Fertility Finesse: The Reality of Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

About Fertility Finesse: The Reality of Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Fertility Finesse Show? Smart honest conversation on fertility-related issues, trying to conceive, IVF, miscarriage, mindset and more because you deserve more than vague advice and outdated myths. I’m Helena Tubridy, fertility coach, trauma therapist, former gynae nurse and midwife, bringing a rare mix of science, mindset, and lived experience to the mic. We're talking expert voices from reproductive healthcare, real stories and practical strategies to move the dial on your fertility. We get into mindset shifts that make a difference, the emotional load nobody talks about, and the questions you’ve been too afraid to ask. From behind the scenes with experts, to the latest fertility research to the everyday stress of treatment, and practical aspects of fertility nobody tells you about.. So whether you’re just starting out, doing, IVF, facing failed cycles or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse Show empowers you medically-accurate insights, and confidence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Publisher

Helena Tubridy

Category

health & fitness · kids & family · science

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

25 Mar 2025

Latest episode

6 Apr 2026

Latest episodes

21 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   6 Apr 2026

   The TTC Sex Trap: Pressure, Performance & Pleasure Lost

   Sex and intimacy specialist Grace Alice O'Shea answers that question Why Is baby-making sex so different?' offering practical advice for reclaiming your pleasure in sex, managing stress, and nurturing connection during often complex fertility journeys. .In this episode we explore the complex relationship between your sex, fertility, and emotional well-being Keywords sex and fertility, intimacy, pleasure, reproductive health, emotional well-being, trauma-informed care, relationship tips, fertility treatment, body connection, sexual desire Key Topics The impact of fertility treatments on intimacy Understanding desire: spontaneous vs responsive Reconnecting with your body after trauma The role of pleasure and play in sex Strategies to reduce pressure and anxiety in sex Takeaways Sex is more than reproduction; it’s about pleasure and connection. Taking sex off the table temporarily can reduce pressure and rebuild desire. Small daily acts of connection strengthen intimacy. Reframing sex as play helps maintain desire during fertility struggles. Self-compassion and gentle reconnecting with your body are crucial. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fertility and Intimacy 01:42 The Shift from Pleasure to Function in Sex 03:17 Reclaiming Sex as Play and Connection 06:28 The Importance of Daily Connection 07:48 Navigating Body Image and Desire 10:45 Mindset and the Journey of Sexual Discovery 11:48 Reclaiming Connection and Taking Pressure Off Sex 15:23 The Importance of Date Nights 18:30 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Responsibilities 18:37 Understanding the Impact of Medical Interventions 19:34 Addressing Trauma and Reconnecting with the Body 22:54 The Mechanics of Sex and Fertility 26:42 Reframing Sexual Experiences During Fertility Challenges 30:10 Prioritizing Relationship Health Amidst Fertility Struggles 31:11 Embracing Worthiness and Pleasure Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster. Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide. Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey. Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

2. 

   26 Mar 2026

   Fertility and the Law with Annette Hickey

   Keywords fertility law, reproductive rights, surrogacy, donor conception, IVF, legal implications, same-sex couples, embryo storage, parental rights, Ireland Summary This conversation delves into the intricate legal landscape surrounding fertility treatments in Ireland, focusing on the implications of donor conception, surrogacy, and the evolving legislation that governs these areas. Annette Hickey, a leading reproductive lawyer, shares her insights on the importance of understanding legal rights and responsibilities for intended parents, particularly in the context of same-sex couples and the challenges they face. Our discussion also highlights the anticipated changes in legislation, including the 2024 Act, and the role of a regulatory authority in ensuring ethical practices in assisted human reproduction. Takeaways Legal frameworks in fertility treatment are crucial for intended parents. Surrogacy is often a last resort for couples after many challenges. Consent from donors is essential to avoid legal complications. The 2024 Act is expected to bring significant changes to fertility law. Same-sex couples face unique legal challenges in parenthood. Advocacy groups like Equality for Children provide vital support. The surrogate is legally recognized as the mother until laws change. Parents should be transparent with children about donor conception. The regulatory authority aims to ensure ethical surrogacy practices. Publicly funded fertility treatments currently exclude same-sex couples. Titles Navigating the Legal Landscape of Fertility Understanding Surrogacy and Donor Rights Sound Bites "The couple, the baby is at the centre." "The 2024 Act has not commenced yet." "Talk to Equality for Children." Chapters 00:00 Navigating the Legal Landscape of Fertility Treatments 03:23 Understanding Donor Assisted Human Reproduction Laws 06:40 Legal Implications for Same-Sex Couples in Fertility 10:09 The Role of the 2024 Act in Reproductive Law 13:08 Surrogacy: Current Legal Definitions and Challenges 16:23 The Future of Regulatory Authority in Surrogacy 20:36 Impact of Regulation on Fertility Clinics and Agencies 23:27 Navigating Legalities in Fertility Treatments 25:35 The Emotional Toll of Fertility Journeys 27:42 Understanding Parental Rights and Legal Relationships 30:16 Embryo Transport and Legal Considerations 31:57 Public Funding and Eligibility for Fertility Treatments 33:37 The Importance of the Donor Conceived Person Register 36:31 Parental Disclosure and Child Identity 38:30 Changing Perceptions of Surrogacy and Fertility Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster. Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide. Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey. Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

3. 

   20 Mar 2026

   From Private Pain of Miscarriage to Public Advocacy: Senator Nicole Ryan Shares Her Story

   Senator Nicole Ryan shares her personal journey through pregnancy loss, and her advocacy for legislative change to recognize miscarriage with a certificate, better bereavement leave after pregnancy loss,and more understanding care for affected women. We discuss the emotional, legal, and societal aspects of pregnancy loss, and the importance of proper acknowledgment and support. Keywords pregnancy loss, miscarriage, legislation, mental health, advocacy, Ireland, pregnancy loss leave, certificates of loss, societal support, mental health support Key Topics Legislation for pregnancy loss recognition Personal journey through miscarriage Mental health impact of pregnancy loss Advocacy and policy change in Ireland Societal attitudes towards miscarriage Takeaways Recognition of pregnancy loss through certificates can validate grief and aid mental health. Legislation for pregnancy loss leave is crucial for supporting women emotionally and physically. Society needs to move beyond silence and stigma around miscarriage to foster understanding. Employer support and workplace policies are vital in the healing process. Personal stories like Nicole Ryan's can inspire legislative and societal change. Nicole Ryan Key Frameworks Legislative advocacy Mental health support after pregnancy loss Action Items Write to your local TD about pregnancy loss recognition Download and share the Pregnancy Loss Toolkit Support legislation for pregnancy loss leave and certificates Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fertility and Loss 01:37 Nicole Ryan's Advocacy Journey 08:24 Understanding the Trauma of Miscarriage 14:55 Legislative Changes for Pregnancy Loss 18:39 The Importance of Recognition and Support 23:27 Practical Steps for Support and Advocacy Resources Pregnancy Loss Research Group Toolkit (https://pregnancyloss.ie/toolkit) Senator Nicole Ryan's Socials (https://twitter.com/NicoleRyan) Ireland's Department of Health (https://www.gov.ie/en/organization/department-of-health/) Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster. Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide. Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey. Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

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• Sarah Cunniffe
• Dr Robin A Hadley
• Kevin Boyle
• Orla Walsh
• Stephanie Regan

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