figuring IT out is a raw, honest, and sometimes unfiltered look at what happens when the life you thought you were building suddenly changes.
This podcast is about relationships, heartbreak, dating, sex, identity, growing up, starting over, and all the messy moments in between. There won’t always be answers, and there definitely won’t always be a neat ending.
Just real conversations, real experiences, a little humor, and one person trying to figure out what comes next.
Because maybe none of us really have it figured out.
Maybe we’re all just figuring IT out.
After fifteen years together, letting go of the future you’ve always imagined isn’t easy.
In Episode 5 of figuring IT out, Myles Grey reflects on the signs he saw but struggled to accept, the hope he continued to hold onto, and the belief that there was still time to save his marriage.
An intimate, unfiltered episode about love, denial, and the moments that change everything before we’re ready for them.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
10 Oct 2026
I Don’t Know Who I Am Without Us
Who are you when the person you’ve spent nearly half your life with is no longer part of the future you imagined?
After a four-week absence, Myles Grey returns with one of his most personal episodes yet.
When you’ve been with someone since seventeen, you don’t really know what adulthood looks like without them. Your routines, memories, habits, friendships, and even parts of your personality become intertwined with another person.
In Episode 4, Myles reflects on growing up alongside his husband, the memories that still make him laugh, the mistakes he’s learning to take accountability for, and the uncomfortable reality of trying to rediscover an identity that has always included an “us.”
From a childhood love that became a marriage to a wedding ring he isn’t ready to take off, this episode explores what it means to face an uncertain future while still loving so much of the past.
Because after fifteen years, starting over isn’t as simple as turning the page. Sometimes, you actually liked what was already written.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
13 Sept 2026
BONUS: How Do You Unlearn Someone You Grew Up Knowing?
Sometimes the hardest part of losing someone isn’t forgetting them. It’s realizing you still know them by heart while questioning whether you still have a place in their life.
In this emotional preview of Episode 4 of figuring IT out, host Myles Grey reflects on the pain of growing apart from someone he’s spent fifteen years growing up alongside, and the uncertainty of discovering who he is without the relationship that helped shape his identity.
A glimpse into Episode 4 — I Don’t Know Who I Am Without Us.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
12 Sept 2026
When Love Isn’t Enough
Love doesn’t always mean forever.
Sometimes, two people can love each other deeply and still reach a point where love alone can no longer hold their relationship together.
In this episode of figuring IT out, host Myles Grey explores the painful reality of loving someone who may no longer see a future together, even after fifteen years of shared history, memories, and commitment.
Through reflections on heartbreak, trust, resentment, and acceptance, Myles confronts the difficult space between fighting for a marriage and recognizing that the other person may already be ready to let go.
An intimate, vulnerable conversation about losing someone you still love, questioning whether love is truly enough, and accepting that an ending doesn’t make everything that came before it any less real.
No perfect answers. No clean ending.
Just figuring IT out.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
5 Sept 2026
BONUS: How Do You Miss Someone Who’s Still There?
What happens when you still love someone who feels completely out of reach?
In this emotional preview of Episode 3 of figuring IT out, host Myles Grey reflects on the heartbreak of loving someone who may no longer want the same future, and the painful reality of fighting for a relationship that one person may already be ready to leave behind.
A glimpse into Episode 3 — When Love Isn’t Enough.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
5 Sept 2026
I’m Tired of Being Strong
August was fucking rough.
Somewhere along the way, being strong stopped feeling like a compliment and started becoming an expectation.
In Episode 2 of figuring IT out, host Myles Grey opens up about the emotional exhaustion of holding everything together while quietly falling apart.
Through honest reflections on heartbreak, overwhelming expectations, and the pressure to keep functioning when life feels unbearable, Myles explores what happens when everyone sees your strength but nobody notices how tired you’ve become.
An intimate, unfiltered conversation about vulnerability, emotional burnout, and allowing yourself to admit that sometimes, you’re simply not okay.
No perfect answers. No pretending everything is fine.
Just the reminder that even when life feels impossible, being here is enough.
Maybe we’re all just figuring IT out.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
29 Aug 2026
Okay…Now what?
What happens when the life you’ve known for nearly half your existence is no longer the life you’re going to live?
In the debut episode of figuring IT out, host Myles Grey starts at the beginning—or perhaps the end.
At 32, after spending fifteen years with the same person, Myles finds himself facing divorce and questioning everything he thought he knew about his future, his identity, and himself.
Who is he outside of being someone’s boyfriend, constant, or husband? How do you learn to be alone when you’ve spent your entire adult life alongside someone else? And how do you begin loving yourself when you’re no longer sure you recognize the person you’ve become?
Through heartbreak, fear, uncertainty, unexpected humor, and even moments of excitement, Myles opens up about the complicated reality of starting over and learning that conflicting emotions can exist at the same time.
He doesn’t know what the next six months will bring or who he’ll become along the way.
And for once, maybe he doesn’t need to.
No roadmap. No perfect answers. Just figuring IT out.
🎙️ figuring IT out with Myles Grey
Love. Loss. Identity. Starting over.
New episodes every Saturday.
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