Get Your Sexy Back

About Get Your Sexy Back

For couples who crave more connection, passion, and truth - Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples helps you reignite the flame that date nights can’t. Hosted by intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, and coach Kimberly Phoenix (formerly Coffin) and her partner Roberto, a men's coach and sacred partnership facilitator, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens - bridging trauma healing and nervous-system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just beginning to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self - in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional… to phenomenal.

Publisher

Kim & Roberto @ Phoenix Rising Retreats

Category

education · health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

25 Nov 2019

Latest episode

30 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

339 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Sept 2026

   Our Wedding, Part 3: Why We Still Fight & How We Find Our Way Back To Each Other

   Yes, we're relationship and intimacy coaches. Yes, we just got married. And yes, we still fight. In Part 3 of our wedding series, we're taking you behind the beautiful ceremony and celebration to talk about the relationship we were actually celebrating that weekend. Because that relationship wasn't created on our wedding day. It was built through the beautiful moments and the messy ones. The triggers, misunderstandings, hurt feelings, uncomfortable conversations, repairs, and all the times we've chosen to find our way back to each other. The goal isn't to create a relationship where you never experience conflict. It's learning what to do when you do. In This Episode, We Explore: • Why do healthy couples still fight, and why isn't a conflict-free relationship necessarily the goal? • What happens when one partner needs space and the other needs connection during conflict? • How can you take space without turning silence, distance, or avoidance into another source of hurt? • Why does trying to determine who's right and who's wrong often prevent real relationship repair? • What does taking responsibility for your contribution to a fight actually look like? • How can understanding your triggers, nervous system, and conflict patterns create more emotional safety and intimacy? • Why can learning how to repair after a fight ultimately bring you closer and help you understand each other more deeply? The Relationship Behind the Wedding The relationship we celebrated during our wedding wasn't built during the ceremony. It was built in the hard moments that came before it. In the times we got it wrong and came back. In learning to listen. In taking responsibility. In telling the truth about what we need. In choosing curiosity instead of immediately deciding the other person is wrong. A deeply connected relationship isn't one where you never get it wrong. It's about what you're willing to do next. Ready to Find Your Way Back to Each Other? This is a huge part of the work we do at Phoenix Rising Retreats. We help couples recognize the patterns that keep pulling them into the same cycles, communicate differently, ask for what they need and desire, repair what's been left unresolved, and create deeper emotional, physical, and intimate connection. Our final Group Couples Retreat of 2026 is November 5–9 at our private sanctuary surrounded by forest and lake in North Kawartha, Ontario. We also offer Private Couples Retreats and Virtual Couples Coaching for couples wanting more personalized or ongoing support. You don't have to wait until your relationship is falling apart to learn how to do this. Learning how to come back to each other may be one of the greatest gifts you give your relationship. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats) If you’re wondering whether this experience is right for your relationship, you can book a complimentary exploration call. You can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call (https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call) Find everything at phoenixrisingretreats.com 🐦🔥 (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/) To awareness, growth, and choosing each other again. ABOUT US: Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic. And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us. Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com) Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin (www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin) Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_ (https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_) TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats (https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats)

2. 

   23 Sept 2026

   Inside Our Tantric Wedding: Love, Ritual, and Doing Marriage Our Way (Part 2)

   What does it really mean to consciously choose each other, not just on your wedding day, but throughout your relationship? In Part 2 of our Tantric wedding story, we take you deeper inside the rituals, emotions, laughter, tears, and unexpected moments that made the weekend so meaningful to us. But this episode is about much more than our wedding. We explore what it means to be truly witnessed in your relationship, the power of ritual and presence, becoming unapologetically yourself, and why getting married doesn't mean you've somehow figured relationships out. Because you don't need a wedding to choose each other again. In This Episode, We Explore: • Who witnesses your relationship, celebrates your love, and genuinely wants to see your partnership thrive? • How can simple relationship rituals create deeper connection, presence, and intimacy without needing to be complicated or spiritual? • What changes when you stop living by everyone else's expectations and become yourself unapologetically? • Why getting married doesn't mean you've "made it" or that the work of relationship is finished • How can couples keep growing, repairing, evolving, and choosing each other after the vows? • Why you don't need to wait until your relationship is falling apart to intentionally nurture it • What are you ready to leave behind, what do you want to create, and who do you want to become together? Part 3 Is Coming Next Week Our Tantric wedding conversation isn't quite finished. Part 3 will be released next week, where we'll go deeper into what it actually takes to keep choosing, growing, repairing, and evolving together after the vows have been spoken. Ready to Choose Each Other Again? At Phoenix Rising Retreats, we create space for couples to step outside the noise and responsibilities of everyday life and intentionally turn toward one another again. Our final Group Couples Retreat of 2026 is November 5–9 at our private sanctuary surrounded by forest and lake in North Kawartha, Ontario. We also offer Private Couples Retreats and Virtual Couples Coaching for couples wanting a more personalized or ongoing experience. You don't need our wedding or our rituals. You need a version of your relationship that feels intentionally and unapologetically yours. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats) If you’re wondering whether this experience is right for your relationship, you can book a complimentary exploration call. You can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call (https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call) Find everything at phoenixrisingretreats.com 🐦🔥 (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/) If this episode resonated, share it with your partner and ask each other: What are we ready to leave behind, and what do we want to consciously create together now? ABOUT US: Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic. And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us. Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com) Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin (www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin) Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_ (https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_) TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats (https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats)

3. 

   16 Sept 2026

   Inside Our Tantric Wedding: Love, Ritual, and Doing Marriage Our Way (Part 1)

   What happens when you stop asking what marriage is supposed to look like and start asking what you actually want it to feel like? A few weeks ago, we got married at our home and private lakeside sanctuary, Phoenix Rising Retreats. But this wasn't a traditional wedding. We created a deeply personal weaving of vows rooted in Tantra, ritual, nature, community, and consciously choosing one another. In Part 1, we're taking you inside the experience, from elemental altars and fire rituals to the traditions we happily threw out the window. More importantly, we explore what our wedding taught us about releasing old patterns, questioning the relationship "shoulds" we've inherited, and creating a relationship that feels unapologetically like your own. In This Episode, We Explore: What does it actually mean to create a Tantric wedding and conscious marriage? How many relationship rules and "shoulds" are you following without consciously choosing them? Why a new partner doesn't automatically mean new relationship patterns How ritual can help us honour the past, release what no longer serves us, and intentionally enter a new chapter What happens when you stop trying to control everything and learn to surrender and trust Why you don't have to end your relationship to end an old version of your relationship How couples can consciously create new patterns and ways of relating that serve who they are now Part 2 Is Coming Next Week We're not finished taking you inside our Tantric wedding just yet. Part 2 will be released next week, where we'll take you even deeper into our ceremony, rituals, and the meaning behind our weaving of vows. Ready to Go Deeper? If you and your partner are ready to consciously create a new chapter together, this is exactly the kind of work we explore inside our Couples Retreats. Our next intimate Couples Retreat is November 5-9 at our private sanctuary surrounded by forest and lake in North Kawartha, Ontario. Together, we explore conscious communication, connection, intimacy, nervous system regulation, embodiment, and practical relationship tools you can continue using long after you return home. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats) If you’re wondering whether this experience is right for your relationship, you can book a complimentary exploration call. You can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call (https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call) Find everything at phoenixrisingretreats.com 🐦🔥 (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/) If this episode resonated, share it with your partner and ask each other: If nobody else got a vote, what would we want our relationship to look and feel like? ABOUT US: Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic. And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us. Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com (https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com) Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin (www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin) Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_ (https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_) TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats (https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats)

Who has been a guest on Get Your Sexy Back

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• Mike Elliott
• Courtney Wren
• Mike
• Courtney
• Kim Moore-Coffin

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Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

18 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

12 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 65 / 100

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97

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Engagement

85

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