Finding Love After 30 is a podcast for women that are ready to have their big, amazing love story. Dating Coach and Hypnotherapist Shonda Howard will teach you exactly how to find your too-good-to-be-true Man. Every week you can expect simple how to’s and heart to heart conversations that will help you navigate dating and find your soul-mate relationship. Follow Shonda on instagram @shondahowardlove for more inspiration. Subscribe and share with any other women you know still want to believe that their love story is waiting for them!
Ep 44: Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Men (Even When You Know Better)
In this episode, I’m breaking down why we can consciously want a healthy, committed relationship while still feeling wildly attracted to the exact men who can’t give us one—and why the nice, available guy can somehow give us the ick.
You'll learn:
Why you can understand your dating pattern and still repeat it
Why emotionally unavailable men can create such intense chemistry
Why healthy, available men might initially give you the “ick”
The role your nervous system and subconscious beliefs play in attraction
Why insight alone doesn’t necessarily create change
How changing what feels familiar can change who you’re attracted to
What happened when my clients stopped chasing the spark and started changing the pattern underneath it
If you’re tired of dating the same man in a different body, this episode is for you.
And if you’re ready to figure out YOUR pattern, change it, and create a clear strategy for meeting the kind of man who is actually ready for love, marriage, and commitment, book a free Dating Strategy Call with me using the link in the show notes. We’ll look at what’s been keeping you stuck and create a plan for finding your person.
Want expert guidance on your love life? Book a free call to explore working with me right here! (https://shondahoward.as.me/?appointmentType=13475020)
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Follow Shonda on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/shondahoward_/)and Tiktok (https://www.tiktok.com/@shondahowardlove?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc) for more inspo and dating advice.
28 Jul 2026
Ep 43: What Manifesting My Dream Move Taught Me About Finding Love
In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact mindset and nervous system practices I used over four years to manifest one of my biggest dreams: moving back to California!
But here's the thing... this isn't really about manifesting a move.It's about learning how to trust the process when life isn't happening on your timeline—and why that's the same work I teach women who want to find lasting love.
Inside this episode, you'll learn:
Why the "how" and "when" aren't your job
How to stop putting your life on hold while waiting for your dream
The difference between surrender and giving up
The daily practices that helped me stay grounded and hopeful
How nervous system regulation changes what you're able to receive
Why gratitude isn't about pretending everything is perfect
The future journaling practice that transformed my mindset
How to process fear without letting it run your life
What this entire experience taught me about finding love
If you've been thinking about joining Find the One, send me a DM on Instagram (@shondahowardlove) or email me: shonda@shondahoward.com. I'd love to help you figure out whether it's the right fit for you and save $1000!
Want expert guidance on your love life? Book a free call to explore working with me right here! (https://shondahoward.as.me/?appointmentType=13475020)
Follow Shonda on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/shondahoward_/)and Tiktok (https://www.tiktok.com/@shondahowardlove?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc) for more inspo and dating advice.
7 Apr 2026
Ep 42: If dating apps "suck" you're missing the actual problem.mp3
In today's episode, I'm getting real about why dating apps aren't actually the problem, and how the strategy you've been using is.
In this episode you'll learn:
Why treating dating like a numbers game is keeping you stuck
The difference between collecting matches and actually filtering for the right person
How to use your past dating experiences to identify your core values
How to weave those values into your profile so you attract the right men (and filter out the wrong ones)
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Enjoying the podcast? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it. 💛
Want expert guidance on your love life? Book a free call to explore working with me right here! (https://shondahoward.as.me/?appointmentType=13475020)
Follow Shonda on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/shondahoward_/)and Tiktok (https://www.tiktok.com/@shondahowardlove?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc) for more inspo and dating advice.
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