Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.
Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that feels like an audiobook but in short, deliciously bingeable episodes. .
After Ten Years On The Dating Apps I Found Love Offline #216
Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in Los Angeles. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally reveals the identity of the man she gave up peanut butter for and how they finally figured it out together. Check it out to hear about the seemingly impossible happy ending. And brace yourselves, there might actually be some romance and fuzzy feelings in this one! This is the sixteenth and final full episode of season 2 (#216) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #dating #datingstories #datinginyour30s #romance #love #lovestory #happy #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #comedian #funnydatingstories #datingpodcastforwomen #storytelling Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in Los Angeles. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQFacebook https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanleyNew episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40
6 Nov 2025
He Mansplained My Flaws To Me In A Breakup Text
Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Carter tells Kelly every single thing that he think is wrong with her. To her face? Of course not! Via text. Like the grown ass man that he is. This is the fifteenth full episode of season 2 (#215) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #breakup #breakuptext #textmessages #Situationships #DatingRegret #RelationshipTalk #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #awkwarddate Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQFacebook https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanleyNew episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40
8 Oct 2025
Taking A Break You Don't Want To Take #214
Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally takes some steps with Dex that take her out of the friend zone (yay!), only to take two steps backwards soon after (boo).This is the fourteenth full episode of season 2 (#214) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #friendzone #Situationships #toosoon #DatingRegret #RelationshipTalk #DatingIsNuts #WomensVoices #awkwarddate Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast and more perks! https://patreon.com/kellyshanley?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disasters and IRL awkwardness lead Kelly to look inward and find out why and how she has been blocking love from her life when she sincerely believes that she wants it. And guess what? She changes her life forever!Follow her on social:IG https://www.instagram.com/datingisnutspod/YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVBv_RoCfJZvop1-1iqYxPQFacebook https://www.facebook.com/kelly.shanleyNew episodes drop every two weeks. If you can't wait for the next one, FIRST leave us 5 stars, and then go read the column on which the podcast is based on Medium at https://medium.com/slackjaw/introducing-for-love-or-peanut-butter-f94c52852e40
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YouTube views
552,875
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
4.0 / 5
4 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
14 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 71 / 100
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Quality
63
Social presence
94
YouTube
82
Engagement
71
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