s gender nonconformity, clothing, religious title, and modern trans/genderfluid interpretations). “Romaine ‘la Prophétesse’,” Une autre histoire (French article on Romaine’s preaching, Marian visions, and blending of Catholicism with African Christianity in Trou Coffy). Library of Congress, “Women in the Haitian Revolution” (context for women and gender‑nonconforming leaders in the Haitian Revolution). “Transgender history,” Wikipedia (for wider context on placing Romaine within trans and gender‑nonconforming history timelines).
31 Jan 2026
Roberta Cowell
Roberta Cowell was a racing driver, Spitfire pilot, and the first legally recognized trans woman in Britain. After a POW capture in WWII, a failed marriage, and depression, she transitioned with help from Michael Dillon and Sir Harold Gillies. She lived loud and public until she withdrew from the world and died nearly unknown. Roberta Cowell, Roberta Cowell's Story (Autobiography) https://legacyprojectchicago.org/person/roberta-cowell (https://legacyprojectchicago.org/person/roberta-cowell) https://www.brooklandsmuseum.com/discover/our-history/brooklands-stories/brooklands-stories-roberta-cowell/ (https://www.brooklandsmuseum.com/discover/our-history/brooklands-stories/brooklands-stories-roberta-cowell/)
26 Jan 2026
Part 2 of LJ's insights: Navigating Trans Identity in Diverse Spaces
In this episode of Fender Gender, hosts Eyma and Maxine engage in a raw and insightful conversation With LJ about their experiences. They discuss the challenges and nuances of navigating different social settings, such as universities and skateboarding communities, and share personal stories of coming out and transitioning. The episode highlights the dynamics of acceptance and discrimination, aiming to foster open dialogue and understanding.
13 Jan 2026
Micheal Dillon
In this episode of "Trans History for Dummies", we explore the life of Michael Dillon, the first known trans man to undergo phalloplasty in the 1940s. The episode delves into Dillon's early life, his struggles with identity, and his groundbreaking medical journey. It highlights his interactions with key figures like Dr. George Foss and Sir Harold Gillies, and his eventual transition to a Buddhist monk named Jivaka. The episode underscores the importance of gender-affirming care and the challenges faced by trans individuals in history. Further reading / sources: Wikipedia - good general overview of his life and transition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Dillon (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Dillon) University of Aberdeen blog - “Laurence Michael Dillon: doctor, theologian, and trans pioneer”: https://www.abdn.ac.uk/students/student-channel/blog/laurence-michael-dillon-doctor-theologian-and-trans-pioneer/ (https://www.abdn.ac.uk/students/student-channel/blog/laurence-michael-dillon-doctor-theologian-and-trans-pioneer/) Beaumont Society - “Michael Dillon – the first trans man to undergo phalloplasty”: https://beaumontsociety.org/michael-dillon-the-first-trans-man-to-undergo-phalloplasty/ (https://beaumontsociety.org/michael-dillon-the-first-trans-man-to-undergo-phalloplasty/) History at Birmingham - “Trans Pioneers: Michael Dillon & Roberta Cowell”: https://blog.bham.ac.uk/historybham/lgbtqia-history-month-trans-pioneers-michael-dillon-roberta-cowell/ (https://blog.bham.ac.uk/historybham/lgbtqia-history-month-trans-pioneers-michael-dillon-roberta-cowell/) Legacy Project Chicago - profile of Michael Dillon: https://legacyprojectchicago.org/person/michael-dillon (https://legacyprojectchicago.org/person/michael-dillon) Biographical exhibition (Oxford St Anne’s) - images and timeline: https://www.st-annes.ox.ac.uk/life-here/library/blog/michael-dillon/ (https://www.st-annes.ox.ac.uk/life-here/library/blog/michael-dillon/) National Library catalogue entry for Self: A Study in Ethics and Endocrinology (his own book): https://catalog.nlm.nih.gov/discovery/fulldisplay?vid=01NLM_INST%3A01NLM_INST&docid=alma99315573406676&context=L (https://catalog.nlm.nih.gov/discovery/fulldisplay?vid=01NLM_INST%3A01NLM_INST&docid=alma99315573406676&context=L) PDF of Out of the Ordinary: A Life of Gender and Spiritual Transitions (modern biography about him): https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/2019-03-29_5c9e4337abd17_michael-dillon-out-of-the-ordinary-a-life-of-gender-a.pdf (https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/2019-03-29_5c9e4337abd17_michael-dillon-out-of-the-ordinary-a-life-of-gender-a.pdf)
15 Dec 2025
LJ's Insights on Non-Binary Identity and Transitioning
Introduction: In this episode of Fender Gender, hosts Eyma and Maxine welcome LJ, a non-binary trans masculine poet and educator, to share their journey of self-discovery and the complexities of gender identity. The conversation dives deep into the nuances of being non-binary, the experience of transition, and the importance of community support. Understanding Identity: The episode begins with LJ sharing their background as a Chinese adoptee, highlighting the unique intersections of their identity. They reflect on how labels like "trans masculine" and "trans man" can mean different things to different people, emphasizing personal preference in defining one’s identity. The Journey of Discovery: LJ reveals that their journey toward self-identity began at the age of 16 during a queer summer camp in Ontario. Surrounded by trans masculine individuals, they realized that being non-binary was a valid and recognized identity, which opened up new possibilities for them. Hormones and the Body: As the conversation progresses, the topic of hormone therapy comes up. LJ discusses their initial hesitations about starting testosterone and how they navigated the changes it brought. Despite passing as male after starting hormones, they maintain a strong identification as non-binary. LJ describes their experience as being on a spectrum rather than strictly identifying as a man, which reflects the fluidity of gender identity. Unexpected Realizations: Throughout their transition, LJ faced unexpected challenges and realizations. They recount how their mental image of themselves aligned with the physical changes brought about by testosterone. This alignment provided a sense of validation and fulfillment, as LJ felt they were finally stepping into a part of themselves that had always existed but had not fully manifested. Familial Relationships and Acceptance: The conversation also touches on family dynamics, particularly how LJ’s non-binary identity was received by their parents. They share the complexities of being understood within a family that may find it easier to grasp a binary identity. LJ reflects on their childhood experiences and how their interests and behaviours hinted at their true identity long before they had the language to express it. Conclusion: The episode wraps up with key takeaways about the importance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of exploring one’s identity. LJ’s story serves as a reminder of the diverse experiences within the gender spectrum and the need for understanding and support. Ultimately, embracing one’s true self is a journey worth taking, no matter where it leads. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
3 Nov 2025
Performative Maleness
In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda dive into performative maleness and the personal evolution of self-expression, we share our unique perspectives on living authentically. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
20 Oct 2025
The first time I felt right in my gender
In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda talk about the first time they truly felt right in their gender. What that moment meant, how it shaped their confidence, and how it changed the way they moved through the world. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
20 Oct 2025
Coming out at work
In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda talk about the unique challenges of being trans in the workplace. We dive into the differences between coming out socially versus professionally. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
7 Oct 2025
Dating While Trans
Dive in with us into the weird, wonderful world of dating as trans people. In this episode, we explore the challenges, triumphs, and heartfelt stories that define the trans dating experience. Things get a little spicy, a little chaotic, and definitely honest because once sex comes up, we don’t shut up. Join us for a raw, funny, and unfiltered convo about love, attraction, and everything that makes dating while trans both complicated and beautiful. P.S. We filmed outside, so apologies for a bit of background noise here and there. If you want to skip the motorcycle talk, the dating convo starts at 17:46. Covert Art: punk_puss Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
22 Sept 2025
Navigating Friendships: Before & After Transition
Join us as we share our experiences navigating friendships after transitioning. We discuss the challenges and joys of maintaining connections, coming out to friends, and finding new communities. This episode offers a heartfelt look at how our relationships have evolved and the support we've found along the way. Covert Art: punk_puss Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
20 Sept 2025
Trans Elders
In our first episode of Fender Gender, we explore the invaluable role of trans elders in our community. Join us as we discuss their wisdom, the challenges they face, and the impact they have on younger generations. Through personal stories and heartfelt conversations, we highlight the importance of preserving and sharing the experiences of those who have paved the way. Covert Art by: punk_puss Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com
20 Sept 2025
Fender Gender: Meet Your Hosts
What do motorcycles, messy conversations, and being trans have in common? That’s what Fender Gender is here to explore. Hosted by Eyma and Maxine, this podcast dives into stories, hot takes, and truths that don’t always get told. Here’s a first taste of what’s coming. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm (https://transistor.fm/?via=music). Learn how to start a podcast (https://transistor.fm/how-to-start-a-podcast/?via=music) here.
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