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Flirtin After Forty

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by Tracy Lopez

4.1(13 reviews)
74 episodes
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Flirtin After Forty is a podcast about dating, relationships, and starting over in midlife. Hosted by Tracy, the show explores the messy, funny, honest reality of love after 40 — from divorce and heartbreak to first dates, unexpected connections, and everything in between. Through candid conversations and real-life stories, Tracy talks with guests and shares her own experiences navigating modern dating, relationships, and the occasional chaos that comes with it. Episodes are short, honest, and usually under 30 minutes — perfect for anyone who knows that love doesn’t follow a timeline. Stay connected: Join the Flirtin’ List for podcast updates, card drops, and discounts: https://flirtinafterforty.com

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July 26, 2026

The Last Boat Ride

This line from the episode is gorgeous. It also ties beautifully to Safe Kept Legacy without feeling like a sales pitch. When the Universe Whispers This captures the book, the movie, the boat, the house, and the feeling that something keeps nudging you forward. First-Person Episode Summary In this episode, I’m stepping away from dating for a minute and talking about life, legacy, memory, and the strange little ways the universe keeps whispering when we’re trying not to listen. After getting back from Michigan with my kids, I was exhausted and almost skipped recording. But I kept feeling this need to share what had happened — not as a sales pitch, not as a perfectly polished business update, but as something personal. I talk about Safekept Legacy, the business I started because I wanted people to be able to leave messages, memories, photos, and words for the people they love — especially after they’re gone. And I also talk honestly about how hard it has been, how the idea hasn’t worked the way I hoped, and how I’ve been thinking about shutting it down. But then came all these little signs. A book about a husband leaving books behind for his wife. A trip to Michigan. My parents selling their boat. One last tubing ride with my kids. A scary moment in the water. My mom, who never records anything, suddenly pulling out her phone to capture all of us telling the story afterward. And then a movie about voicemails, grief, love, and the voices we hold onto. This episode is about the places that hold our memories, the people we’re afraid of losing, and the way our kids will remember their childhoods. It’s about wanting to preserve the lake house, the boat days, the grandparents, the laughter, the stories, and the voices. It’s about how we show up for people when we can’t physically be there anymore. And maybe, more than anything, it’s about listening when the universe keeps nudging you toward something that still matter

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July 16, 2026

A Week Can Change Everything

Some weeks quietly pass by. Others completely change your perspective. This week reminded me how fragile life can be as I took my son in for another EEG and found myself sitting in that familiar place every parent knows—the one where you'd do absolutely anything to protect your child. It was a reminder to slow down, be grateful, and appreciate the moments we often take for granted. Then...life surprised me. I jumped back on Hinge with one goal: practice the Burned Haystack Dating Method—not necessarily meet someone. But apparently the universe had other plans. I met someone I'm calling Scratch, and for the first time in a long time, I'm allowing myself to simply receive instead of chase. We talk about why "receiving" has been my word of the year, what a genuinely healthy first date looked like, why matching custody schedules feels like winning the lottery, and how quickly life can shift when you're open to unexpected opportunities. Of course, we're also adding another Burned Haystack dating pattern to our growing list of red flags, and I have plenty of hilarious (and slightly horrifying) Hinge profiles to share—including a man whose biggest goal this year is to speed less and another who apparently needs an entire room dedicated to crying. Sometimes all it takes is one week to remind you that hope isn't gone...it was just waiting for the right moment.

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July 9, 2026

Block the Motherfucker

In this episode, I’m talking about the aftermath of my very questionable “can we be friends with benefits?” experiment with J-Man — and yes, you were all right. Bad idea. I know. I knew it too, but apparently I needed to gather my own evidence like a little emotional scientist. After one “indiscretion,” the door reopened to texting, feelings, sad conversations, and the very strange experience of being broken up but suddenly having a key to his house so I can watch his dog. So, you know, totally normal and not complicated at all. I’m also talking about hope — specifically the kind of big romantic hope that makes some of us still believe in deep, real love, even after roadblocks, heartbreak, and a few “learning opportunities,” as corporate America would say. Then I get into Burn the Haystack, a dating book and approach that is making me rethink how I look at dating apps, profiles, boundaries, and all the tiny red flags we have been trained to explain away. The big takeaway? We do not owe strange men explanations, debates, apologies, or second chances when they show us who they are. Sometimes the answer is just: block the motherfucker. And, because dating apps remain committed to being a public health concern, I share a few profile gems — including “dating me is like eating gummy worms with no teeth on a bareback camel ride,” a grown man looking for a “good girl,” and a 51-year-old man seeking women 18 to 45 with “no career women need apply.” So yes, the haystack is on fire. Bring snacks.

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What is Flirtin After Forty?

Flirtin After Forty is a podcast about dating, relationships, and starting over in midlife. Hosted by Tracy, the show explores the messy, funny, honest reality of love after 40 — from divorce and heartbreak to first dates, unexpected connections, and everything in between.

Through candid conversations and real-life stories, Tracy talks with guests and shares her own experiences navigating modern dating, relationships, and the occasional chaos that comes with it. Episodes are short, honest, and usually under 30 minutes — perfect for anyone who knows that love doesn’t follow a timeline.

Stay connected: Join the Flirtin’ List for podcast updates, card drops, and discounts: https://flirtinafterforty.com

How often does this podcast release new episodes?

This podcast updates daily.

Where can I listen to this podcast?

This podcast is available on 4 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.

Does this podcast accept guests?

No, this podcast does not typically feature guests.

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