Friends Without Benefits

About Friends Without Benefits

New friends. Endless stories. Zero qualifications. From embarrassing moments and wild experiences to unsolicited advice and random debates, we cover it all. Whether you're looking for a laugh, a fresh perspective, or just something entertaining to listen to on your commute, you've found your people.

Publisher

Spencer Carlson

Category

comedy · leisure

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

19 Jun 2026

Latest episode

6 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   6 Oct 2026

   Fun hang with Trevor

   In this episode of the Friends Without Benefits Podcast, Trevor shares his journey as a mortgage loan originator and basketball coach, discussing how basketball has shaped his career. The conversation also delves into the current challenges in the real estate market and the benefits of homeschooling. In this conversation, the guys discusses the shortcomings of the education system, the challenges of self-employment, and the growing trend of homeschooling. They also share personal anecdotes about fishing, hunting, and Spencer's experience in Africa, emphasizing the importance of balancing work and leisure. Takeaways Basketball influences career paths Real estate market challenges Education system needs reform Homeschooling is on the rise Chapters 00:00 Introducing Trevor: A Multifaceted Life 02:48 Basketball: A Lifelong Passion 12:23 Navigating the Real Estate Market 22:10 Understanding Adjustable Rate Mortgages 30:09 The Benefits of Homeschooling 31:38 Rethinking Education's Purpose 34:04 The Challenges of Self-Employment 38:20 The Rise of Homeschooling 40:43 Balancing Hobbies and Work 46:15 Adventures in Fishing and Hunting 50:24 Experiences in Africa 01:01:14 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

2. 

   15 Sept 2026

   Is AI taking over!?

   Is AI taking over!? || Friends Without Benefits Podcast || @Friendswithoutbenefits-sc Interested in talking about the future of AI and the rapid advancement? How about something a little less doomsday and a little more lighthearted? This episode has you covered. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including personal background, career transitions, business ventures, and the impact of AI on society. The discussion delves into the evolution of technology, the potential risks of AI, and the portrayal of end-of-the-world scenarios in movies. The guys also talk about the impact of AI on the economy, the future of blue-collar jobs, the influence of technology on transportation, the evolution of college sports, and the experience of attending live events. Takeaways Career transitions and entrepreneurial ventures The impact of AI on society AI's impact on the economy The future of blue-collar jobs The experience of attending live events Chapters 00:00 Career Transitions and Entrepreneurial Ventures 03:22 The Evolution of Technology and AI 23:48 End-of-the-World Scenarios in Movies 26:05 AI's Impact on the Economy 27:02 The Future of Blue-Collar Jobs 28:29 The Evolution of College Sports 30:49 The Influence of Technology on Transportation 36:57 The Experience of Attending Live Events 50:54 Challenges and Opportunities of Running a Business If you enjoyed this conversation, like the video, subscribe, and share it with someone who would appreciate an honest conversation about where this life of ours is headed!

3. 

   9 Sept 2026

   Real Talk with Ben Lewis

   The conversation covers the setup and experience of podcasting, challenges faced in podcasting, guest recruitment and engagement, expanding podcast content, discussion on current events, responsibility and accountability, healthcare system challenges, career progression and financial struggles, transitioning careers, personal growth and financial stability, and the real estate career journey. Ben Lewis discusses his experiences in real estate, home renovation, property transactions, health and aging, physical fitness, and event planning. He also shares insights from an interview with Uncle Psy from Duck Commander. The conversation covers hunting stories, dove hunting adventures, hunting success, big game hunting experiences, survival and life lessons, and the speaker's spiritual journey and church experience. Takeaways Podcasting challenges and guest recruitment Healthcare system challenges and career progression Transitioning careers and financial struggles Real estate market fluctuations impact spending and savings. Property transactions involve challenges and missed opportunities. Health and fitness play a crucial role in longevity and well-being. Event planning requires venue selection and logistics for a successful outcome. Dove hunting can be both challenging and rewarding Shared experiences in hunting create strong bonds and valuable life lessons Chapters 00:00 Podcast Setup and Experience 01:23 Challenges of Podcasting 03:11 Guest Recruitment and Engagement 04:39 Expanding Podcast Content 05:08 Discussion on Current Events 06:03 Responsibility and Accountability 07:29 Healthcare System Challenges 09:24 Career Progression and Financial Struggles 10:51 Transitioning Careers 13:12 Personal Growth and Financial Stability 14:09 Real Estate Career Journey 15:34 Financial Struggles and Career Transition 17:21 Healthcare System Challenges 18:20 Real Estate Career Journey 21:42 Career Transition and Challenges 23:30 Career Progression and Financial Struggles 25:28 Transitioning Careers 26:25 The High Life and Real Estate 28:24 Home Renovation and House Hunting 30:35 Real Estate Deals and Missed Opportunities 31:44 Property Transactions and Contingencies 33:37 Real Estate Offers and Competitive Market 35:32 Challenges in Real Estate Transactions 39:26 Health and Aging 41:24 Physical Health and Fitness 44:10 Ducks Unlimited and Event Planning 47:53 Venue Selection and Event Logistics 52:06 Interview with Uncle Cy 53:31 Hunting Stories and Connections 55:12 Dove Hunting Adventures 56:34 Dove Hunting Success 57:02 Hunting with Soldiers 59:23 Big Game Hunting Experiences 01:00:18 Survival and Life Lessons 01:03:07 Spiritual Journey and Church Experience

4. 

   25 Aug 2026

   Brokerage comeback story!

   The conversation covers a range of topics, including memories and nostalgia, the tradition of 'Treat Yourself Sunday,' whiskey tasting and stories, career transitions and reflections, health and fitness journey, and military experiences and challenges. The discussion is filled with personal anecdotes, reflections on past experiences, and insights into various aspects of life and career. The conversation covers military life, challenges of real estate, dealing with difficult clients, navigating lending and home buying, real estate negotiations, stressful real estate deals, problem-solving in real estate, and unusual real estate situations. The speakers share personal experiences and insights related to these topics, providing valuable perspectives on the real estate industry and the complexities of military service. Takeaways Nostalgia and memories play a significant role in shaping personal experiences and relationships. Consistency and camaraderie are essential for success and fulfillment in a career. Health and fitness are important aspects of personal well-being and require dedication and discipline. Military experiences and challenges provide unique insights into resilience and adaptability. Navigating real estate deals can be challenging and requires problem-solving skills. Understanding the intricacies of lending and home buying is crucial for successful real estate transactions. Chapters 00:00 Memories and Nostalgia 01:26 Treat Yourself Sunday 02:40 Whiskey Tasting and Stories 05:20 Career Transitions and Reflections 20:02 Health and Fitness Journey 33:50 Military Experiences and Challenges 34:50 Military Life and Service 37:00 Challenges of Real Estate 39:14 Dealing with Difficult Clients 40:37 Navigating Lending and Home Buying 41:33 Real Estate Negotiations 42:02 Stressful Real Estate Deals 43:26 Problem-Solving in Real Estate 44:20 Unusual Real Estate Situations 01:09:14 Concluding Remarks

5. 

   18 Aug 2026

   William Branch talks Home buying

   The conversation covers the importance of networking and building relationships in the mortgage business, the growth of Rockwall, challenges in the mortgage industry, first-time homebuyer programs, and the significance of problem-solving in real estate transactions. The conversation delves into the impact of interest rates on real estate, property taxes, market projections, real estate investment strategies, home value appreciation, financial planning, property features, VA loans, and the future of real estate investment. The discussion provides insights into the real estate market, mortgage financing, and investment opportunities. Takeaways Networking and building relationships are key to success in the mortgage business. First-time homebuyers can benefit from programs that allow them to buy a house with little to no money out of pocket. Problem-solving and hands-on experience are crucial for success in the mortgage industry. Interest rates Real estate investment Mortgage financing Chapters 00:00 Building Relationships and Networking 02:25 The Growth of Rockwall 04:19 Challenges in the Mortgage Business 22:09 First-Time Homebuyer Programs 28:44 Problem-Solving in Real Estate 32:30 Impact of Interest Rates on Real Estate 33:29 Property Taxes and Affordability 34:26 Market Projections and Timing 35:21 Real Estate Investment Strategies 35:50 Home Value Appreciation and Market Trends 37:15 Real Estate Investment and Financial Planning 37:45 Real Estate Investment and Property Features 56:48 Real Estate Investment and VA Loans 59:09 Future of Real Estate Investment

6. 

   11 Aug 2026

   Chelsea O. owner of Psalms Ranch

   Chelsea Osborne shares her journey from California to Texas, her experiences as a paramedic/ dispatcher, and her transition to country living and horse ownership. She discusses the challenges of balancing work and family, as well as the emotional toll of her experiences with personal loss. She shares her journey of horse trading, highlighting the challenges and lessons learned in the process. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and respecting the nature of horses, as well as the need for integrity and trust in the industry. Chelsea's approach to horse trading involves a focus on providing the right match between horses and their new owners, ensuring a good life for the animals. Takeaways Transition from California to Texas Challenges of different careers Balancing work and family Transition to country living and horse ownership Horse trading requires a deep understanding of the nature and behavior of horses Integrity and trust are essential in the horse trading industry Chapters 00:00 Transition to Texas and Law Enforcement 02:55 Challenges of life 06:11 Balancing Work and Family 31:31 Transition to Country Living and Horse Ownership 34:17 Challenges in Horse Trading 35:15 The Importance of Understanding Horses 36:37 Establishing Boundaries and Respect 38:06 The Business of Horse Trading 38:54 Lessons Learned and Continuous Learning 39:53 Caring for Horses and Ensuring the Right Match 40:23 Expanding the Business and Branding 41:18 Selecting the Right Horses for Different Purposes 42:10 Challenges of Selling Horses 43:23 Ensuring the Well-being of Horses 52:57 The Future of the Business

7. 

   28 Jul 2026

   Life and Marriage w/ Jess

   The conversation covers life updates, the loss of Tula, vacation plans, family dynamics, societal expectations in marriage, reflection on parenting and marriage, financial disagreements, and household cleanliness. The conversation covers various aspects of marriage, including acceptance, shared responsibilities, challenges, parenting, communication, childhood reflections, and financial planning for children. It also delves into unexpected encounters, unfortunate incidents, awkward moments, and financial responsibility for children. The hosts engage with the audience and express gratitude for their support. Takeaways Loss of a beloved pet can have a significant emotional impact on a family. Societal expectations in marriage can create pressure and conflict, especially regarding financial roles and family dynamics. Acceptance and understanding are crucial in marriage. Shared responsibilities and effective communication can strengthen a marriage. Chapters 00:00 Life Updates and Loss of Tula 03:30 Impact of Tula's Loss 08:28 Vacation Plans and Family Dynamics 13:13 Societal Expectations in Marriage 22:07 Reflection on Parenting and Marriage 25:33 Financial Disagreements and Household Cleanliness 27:54 Acceptance and Understanding in Marriage 29:35 Sharing Responsibilities in Marriage 31:32 Challenges of Transitioning in Marriage 32:32 Struggles and Growth in Marriage 33:28 Parenting Challenges and Support 34:20 Difficult Times in Marriage 35:44 Transitioning in Marriage 36:12 The Role of Marriage Counseling 37:11 Communication and Apology in Marriage 38:40 Effective Communication in Marriage 39:40 Avoiding Negative Language in Marriage 41:06 Reflections on Childhood and Marriage 42:27 Childhood Memories and Experiences 43:52 Adventures and Misadventures 45:21 Unexpected Encounters and Disappointments 46:48 Unfortunate Incidents and Experiences 48:13 Awkward Moments and Unpleasant Experiences 49:25 Unexpected Discoveries and Observations 50:48 Financial Planning for Children 52:48 Investing in Children's Future 54:06 Teaching Financial Responsibility to Children 55:44 Engaging with the Audience

8. 

   21 Jul 2026

   The exciting life of Officer Travis H.

   Travis Harless shares his experience of moving from California to Texas, highlighting the contrast in living conditions and societal issues. He also discusses his military service and transition to law enforcement, shedding light on his motivations and career choices. Spencer Carlson, a former police officer, shares his experiences and challenges in law enforcement, including anxiety about returning to certain duties after a long break. Travis also discusses the importance of reducing traffic accidents and fatalities, as well as his transition to a new police department and his involvement in the 'Badges, Bullets, and Blunders' podcast. Takeaways Transition from California to Texas Impact of Prop 47 on homelessness and drug addiction Anxiety and Challenges: Travis Harless discusses the anxiety and challenges he faced when returning to certain police duties after a long break. Importance of Reducing Traffic Accidents: Travis emphasizes the importance of reducing traffic accidents and fatalities, expressing his concern for the safety of his family and others on the road. Transition and Podcasting: Travis shares his transition to a new police department and his involvement in the 'Badges, Bullets, and Blunders' podcast, highlighting the evolution of the podcast from funny stories to more serious topics and video breakdowns. Chapters 00:00 Transition to Law Enforcement Career 28:29 Returning to Police Duties After a Long Break 31:07 Importance of Reducing Traffic Accidents and Fatalities 33:34 Transition to a New Police Department and Field Training 40:07 Favorite Position in Law Enforcement and Retirement Considerations 52:25 Evolution of 'Badges, Bullets, and Blunders' Podcast

9. 

   13 Jul 2026

   The life of a Mortgage Broker named Trent

   The conversation covers the career journey of a mortgage broker, experiences during college graduation and the COVID pandemic, parenting and family life, recreational activities such as golf and softball, and the physical challenges of aging. The discussion also delves into the impact of recreational activities on physical well-being and the challenges of staying active as one gets older. The conversation covers the challenges faced in a baseball career, including the experience of the Yips and the impact on identity. It also delves into the transition from a baseball career to the mortgage business, highlighting the journey and the decision-making process. Additionally, the discussion explores mortgage rates, lenders, and the importance of a reliable and flexible mortgage service. Takeaways Mortgage Broker Career Golf as a Recreational Activity Overcoming challenges in sports Transition from baseball to mortgage business Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Career Beginnings 01:58 College Graduation and COVID Experience 07:10 Parenting and Family Life 12:25 Recreational Activities: Golf and Softball 26:04 Physical Challenges of Aging 28:04 Baseball Career and Yips 36:14 Transition to Mortgage Business 48:27 Mortgage Rates and Lenders

10. 

    9 Jul 2026

    Talkin' shop with Chaz and Adrian

    The conversation covers a range of topics including the transition to real estate, the impact of COVID-19, cultural contrasts, and discussions about sports and entertainment. The speakers share personal experiences and insights related to these themes, providing a diverse and engaging conversation. The conversation covers Spencer's jiu-jitsu training journey and the importance of dressing appropriately for real estate clients. Spencer shares his experiences with jiu-jitsu training, competitions, and the impact of COVID-19 on his training routine. Additionally, he discusses the significance of dressing comfortably and authentically when interacting with luxury clientele in the real estate industry. Takeaways Transition to Real Estate COVID-19 Impact Cultural Contrasts Sports and Entertainment Jiu-jitsu training journey Dressing for real estate clients Chapters 00:00 Transition to Real Estate 06:42 COVID-19 Impact 22:07 Cultural Contrasts 26:32 Sports and Entertainment 27:01 Jiu-Jitsu Training Journey 49:46 Dressing for Real Estate Clients

11. 

    6 Jul 2026

    You're my Tinderella!

    The conversation covers the success of online dating, experiences with volunteering, and preferences for vacationing. It delves into the couple's history of meeting on Tinder, their volunteer work in Jamaica, and their differing views on vacationing and traveling. The conversation covers a range of topics including memories of Sandals Royal Bohemian parties, marriage and family dynamics, challenges of working night shifts, and health and safety regulations. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, providing a candid and engaging discussion. Takeaways Online dating success Volunteering experiences Vacation preferences Marriage and Family Dynamics Challenges of Working Night Shifts Health and Safety Regulations Chapters 00:00 How we met 28:49 Memories of Sandals Royal Bohemian Parties and Nightlife 34:19 Marriage and Family Dynamics 46:06 Challenges of Working Night Shifts 56:22 Health and Safety Regulations

12. 

    3 Jul 2026

    Justin with Vertical Media TX

    The conversation covers a range of topics including real estate photography, challenges of wedding photography, law enforcement career, whiskey tasting, engagement with international audience, personal life and family, discussion on Tesla and Tesla Model Y L pre-order disappointment, discussion on truck and driving experience, personal background and relocation, and challenges of daily commute. Spencer discusses multifaceted marketing, the pace of life in East Texas, family and travel, the Universal Studios experience, a review of Universal Studios, whiskey tasting, photography services and floor plans, photography options and turnaround, and closing remarks and contact information. Takeaways Transitioning from one career to another can be challenging and may involve disappointment. The pressure of capturing key moments in photography and the challenges of maintaining work-life balance were discussed. Multifaceted marketing approach Parenting and bedtime routines Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties 10:42 The Pressure of Capturing Key Moments 16:00 Exploring Career in Real Estate 21:21 Whiskey Tasting and Review 26:52 Tesla Model Y L Pre-Order Disappointment 33:32 Whiskey Tasting and Power Hour 39:31 Universal Studios Experience 48:56 Whiskey- The Stag 54:18 Closing Remarks and Contact Information

13. 

    26 Jun 2026

    Miguel's big fall into big business

    In this episode, Spencer chats with Miguel about his journey from a construction accident to a successful real estate career, sharing insights on resilience, success, and life lessons learned along the way. Spencer shares a difficult story about a critical incident in law enforcement. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Real Estate Journey 00:13 Spencer's Early Career and Transition to Real Estate 02:46 Challenges and Triumphs in Real Estate 05:46 Humorous Anecdotes and Experiences in Real Estate 08:50 Reflections on Career Changes and Regrets 11:36 Future Aspirations and Dreams 14:16 The Fun Side of Law Enforcement and Personal Stories 20:53 Understanding Law Enforcement Jurisdictions 21:46 Memorable Patrol Stories 29:47 Transitioning from Law Enforcement to Real Estate 33:52 The Consequences of Crime 38:01 Life Lessons and Positive Mindset

14. 

    19 Jun 2026

    Episode 1 - Adrian F.

    Adrian joins us to talk about his career in real estate, life and future goals! This kicks off our FIRST EVER episode as we talk about some of the challenges along the way.

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