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Not That Kind of CEO - For Women Who Want More Personal growth for women who love their life, but still want more. You're on the floor with your kids, but you're not really there. Your body is in the room, but your head is on the list: the email, the conversation you keep avoiding, the truth about your business you haven't said out loud to anyone. You snap at the people you love over nothing. You can't rest, because resting feels useless. Every September, every new year, every birthday: you go all in on something for yourself. Then life gets lifey, and you stop. Again. Underneath it all is the sentence you'd never say out loud: I want more. The reason you're not saying it out loud is that you feel so ungrateful for wanting it. Your life is already so great; why can't it be enough?! I'm Ayla. I have two little girls, a coaching business, an actual château in France that eats my time, and a hormonal cycle with strong opinions. I live this life, and I'm not going to tell you to get up at 5 am if you want to achieve your goals. What I will do is explain what's actually going on. Why your nervous system can't switch off. Why setting boundaries feels like betraying people. Why you can't achieve your goals even though you're more than capable. Why your future self feels so far away. Because you can be so hard on yourself. Whether you're going after your big dreams, ready to step into that Future Self, the new identity, or when you're erasing yourself for everyone else's needs. I've got good news: all of it is programs that your brain has been running for years. And programs can be rewired. You are NOT ungrateful for wanting more from life. This is your one lifetime, and I encourage you to grab it by the balls and live it fully. All you need to do is to start putting yourself first. Nervous system, boundaries, achieving your goals, and your future self, all of them go hand in hand. Welcome to Not That Kind of CEO, here, we admit out loud that we want more, that we were meant for more; and we go grab it. New episode every week. Press subscribe and start with the episode that makes you go ‘ouch’ when you see the title. That's where your personal growth starts.

Publisher

Ayla den Hartog

Category

business · education

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

2 Jul 2024

Latest episode

8 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

63 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   8 Oct 2026

   Plan for Your Worst Days so You Stop Starting Over

   There is a kind of day I keep running into, and I would bet you know it too. You had a plan for the goal you have been circling for months, and then life got lifey before you even finished your coffee. A kid throws up on the floor. A ceiling gives up somewhere in my 500-year-old castle. A whole week simply refuses to cooperate. For a long time I believed that the women who keep moving toward what they are meant for were just better at pushing through. Then I watched what my own worst days did to the week that followed, and how quickly one bad day turned into another round of starting and stopping. As a mom of two who has lived this more times than I care to count, I share the two things I now refuse to do on a worst day, why pizza in the oven can count as progress, and the one question I ask myself when everything falls apart. I also tell you how a flea on an elephant's butt became part of our family vocabulary. If you have ever felt like you are meant for more but lose your momentum every time life shows up, this one is for you. FOLLOW AYLA: ⁠@ayladenhartog⁠ (https://www.instagram.com/ayladenhartog/)

2. 

   29 Sept 2026

   Why You Keep Sacrificing Your Future Self for Everyone Else

   I love my family. I love this house. I love the life I've built here. And for a long time I built it while also shelving every dream I had for myself, telling myself that was just what love looked like. If you've caught yourself doing the same thing, putting your own future last because everyone else's needs feel more urgent, more real, more deserving somehow, I need you to hear what I found underneath that belief. It isn't as noble as it feels, and it's costing you something I don't think you've let yourself add up yet. This one might sting a little. Good. FOLLOW AYLA: ⁠@ayladenhartog⁠ (https://www.instagram.com/ayladenhartog/)

3. 

   3 Sept 2026

   Become the kind of woman who doesn't overthink her next move

   You know that idea that popped into your head three weeks ago and is still just... sitting there? Yeah. This episode is about why it's still sitting there, and it has nothing to do with the quality of the idea. It's because somewhere between the moment inspiration hits and the moment you actually do something about it, fear moves in and makes itself comfortable. I talk about the exact system I use to shrink that gap, the phrase that's become my unofficial life motto (fair warning, it involves a swear word), and why the version of you who already has the thing you want wouldn't even hesitate here. If you've been stuck thinking about the same move for way too long, this one's for you. Ready to find out exactly where your overthinking is coming from? Take the free quiz to uncover your Nature, Nurture, and Direction, and get a clear next step instead of another loop to spiral in. Do your free F*ck It, Unlock It Audit here (https://female-entrepreneurs.com/unlockit?utm_source=podcast). If you want help closing your own gap between inspiration and action, book a free clarity call and let's map it out together. Book a free Clarity Call with Ayla (https://link.feacreate.com/widget/bookings/clarity-call-with-ayla) FOLLOW AYLA: ⁠@ayladenhartog⁠ (https://www.instagram.com/ayladenhartog/)

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 39 / 100

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60

Social presence

90

YouTube

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