Finding Solace is a show that connects people to the real world around them through actionable insights for everyday people. No fluff, no signaling, just talking. From dating, to clean eating, masculinity, and finance, I cover the things that every 18-34 year old guy needs to know.
Finding Solace
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Podcast Overview
Finding Solace is a show that connects people to the real world around them through actionable insights for everyday people. No fluff, no signaling, just talking. From dating, to clean eating, masculinity, and finance, I cover the things that every 18-34 year old guy needs to know.
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1/22/2026
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Recent Episodes
July 20, 2026
The Ultimate Guide To Dating In 2026 - #054
<p>Today's episode is the ultimate deep dive into the world of dating in 2026. We talk about the problems with modern dating, how to be more comfortable socially, how to talk to strangers, how to meet women, how to get a girl's number, how to plan first, second, and third dates and how to ask her to be your girlfriend. </p><p>---</p><p>Sign up for feelwrite, my habit tracking app and use code SOLACE for 25% off a lifetime package:<a href="https://feelwrite.app/"> https://feelwrite.app/</a></p><p><br></p><p>Support the show monthly:<a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/solacespeaks"> https://solacespeaks.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>My bookshop: <a href="https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads">https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads</a></p><p><br></p><p>My Discord: <a href="https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd">https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd</a></p>
July 8, 2026
the fear of being average - #053
<p>In this episode I'm talking about the fear of being average, and why wanting a normal life with a regular job, a few friends, and some hobbies that don't make money has somehow become embarrassing. I break down the two types of guys this pressure creates: the grindset guy filming every second of his hustle, and the checked-out basement guy who's decided the whole game is rigged. They look like opposites, but I explain why they're both running from the same thing, and why neither one can accept being ordinary.</p><p>I get into why the internet keeps pushing us toward these extremes, how it plays out in dating, the "normie" insult, main character energy, and how Maslow's hierarchy fits into all of it. The main point is that a lot of the people telling you normal is a failure are the ones selling you the exit, and your dissatisfaction is what makes them money. I close with one small thing you can try this week to notice where that "not enough" feeling is actually coming from.</p><p>---</p><p>Support the show for as little as $2 per month:<a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/solacespeaks"> https://solacespeaks.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>My habit tracking app:<a href="https://feelwrite.app/"> https://feelwrite.app/</a></p><p><br></p><p>My bookshop: <a href="https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads">https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads</a></p><p><br></p><p>My Discord: <a href="https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd">https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd</a></p>
July 3, 2026
open your eyes, the world is beautiful - #052
<p>In today's episode, I talk about how easy it is to fall into a doomer trap, how to have hope in a hopeless society, the beauty and humanity of the world around you, and how everything will be okay if you slow down and pay attention to what's happening in your life.</p><p>---</p><p>Support the show for as little as $2 per month:<a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/solacespeaks"> https://solacespeaks.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>My habit tracking app:<a href="https://feelwrite.app/"> https://feelwrite.app/</a></p><p><br></p><p>My bookshop: <a href="https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads">https://bookshop.org/shop/solacereads</a></p><p><br></p><p>My Discord: <a href="https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd">https://discord.com/invite/jreFGvRmGd</a></p>
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