Finding Our Way- Conversations on Life After Work

About Finding Our Way- Conversations on Life After Work

We are three sisters (two recent retirees and one pre-retiree) who will discuss issues associated with the non-financial side of retirement. We will share some retirement challenges and potential solutions we've found through our research. Some challenges include letting go of our previous careers, connecting to who we are now, the importance of find meaning and purpose, and figuring out what to do with all the free time we have on our hands. Our conversation will include information we've gather from various resources, our personal take on each topic, and any exercises or tools we have found helpful . Through this show we hope you will take away information that will help you make the most of this time of life.

Publisher

Stephanie

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

2 Feb 2026

Latest episode

20 Jul 2026

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   20 Jul 2026

   Episode 14- The Impact of Retirement on Relationships

   Retirement isn't just about financial planning — it's also about maintaining healthy relationships, whether you're partnered or flying solo. In this episode of Finding Our Way, we explore how retirement impacts relationships, common challenges faced, and practical exercises to enhance communication and connection during this new phase of life.In (http://life.In) this episode: How retirement can change the dynamics of your partnership and the concept of the "seasons" of marriage, inspired by Dr. Gary Chapman The rise of "gray divorce" and factors contributing to long-term relationship dissolutions post-retirement The importance of open communication and exercises like the assumptions and expectations assessment to prepare for retirement together Strategies for maintaining intimacy and connection, including understanding each other's love languages and relationship seasons Challenges faced by singles in retirement, including managing expectations and establishing personal boundaries How to assess personal satisfaction and future goals in one's happiness portfolio, whether single or partnered Tips for dating in later life: knowing your needs, setting boundaries, and the importance of self-awareness The significance of good communication skills, active listening, and vulnerability in sustaining meaningful relationships after work. Resources & Links: Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marianne Osher (https://www.amazon.com/Your-Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement/dp/xxxxxxx) (search for the exact title and author on Amazon) The Four Seasons of Marriage by Dr. Gary Chapman (https://www.amazon.com/Four-Seasons-Marriage-Gary-Chapman/dp/xxxxxxx) Retirement and Be Happy Assumption Download (https://retirementandbehappy.com/assumptions) Nancy Sloshberg's Story (https://www.example.com/nancy-sloshberg-story) Connect with the Hosts: findourwaypodcast1@gmail.com (mailto:findourwaypodcast1@gmail.com)

2. 

   6 Jul 2026

   Episode 13- To Work or Not To Work in Retirement

   This episode explores the multifaceted role of work in retirement, emphasizing intentionality and fulfillment beyond just staying busy. We discuss how to assess your personal motivations and match them to the types of work that bring purpose and joy.Key Topics: The concept of the happiness portfolio and its key components Eight areas beyond finances that influence a fulfilling retirement life Four types of working retirees based on motivations and satisfaction Challenges in returning to work, like clarity of purpose and effective contribution Practical tips for retooling skills and exploring encore career options The importance of aligning work with personal values and lifestyle goals Strategies for transitioning from traditional employment to part-time or volunteer roles The significance of maintaining current knowledge and re-engaging with new skills How expectations and industry-specific factors impact work beyond retirement Encouragement to approach career exploration with curiosity and self-compassion Encore.org (http://Encore.org) - Connect with encore career opportunities Idealist.org (http://Idealist.org) - Volunteer and job options for retirees The Muse (https://www.themuse.com/) - Career quizzes and ideas for encore careers BrainSpan.org (http://BrainSpan.org) - Learning new skills for mature learners RetireandBeHappy.com/action-plan (http://RetireandBeHappy.com/action-plan) - Free downloadable form for action steps Connect with the speakers: Findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com (mailto:Findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com) Remember: The journey to fulfilling work in retirement is a process rooted in curiosity and self-awareness. Take small steps, enjoy exploring new possibilities, and prioritize what aligns with your happiness. Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement (https://amazon.com/Your-Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement/dp/B0XYZXYZ) – Marianne Osher

3. 

   22 Jun 2026

   Episode 12- Creating a Fulfilled Retirement: Insights from Marianne Osher

   Discover actionable strategies to craft a meaningful and joyful retirement with Marianne Osher, author of Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement. This episode explores how planning, purpose, and understanding personal values can turn retirement into your best chapter.Main Topics Covered: The importance of actively planning for retirement beyond finances How to identify and cultivate your purpose in post-career life The role of relationships and personal values in creating happiness Practical tools like purpose cards and sticky notes to discover your life's direction Common myths about retirement and the importance of intentionality How to communicate and align expectations with your partner before retirement The concept of "calling" and its significance in personal fulfillment The significance of self-awareness and continuous self-development in retirement Insights from research on happiness, purpose, and maintaining strong relationships stories Connect with Marianne Osher: Nextchapterlifestyleadvisors.com (http://Nextchapterlifestyleadvisors.com) Marianne@nextchapterlifestyleadvisors Resources & Links: Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement (https://amazon.com/Your-Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement/dp/B0XYZXYZ) – Marianne Osher Next Chapter Lifestyle Advisors (https://nextchapterlifestyleadvisors.com/) Richard Leiter’s site on purpose and calling ~ Purpose and Calling Tools (https://richardleiter.com/) Madly in Love with M (https://amazon.com/Madly-Love-Myself)e– Book about self-love and purpose

4. 

   8 Jun 2026

   Episode 11- Purpose, Meaning and Personal Growth

   Discover how purpose and meaning can be rediscovered and even deepened in retirement. This episode explores the roles of gifts, passions, values, and purpose statements in creating a fulfilling post-career life, with practical exercises and heartfelt insights from three sisters navigating this new chapter. Main Topics: The difference between purpose and meaning, and how they evolve in retirement The four pillars of meaning: belonging, purpose, storytelling, and transcendence How to identify your gifts, passions, and values to craft a personal purpose statement The health and happiness benefits of purposeful living Practical exercises for discovering what is meaningful to you The importance of growth, grace, and flexibility on the journey to finding your purpose Resources & Links: Your Happiness Profile for Retirement by Marianne Osher (https://riverside.com/editor/02937bab-0399-40f2-b55e-1764d34877e3/amazon.com/dp/XXXXX) (search for the book for purchase details) The Power of Meaning by Emily Fahony-Smith (https://riverside.com/editor/02937bab-0399-40f2-b55e-1764d34877e3/amazon.com/dp/XXXXX) [Richard Leder's Purpose Formula](Official website or related resources) Stanford Study on Purpose and Happiness (https://riverside.com/editor/02937bab-0399-40f2-b55e-1764d34877e3/stanford.edu/research/purpose-happiness) Encore.org (http://Encore.org) - Purpose and Fulfillment (https://riverside.com/editor/02937bab-0399-40f2-b55e-1764d34877e3/encore.org/article/purposeful-retirement) Final Thoughts: Finding purpose in retirement is a personal, ongoing journey that involves exploring your gifts, passions, and values. It evolves over time, and embracing grace and growth helps make the process fulfilling. Take small steps, reflect regularly, and remember—purpose isn’t about perfection, but progress. Contact us at Findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com (mailto:Findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com)

5. 

   25 May 2026

   Episode 10-The 5 Steps to Rediscover Your Purpose After 50

   Retirement isn't just about leaving a career; it's about discovering and reconnecting with your authentic self. This episode explores how to embrace your current passions, core values, and evolving identity post-retirement. Main Topics Covered: The importance of redefining your identity after retirement Exercises to reconnect with your current self, passions, and strengths Reflection tools like creating a personal memoir and personality assessments How to identify what truly makes you happy, motivated, and engaged Practical tips for embracing change and finding purpose In this episode: Discusses Marianne's three-step process to focus on what you do well, your purpose, and opportunities to implement your skills Explores five key areas: personality, interests, strengths, skills, and motivators Shares personal experiences from journaling, creating memoirs, and visualizing life as a journey with exits Emphasizes the significance of understanding your strengths, such as listening, loyalty, and organizational skills Offers exercises like personality trait selection and interest reflection to identify what brings joy and fulfillment Highlights the importance of self-compassion and honest reflection during this transformative phase The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marianne Osher (https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement-Marianne-Osher/dp/0983403937) Note: The journey of self-discovery can be emotional and deep. Take your time, be kind to yourself, and remember that every step you take is progress toward a fulfilling retirement life. Connect with the Hosts: findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com (mailto:findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com)

6. 

   13 May 2026

   Episode 9- Finding New Beginnings in Retirement

   Retirement is a time of profound change and endless possibilities. In this episode, three sisters share insights from expert Marianne Osher’s 'The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement,' discussing how retirees can approach this chapter of life with intentionality, flexibility, and creativity to find purpose and fulfillment.The concept of endless possibilities in retirement and how to navigate feeling overwhelmed versus liberated. This episode encourages retirees and pre-retirees to reflect on their life’s baggage, explore various paths, and craft a compelling vision for their future. Whether you prefer a structured plan or spontaneous adventures, embracing experimentation and visualization can lead to a more joyful, authentic retirement. Exploring six different retirement paths: continuers, easy gliders, adventurers, searchers, involved spectators, and retreaters. The importance of self-awareness in choosing paths, experimenting, and integrating different approaches. Repacking your mental and emotional baggage—reevaluating beliefs, habits, and relationships that no longer serve you. Developing a vision board to clarify your future goals, activate your subconscious, and stay motivated. How to balance structure and spontaneity in retirement for a fulfilling lifestyle. The significance of community involvement, travel, hobbies, and personal growth as part of your retirement vision. Reimagining your identity—shifting from a career-focused mindset to one rooted in joy, purpose, and self-care. The role of mindfulness, living intentionally, and celebrating small wins during this transition. Practical exercises including visualizing your ideal future and reassessing your baggage The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marianne Osher (https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement-Marianne-Osher/dp/0983403937) The Art of Possibility by Rosam Stone Zander & Benjamin Zander (https://www.amazon.com/Art-Possibility-Transforming-Professional-Personal/dp/0875960595) The Artist's Way series by Julia Cameron (https://juliacameronlive.com/)

7. 

   27 Apr 2026

   Episode 8- It's Time for Discovery

   The podcast episode discusses the challenges and transitions associated with retirement, including identity, purpose, and mental health. It also explores strategies for finding fulfillment and joy in retirement, as well as the importance of self-discovery and reflection. The conversation revolves around the theme of self-discovery and personal growth during a time of transition. It explores mindset, support, and the pursuit of new interests and skills. The speakers share their experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and learning. Takeaways Retirement presents challenges related to identity, purpose, and mental health. Self-discovery and reflection are essential for finding fulfillment and joy in retirement. Growth Mindset Self-Compassion The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Mary Ann Osher (https://riverside.com/editor/bc3a6c3a-9ad3-4708-8bd6-d63f8420dbfb/amazon.com) Nancy Schalashberg’s book, Overwhelmed, Coping with Life’s Ups and Downs (https://riverside.com/editor/bc3a6c3a-9ad3-4708-8bd6-d63f8420dbfb/amazon.com) References: 1.        Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” 2019. 2. Schlossberg, Nancy EdD, “Overwhelmed. Coping with Life’s Ups and Downs.” Links: “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/ (http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/)

8. 

   14 Apr 2026

   Episode 7- Letting Go of the Past for a Fulfilling Retirement Journey

   Letting Go of the Past for a Fulfilling Retirement Journey In this episode, we explore the emotional and practical aspects of letting go of your previous career identity to embrace a new chapter in life. Join us as we discuss how to navigate change, shed emotional baggage, and find purpose after retirement. Key Topics The importance of releasing your former professional identity How to accept the loss of organizational power and perks Overcoming fears and emotional attachment to the past Practical exercises to let go, including symbolic fire rituals The role of memories and creating new opportunities Recognizing job-related stressors that make letting go challenging Personal stories of growth and adjustment in retirement Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to the importance of letting go for a successful retirement 00:24 - Overview of challenges faced when retiring and transitioning to a new life phase 01:17 - The significance of releasing old identities and roles 02:26 - Letting go of who you used to be—career identity and recognition 03:14 - Impact of community environment on perceptions of your former career 04:45 - The loss of authority, power, and perks after retirement 07:21 - Guilt associated with no longer earning a paycheck 08:36 - Maintaining personal traits and professional qualities post-retirement 10:56 - Why holding on to the past can hinder emotional and physical health 12:20 - Using memories to stay connected and transition into the unknown 13:16 - The necessity of emotional growth through letting go 15:18 - Strategies to trust in the process and release fear 17:47 - Exercises for letting go: listing what to release and symbolic burning 25:50 - Creative ways to say goodbye to the past, including talk, crumble, or burn lists 26:39 - Humor and support, including "fireball" rituals and sharing with others 27:05 - Encouragement to reflect and embrace the next chapter with joy Resources & Links Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Mary Ann Usher (https://www.amazon.com/Your-Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement-Usher/dp/xxxxxx) The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement: It’s Not About the Money (https://riverside.com/amazon.com/dp/B0XXXXXX) by Mary-Ann T. Oshoor “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/ (http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/)

9. 

   30 Mar 2026

   Episode 6- Retirement Changes Everything

   This episode explores the emotional and psychological transitions into retirement, emphasizing the importance of understanding change, embracing discovery, and developing adaptability for a fulfilling retirement journey. key topics Emotional and psychological changes in retirement The phases of letting go, in-between, and new beginning The importance of adaptability and acceptance of change Strategies for finding purpose and fulfillment after retirement The role of social connections and self-awareness in retirement takeaways Understanding that transitions take time and self-compassion is essential Viewing retirement as a journey of discovery and growth The significance of letting go of the past to embrace the future Developing adaptability helps manage change more effectively The importance of balancing positive and negative aspects of change action items Reflect on your own transitions and what you've learned from them Practice self-compassion during periods of change Develop a personal plan for discovering new purpose in retirement Balance positive and negative aspects of change in your mindset Chapters 00:00 Navigating Retirement Transitions 04:21 Understanding Emotional Changes in Retirement 06:55 Phases of Letting Go and Embracing Change 13:17 The Importance of Adaptability 20:51 Reflections on Personal Growth and Future Challenges 34:15 Introduction to Retirement Planning 34:42 Exploring Trends: What the Numbers Reveal Resources Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marion Osher (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0XXXXXX) Website (https://stephanieexample.com/)

10. 

    16 Mar 2026

    Episode 5-Navigating Retirement Challenges and Fears

    SummaryThis episode explores the emotional, social, and practical challenges faced during retirement, including identity loss, health concerns, downsizing, and coping strategies. Experts share insights and personal stories to help listeners navigate this significant life transition. Chapters 00:00 Facing Retirement Challenges 03:33 Navigating Identity and Relevance 06:10 The Importance of Structure in Retirement 08:30 Social Connections and Loneliness 10:58 Understanding Gray Divorce and Relationships 13:41 Mental Health Risks in Retirement 16:26 Addressing Baggage and Old Issues 18:46 Finding Value Beyond Work 21:12 Concluding Thoughts on Retirement 41:04 Introduction to Retirement Planning 41:31 Key Resources for Retirement 41:37 Personalizing Your Retirement Journey Resources & Links: Finding Our Way Book and Workbook (https://amazon.com/yourbooklink) Marianne's strategies for retirement - Brain and Life (https://www.brainandlife.org/) Caring for aging loved ones - AARP Resources (https://aarp.org/)

11. 

    2 Mar 2026

    Episode 4- Mindset Matters: Shaping Your Retirement Experience

    In this conversation, the hosts explore the importance of mindset in retirement, discussing the differences between fixed and growth mindsets. They emphasize the impact of mindset on retirement experiences and introduce self-reflection exercises to help listeners assess their own mindsets. The discussion also addresses common fears related to retirement and introduces the concept of the four L's of retirement: longevity, lifestyle, legacy, and liquidity. Through engaging dialogue, the hosts encourage listeners to reflect on their own retirement journeys and the mindsets that shape them. Takeaways Your mindset significantly influences your retirement experience. A fixed mindset can limit opportunities and growth. Growth mindset encourages exploration and positivity. Self-reflection exercises can reveal your current mindset. Awareness of fears can help in planning for retirement. The euphoric mindset can lead to unrealistic expectations. The gloom and doom mindset can create a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's important to assess your feelings about retirement regularly. The four L's of retirement include longevity, lifestyle, legacy, and liquidity. Engaging in discussions about retirement can foster growth and understanding. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Mindset in Retirement 07:06 Exploring Fixed and Growth Mindsets 12:59 Exercises for Mindset Awareness 17:08 Feelings About Retirement 19:54 Exploring Emotions Around Retirement 20:39 Financial Preparedness and Its Impact 21:11 Navigating Indecision and Transition 23:58 Addressing Fears of Retirement 27:53 Defining Personal Goals for Retirement 31:24 Reflecting on Growth and Future Aspirations 35:15 Listener Engagement and Broader Themes

12. 

    27 Feb 2026

    Episode 1- Welcome- Introductions of Three Sisters

    In this episode of Finding Our Way, the three sisters discuss the non-financial aspects of retirement, sharing their personal experiences and challenges. They explore the transition from work to retirement, the quest for purpose, the importance of socialization, and the pressure to define one's purpose in this new phase of life. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal growth, exploration, and the value of giving back to the community as they navigate their journeys in retirement. Takeaways Retirement brings challenges beyond financial considerations. Finding purpose in retirement can be daunting. Socialization decreases significantly after leaving the workforce. Many retirees struggle with the question, 'What will I do now?'. The pressure to define one's purpose can be overwhelming. Exploring new interests and hobbies is essential in retirement. Maintaining a growth mindset is crucial for personal development. Family and community involvement can provide fulfillment. Retirement can be a time for self-discovery and exploration. It's important to redefine what success and purpose mean in retirement. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Life After Work 01:01 Personal Experiences with Retirement 05:21 Navigating the Transition 09:41 The Importance of Purpose 12:54 Finding Joy in Retirement 16:27 Redefining Purpose 20:33 Closing Thoughts and Future Topics Your comments and questions are encouraged.  Please send them to findingyourwaypodcast1@gmail.com (mailto:findingyourwaypodcast1@gmail.com)

13. 

    16 Feb 2026

    Episode 3-The Journey Through Retirement: Stages and Paths

    Retirement is a transformative phase in life, filled with opportunities and challenges. In this episode of Finding Our Way, we explore the four stages of retirement as outlined in Marianne T.  Osher’s book, helping you understand how to navigate this new chapter with purpose and joy. Key topics - 5-10 bullets: The three acts of life: childhood, adulting, and retirement, with a focus on the long "third act" The four stages of retirement: honeymoon, re-engagement, downshifting, and old age The honeymoon phase: embracing freedom, enjoying leisure, and avoiding disenchantment The gloom and doom path: risks of regret, isolation, and depression without proper planning Re-engagement: living your best life, rediscovering passions, and balancing activity levels The importance of pacing oneself to prevent burnout during active retirement The shift to slower, more mindful living in the downshifting stage Preparing for advanced age: lifestyle choices that enhance quality of life and longevity The power of mindset and social connections in aging gracefully Practical strategies: small lifestyle changes, managing social calendars, and embracing learning at any age 1.      Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” 2019. 2.  Landry, Roger, “The Official Summary of Live Long, Die Short: Roger Landry,” Audiobook 2019. Links: “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/ (http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/)

14. 

    2 Feb 2026

    Episode 2- Retirement Today

    etirement is no longer just a phase of life; it’s a dynamic journey filled with possibilities and challenges. In this blog post, we delve into the evolving concept of retirement, debunking common myths and exploring how modern retirees can craft fulfilling lives beyond their careers. Understanding Retirement Today: The landscape of retirement has dramatically changed from what our grandparents experienced. In the podcast episode of "Finding Our Way, Conversations on Life After Work," Michelle, Annette, and Stephanie discuss how retirees today can expect to enjoy 20 to 30 years of life after work, thanks to advancements in healthcare and lifestyle choices. This shift means that retirement is no longer synonymous with idleness; instead, it’s an opportunity for personal growth and exploration. Debunking Retirement Myths: One prevalent myth is that retirement is a time for rest and relaxation without any further engagement in life. Annette reflects on her grandparents’ retirement, highlighting how many retirees in the past simply stayed home and engaged in minimal activities. In contrast, today’s retirees are breaking stereotypes by staying active and engaged in various pursuits. Another myth is that retirement is only for the financially secure. The hosts emphasize that people over 50 account for half of consumer spending in the United States. This statistic underscores the importance of recognizing the economic impact of older adults and the need for businesses to cater to this demographic. The Role of Personal Fulfillment: Michelle introduces the book "The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement" by Marianne T. Oehser which serves as a guide for retirees looking to design a fulfilling life. The book encourages readers to think beyond financial stability and to explore areas that contribute to their happiness. It includes exercises to help individuals develop their personal happiness portfolios, emphasizing that fulfillment can come from various sources, including hobbies, social interactions, and community involvement. The Importance of Community: Community plays a significant role in the retirement experience. The hosts share anecdotes about their active older relatives and neighbors, noting how important social connections are for overall well-being. Engaging with a community not only combats loneliness but also provides opportunities for new friendships and shared interests. Retirement is no longer a one-size-fits-all experience. It’s a time for exploration, growth, and community engagement. By debunking myths and embracing new possibilities, retirees can create fulfilling lives that reflect their passions and interests. As we move forward, it’s essential to rethink what retirement means and how we can support one another in this journey. 1.      Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Note About the Money!” 2019. Links: “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Note About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/ (http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/)

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