Fire Starter Mum

About Fire Starter Mum

Fire Starter Mum podcast is dedicated to mums who are change-makers at heart yet feel they’ve lost their inner fire (and want to find it back!). It features fire starting conversations with mums and experts around the topics of motherhood identity shift, re-inventing yourself and feeling on fire again! Our vibe: we take the mask off, speak our truth and challenge norms about motherhood so that as mums we feel adequate, seen and empowered! Follow us on Instagram: @firestartermum (https://www.instagram.com/firestartermum/)

Publisher

Gosia Scarrott

Category

kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

6 Mar 2023

Latest episode

25 Jan 2026

Latest episodes

31 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   25 Jan 2026

   Watching Mothers in Public: What I Didn’t See Coming

   In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of a street campaign I carried out in Bristol, where I stopped mothers in public space and asked one simple, unexpected question: “What would you say to another mum who feels she’s lost herself?” This episode isn’t about solutions. It’s about the moment itself. I share: Why I felt called to take this question into public space The deeply personal experience that first made me aware of how invisible motherhood can feel What it was like to stand on the street and ask this question — and what happened before the answers came The pause, the silence, and the visible shift in breath, eyes, and body when mothers were asked something they didn’t expect Three simple observations I noticed across conversations — without analysing or explaining what they mean How this experience shifted my own instinct to move quickly into meaning-making, and why I’m choosing witnessing over explaining for now This was a pilot campaign, not a finished project. And this episode reflects the position I’m standing in right now: a witness who is beginning to notice patterns, but choosing to stay close to the human moment rather than rush into conclusions. At the end of the episode, I invite you to sit with the same question yourself — not for me, not for the project, but for what happens in you when you hear it. This episode is for you if you’re craving something slower, more human, and more spacious — and if you know the feeling of disappearing in motherhood, even when everything looks “fine” from the outside. 🔗 Explore & Stay Connected If you’d like to go deeper or stay close to how this work unfolds, you can find me here: 🎧 Find Her Again™ — Free 7-Day Audio Journey (subscribepage.io/findher) A gentle audio series to help you reconnect with yourself, your voice, and your sense of identity — on your own terms. 🔥 The Firestarter Question — Campaign Page (https://subscribepage.io/firestarterquestion) Watch clips from the street campaign and, if you’d like, answer the same question anonymously yourself. ✍️ @FirestarterMum (https://www.instagram.com/firestartermum/) Quiet reflections, ongoing work, and moments from the field. Thank you for listening — and for sitting with this question alongside me 🤍

2. 

   18 Jan 2026

   What Seven Mothers in Bristol Revealed About Being Seen

   In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of my Bristol street campaign — where I asked seven mothers one question: “What would you say to another mum who feels she’s lost herself?” Their answers revealed powerful patterns about identity, overwhelm, and visibility in motherhood. We explore: 💬 The phrases nearly every mother repeated “It gets easier.” “You’ll find yourself again.” Why this comfort is also a cultural script — and what it reveals about the lack of support mothers receive now. 🔥 Three core themes from the conversations Using their exact words, I share what mothers told me about overwhelm, identity blur, and the lifeline of connection. 👁 Why mothers feel lost — and why it’s not personal Identity isn’t disappearing. It’s being suffocated by lack of space, witnessing, and visibility. 🧩 Visibility as identity oxygen How the campaign confirmed my biggest belief: mothers don’t need to wait for life to get easier — they need to be seen. 🔬 The Observer Effect of motherhood A simple metaphor that explains why mothers sharpen when witnessed, and blur when they’re not. 🎥 What’s next for The Firestarter Question How this project is expanding, where to watch the clips, and what future episodes will unpack about matrescence and visibility. ⸻ This isn’t an episode about “losing yourself.” It’s about what happens when a mother’s inner world is finally acknowledged and honoured. ⸻ 🧠 Mentioned in this episode: 🎥 The Firestarter Question clips on Instagram @firestartermum (https://www.instagram.com/firestartermum/) 🎧 Find Her Again™ (https://firestartermum.bcns.ai/) – Free 7-day voice note journey 💌 Connect with me on Instagram @firestartermum (https://www.instagram.com/firestartermum/) Watch The Observer Effect (https://youtu.be/YzTHzuKk8jQ?si=Zev_aU66A5hUyqR3) 🔥 Find your fire and shine. Firestarter Mum Shop (https://firestartermum.bcns.ai/) Gosia x

3. 

   10 Jan 2026

   Stepping Into Life With Ease: Manifestation Without Force

   What if manifestation wasn’t about visualising harder, fixing your mindset, or constantly working on yourself? What if it was about removing pressure instead of adding effort? In this spontaneous, reflective episode, I share how my understanding of manifestation has fundamentally shifted — especially through motherhood, nervous system awareness, and the teachings of Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland and the work of Richard Dotts. This isn’t a “how-to” episode. It’s an invitation to see life differently. In this episode, I explore: • Why many manifestation practices feel performative — and why they quietly exhaust us • How motherhood pulls us deeper into the movie of life, where emotions feel intense and personal • The concept of being inside the movie vs behind the projector — and why this shift changes everything • How over-attachment, self-evaluation, and meaning-making create interference • Why ease comes from subtraction, not effort • The nervous system’s role in clarity, flow, and receiving • Why the things that arrived easily in your life likely came without force or pressure • How desire becomes heavier when it’s tied to worth, identity, or proof • What it means to receive responsibility, money, ambition, and life itself — instead of managing or controlling it • Why some cycles naturally close — and why forcing the next chapter creates resistance This episode is about orientation. Remembering where you stand. And allowing life to meet you without struggle. More from Firestarter Mum: 🎧 Find Her Again™ (https://subscribepage.io/findher)– Free 7-Day Voice Note Journey A gentle audio experience to help you reconnect with your voice, visibility, and self-worth — on your terms. 💌 Connect with me on Instagram @firestartermum (https://instagram.com/firestartermum) Join the Firestarter Mum community for honest conversations about motherhood, identity, and visibility. 🔥 Find your fire and shine! Gosia x

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Spotify

5.0 / 5

6 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 34 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

36

Social presence

91

YouTube

0

Engagement

32