About For the Man Shaped by Struggles, a Conscious Men’s Journey – Reflections from a Feminine Presence
A space for men who carry more than they say.
Sometimes it's hard to explain how you feel, or explaining it just feels more tiring than carrying it. You have become very good at "I am fine."
This podcast gently explores the emotional weight men often hold in silence — loneliness, purpose, identity, love, and the quiet battles no one sees.
Offered from a feminine perspective, these reflections come from presence and understanding — sitting beside you, seeing your world without judgment.
If you've ever felt lost, disconnected, or unsure of your place in the world… you are not alone.
Whenever you're ready to say it out loud, I'm here.
Elena x
🎧 Listen: bystruggles.com
Instagram: Elena.del.Canto
Contact: delcantoromero@gmail.com (mailto:delcantoromero@gmail.com)
#MensMentalHealth #MenAndEmotions #EmotionalHealth #Loneliness #Masculinity #EmotionalWellbeing #SilentStruggles #MentalHealthAwareness #YouAreNotAlone #MensWellbeing
SE 3 E13 Gen Z Men and Loneliness: Why They Stopped Trying
You’ve never had a girlfriend. And you’ve stopped telling people, because every time someone asks, it feels like a verdict.
You’re not unlovable. You’re unpractised. And you’re not alone: nearly half of Gen Z men had no relationship as teenagers, and more young men than ever have stopped trying.
The loneliness, the fear of rejection, and the shame you’ve never said out loud.
If this is you, write to me. I read every message.
For the Man Shaped by Struggles — a space for men who carry more than they say.
Elena x
bystruggles.com
#MaleLoneliness #NeverHadAGirlfriend #GenZMen #FearOfRejection #MensMentalHealth #SingleMen #Dating #SelfWorth #Connection #Resilience
7 Oct 2026
SE 3 E12 Am I Good Enough? Loneliness, the Killer of Men Over 50
You have a job, a family, people all around you. And you've never felt more alone.
Every night, the same question: am I good enough?
Loneliness is quietly killing men in their fifties. They are now among those most at risk of suicide, and almost no one sees it coming. Because you were taught to provide, to hold it together, to never say "I'm not okay." So you stay silent, until the silence becomes the danger.
This episode is for you if you've been carrying it alone for too long. Or for him, if you love a man who is.
Tell me in the comments: when did someone last ask how you really are?
Struggling right now? Call Samaritans, free, 24/7: 116 123 (UK & Ireland).
🎧 bystruggles.com · 📸 @elena.del.canto
Elena x
#MenOver50 #MaleLoneliness #MensMentalHealth #SuicidePrevention #BreakTheSilence #ForTheManShapedByStruggles.
23 Sept 2026
SE 3 E11 The Years Didn't Pass. You Just Missed Them.
One day you'll look up and realise the years didn't pass.
They slipped away while you were busy. The kids grew up, your parents got older, and you were there for all of it, just never really present. Between 30 and 50, most men don't lose their lives to disaster. They lose them to autopilot, one urgent task at a time.
In this episode, I open up about the decade I lost believing life would start "after this stage," and how to recognise autopilot in a responsible, hardworking life.
I leave you with one question: are you living your life, or just reacting to it? Because being present won't make your life longer, but it will make it deeper.
Is there a story behind your answer?
Write to me at delcantoromero@gmail.com.
I read every message.
Elena x
#Autopilot #MensMentalHealth #Midlife #Burnout #Presence #Resilience #WorkLifeBalance #Fatherhood #LivingWithPurpose #MenShapedByStruggles
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