Finding Solace is a show that connects people to the real world around them through actionable insights for everyday people. No fluff, no signaling, just talking. From dating, to clean eating, masculinity, and finance, I cover the things that every 18-34 year old guy needs to know.
dating is supposed to be fun, so why does it suck? - #063
In today's episode, I dive into the idea that dating is supposed to be fun, and that modern dating sucks because we take ourselves too seriously all the time. I end the episode by talking about ways to improve your dating life by slowing down and enjoying the process.
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2 Oct 2026
ai is destroying the human experience - #061
Everyone knows about the rise of AI slop, but have you ever thought about how AI slop shapes our culture and the physical world around us? In today's episode, I talk about how AI is degrading human creativity and communication skills, how AI art is devaluing real art, and how to fight back.
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Support the show monthly: https://solacespeaks.com/ (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/solacespeaks)
Sign up for feelwrite, my habit tracking app and use code SOLACE for 25% off a lifetime package: https://feelwrite.app/ (https://feelwrite.app/)
Join my Discord and apply to join the Minecraft serer by following the instructions in the #info channel: https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd (https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd)
My bookshop: https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads (https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads)
18 Sept 2026
have you ever *really* tried? - #060
In today's episode, I talk about the art of "endeavoring" and how most people haven't ever truly tried to achieve their goals. I talk about how to focus on a goal, to learn a new skill, or embark on a new adventure without burning out, and how to spot the difference between endeavoring and "grinding".
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Sign up for feelwrite, my habit tracking app and use code SOLACE for 25% off a lifetime package: https://feelwrite.app/ (https://feelwrite.app/)
Support the show monthly: https://solacespeaks.com/ (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/solacespeaks)
Join my Discord and apply to join the Minecraft serer by following the instructions in the #info channel: https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd (https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd)
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Apple Podcasts (US)
4.7 / 5
15 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
312 ratings
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