Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

About Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life. Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters! Book-a-Call With Lisa - https://lisashieldlove.com/app-podcast

Publisher

Lisa Shield

Category

education · religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

20 Jul 2021

Latest episode

20 Feb 2026

Latest episodes

2 of 227 episodes have a transcript.

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   20 Feb 2026TRANSCRIPT

   5 Hidden Blind Spots That Could Be Keeping You Single

   Today, Lisa dives into a topic that many of you have been requesting: the blind spots that could be keeping you single. In this episode, we'll explore the five common obstacles that may be preventing you from finding love and forming a deep connection with a partner. From fear of vulnerability to unrealistically high expectations, we'll uncover the patterns and behaviors that can unknowingly push potential suitors away. So, grab your headphones and get ready to discover the blind spots that may be holding you back from finding true love

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   13 Feb 2026TRANSCRIPT

   How to Spend Valentine's Day With the Future Guardian of Your Soul

   In this heartfelt Valentine’s Day episode, Lisa Shield shares an empowering way to spend the holiday if you’re single and longing for love. Rather than ignoring the day or pushing through feelings of loneliness, she invites listeners to intentionally connect with the future “guardian of their soul.” Through visualization, reflection, and writing a love letter to their future partner, listeners learn how to use Valentine’s Day as a meaningful ritual to call in love, clarify their desires, and strengthen their belief that the right relationship is on its way. Lisa also shares personal stories about meeting her husband and explains how timing, growth, and readiness must align for two people to find each other. This episode is an invitation to turn Valentine’s Day into a powerful act of hope, intention, and emotional alignment with the love you desire.

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   5 Feb 2026

   How to Be Playful Without Leading Him On

   How to Be Playful Without Leading a Man On In this rebroadcast of Getting Inside the Right Male Mind, Lisa and Benjamin Shield explore one of the most common challenges high caliber women face in dating: how to create romantic connection and playfulness without accidentally leading a man on or crossing personal boundaries. The episode opens with a question from Minerva, a client in Lisa’s advanced program, asking about female embodiment on dates while maintaining boundaries. From there, Lisa and Benjamin unpack why so many first dates feel pleasant but go nowhere and why women often walk away confused after “great” three hour conversations that never turn into second dates. They explain that conversation alone does not create attraction. Men are specifically looking for a romantic spark, not just intellectual connection. Without playfulness, embodiment, or subtle feminine energy, a date can feel more like a business meeting than the beginning of intimacy. Lisa introduces the idea of the “bell jar” connection: being fully present with a man so it feels like the rest of the world disappears. This focused presence creates emotional impact and chemistry without requiring overt sexuality. They also discuss how modern men are increasingly hesitant to initiate physical or romantic moments due to fear of rejection or being perceived negatively. Because of this, many men wait for women to signal openness. Small gestures like leaning in, light touch, eye contact, or even touching your own hair can gently open that door while keeping full control of your boundaries. A key theme is female embodiment. Confidence in your body, being grounded, relaxed, and present, is deeply attractive to men regardless of age, size, or clothing. A woman who is “in her body” naturally draws attention and creates magnetism without trying. Lisa distinguishes between playfulness and flirting. Flirting can feel strategic or manipulative, while playfulness is spontaneous, heart based, and expansive. Playfulness builds friendship, trust, and safety. Overt sexuality too early often short circuits that process. They also introduce the concept of the short game vs long game. The short game focuses on immediate sex. The long game builds emotional connection, shared experiences, trust, and respect first. Men quickly decide which game they are playing. A woman who embodies confidence, warmth, and boundaries naturally inspires a man to play the long game. For moments when things start moving faster than you want, Lisa and Benjamin share playful boundary setting phrases that keep attraction alive while slowing things down, including: “Whoa cowboy, let’s slow this down a bit.” “You have no idea how hard it is to say no to you, but let’s enjoy getting to know each other and not get ahead of ourselves just yet.” “If you’re looking to play the short game, that’s not me. I’m a long game kind of gal.” They emphasize that tone matters. Boundaries delivered playfully preserve chemistry, while harsh rejection can leave lasting emotional imprints on good men. The episode closes with a powerful reminder: you always have the power to say no. Playfulness never removes your agency. The goal is to build attraction with heart, compassion, and emotional intelligence, not performance or games. This conversation ultimately reframes dating as a collaborative dance where feminine embodiment and playful presence invite masculine leadership, creating space for real connection to grow.

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5 Hidden Blind Spots That Could Be Keeping You Single

Published 20 Feb 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] Five blind spots. So the first one I'm going to talk about is fear of vulnerability, fear of being vulnerable. A lot of you, women in particular, complain that men are not emotionally available, but the truth is water seeks its own level, like attracts like, and emotionally available people will gravitate towards emotionally available people. You may not want to hear that, but it's true. A fear of vulnerability, of opening up, letting your guard down, and letting someone see the real you can be a barrier to connection, and it can be a way that we keep men at bay. So putting on an act, pretending that everything is fine, not sharing real things that are going on with you, flaws and all. […]

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