Girl, Date the Good Guy

About Girl, Date the Good Guy

So... you're fresh out of a breakup, sitting in heartbreak, healing from a broken heart after a toxic relationship, or finally seeing the red flags you missed along the way. Or maybe you've finally found a good man, but you can't stop crashing out because safe love feels scary. If you're asking yourself, "Where do I go from here?" Sis... welcome to your Holy Rescue. Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian podcast for women healing after heartbreak who are ready to stop the bleeding, surrender the past, draw closer to God, renew their minds through His truth, and step into Holy Alignment so they can recognize, receive, and build Holy Love... this time, with God. Hi, I'm Emily Jordan. I have mud on my boots, scars on my heart, and I know what it feels like to be in the trenches. I've stood where you're standing - the heartbreak, the confusion, the overthinking, the disappointment, and the moments you wonder if you will ever feel like yourself again. But I have also experienced what happens when you finally surrender control, give God the pen, and lay everything at the altar so He can do the healing only He can do. Because here's the truth: You cannot hold the promise while you’re still bleeding from the past. Together, we'll heal what heartbreak tried to destroy, evict the squatters in our minds, strengthen our relationship with God, learn to hear His voice, sharpen our discernment, break unhealthy cycles, and date from healing—not our wounds. Are you ready for your Holy Exhale? Let's heal. Let's rise. And when God says it's time... Let's love. Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy. Your Holy Rescue begins now. 👑🤍 New episodes drop every Thursday at 5 AM. STAY CONNECTED 💌 Join The Holy Rescue Newsletter When you join the newsletter, you'll receive: 🎧 Podcast updates, listener Q&As, and behind-the-scenes moments. 🔐 Early access to upcoming releases, special announcements, and new drops inside The Vault. A curated collection of creations, art prints, books, resources, and meaningful pieces from this journey. 📖✨BE THE FIRST TO KNOW WHEN THE BOOK DROPS! 📖✨ 👉 https://girldatethegoodguy.com (https://girldatethegoodguy.com/) 🎧 Listen to Girl, Date the Good Guy Follow the show so you never miss an episode. ⭐️ Help Another Woman Find Her Holy Rescue If this episode spoke to your heart today, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your words help the algorithm push this message out to the exact woman who needs this rescue right now. 🤍 👉 Click Here to Leave Your Review on Apple Podcasts (https://ratethispodcast.com/girldatethegoodguy) (If you are on an iPhone, this link will open your Apple Podcasts app instantly. If you are on an Android or desktop, it will guide you through the quickest way to leave your Apple review!) Thank you for walking this journey with me, sis. Keep your eyes on Jesus! 👑 🤍 Connect with Emily hello@girldatethegoodguy.com (mailto:hello@girldatethegoodguy.com) Listen to Emily's Song Want a little more Emily Jordan? Listen to “I'm a Real Woman” by Emily Jordan on Apple Music. Listen to “I'm a Real Woman” on Apple Music (https://music.apple.com/us/artist/emily-jordan/252691746?utm_source=chatgpt.com)

Publisher

Emily Jordan | Christian Mentor & Relationship Coach

Category

education · religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

23 Oct 2025

Latest episode

8 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

89 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   8 Oct 2026

   The Story I Wasn’t Ready to Tell | My Testimony of Heartbreak, Faith & Redemption

   I don't think I've ever told you the whole story. I've shared pieces of my life here and there—the heartbreak, the toxic relationship, the waiting, the surrender, the Holy Pause, and the healing. But I've never sat down and told you how it all started. So today, I'm telling you the story I wasn't ready to tell before. I grew up in the Mormon church and spent the first 18 years of my life living inside a very structured world. The day after I graduated high school, I left home ready to experience freedom—and I ran straight into the world. Drinking. Partying. Wrong crowds. Relationships. Situationships. Searching for something I couldn't quite name. I tried college twice while working full-time, opened businesses that failed, experienced heartbreak and setbacks, and spent years trying to build a life on my own strength. Then my sister told me about Jesus. And slowly, God began taking me on a journey I never could have planned. I share about my first marriage, the toxic relationship that followed, the years of difficult co-parenting, and the season that nearly broke me. Then I take you to 2016—the year I had a dream that God was telling me to die to my flesh. Shortly afterward, I walked to my mailbox and found a dried-up branch sitting beautifully on top of it. When I picked it up, God brought John 15:5 to my heart: “I am the vine; you are the branches… apart from me you can do nothing.” At that point, I was completely broke and standing in a season of stripping. And suddenly, I understood. I couldn't keep trying to be my own source. I needed the Vine. That moment became part of the beginning of a completely different life. A life of surrender. A life of waiting. A life of learning who God really was—not just what religion had taught me. And eventually, after years of waiting and walking with God, came another unexpected chapter: finding my middle-school crush again after more than a decade. But even that story wasn't simply about finding a man. God had been preparing me. And when He eventually asked me to lay that relationship at the altar too, I learned that even something beautiful has to belong to Him first. This episode is my story of running, heartbreak, brokenness, surrender, waiting, restoration, and discovering that God had never stopped pursuing me. And if you're listening from your own messy chapter, I hope you hear this: Your story isn't over. Maybe you've run from God. Maybe you've made choices you're not proud of. Maybe you've been through a toxic relationship. Maybe you've lost years. Maybe you're sitting in the middle of a heartbreak wondering how God could possibly make something beautiful out of what you've been through. Girl… He can. Because if He can take my story and redeem it, He can do something with yours too. You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to clean yourself up before you come to God. Come as you are. He knows exactly where you are. And He knows how to find you there. In This Episode Growing up in the Mormon church and leaving home after high school Running toward the world and searching for something I couldn't find Discovering Jesus through my sister My first marriage and realizing it wasn't what God had for me The toxic relationship that followed and the heartbreak that came with it Years of difficult co-parenting and learning to keep going Trying to build businesses and a life on my own—and watching it all fall apart The 2016 dream that changed the direction of my life The dried branch on my mailbox and John 15:5 What it meant to finally stop trying to be my own source Years of surrender, waiting, loneliness, and spiritual growth The freedom God brought in 2025 Finding my middle-school crush again after more than a decade Why God asked me to lay that relationship at the altar What I've learned about God's grace, restoration, and redemption A message of hope for the woman who thinks her story is already too broken Scripture John 15:5“I am the vine; you are the br

2. 

   1 Oct 2026

   When You Stop Forcing It, Everything Changes | Divine Alignment & God’s Timing

   What happens when you finally stop forcing things to happen? When you stop trying to make the relationship work, force the door open, control the outcome, or figure out every detail of what comes next? What if that's the moment you finally start seeing what God has been doing all along? In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily talks about the divine alignment she's experiencing in her own life after a season of healing, surrender, obedience, and waiting on God. For so long, she thought she had to make things happen. But God began showing her something different: If you have to force it, you may be trying to carry something God never asked you to carry. Emily shares the moment God highlighted the word FORCE for her and how that revelation has changed the way she looks at relationships, opportunities, timing, and the future. This isn't about sitting around doing nothing. It's about learning the difference between moving with God and trying to get ahead of Him. And if you're sitting in heartbreak, coming out of a toxic relationship, recovering from a breakup, or wondering why your life isn't unfolding the way you thought it would... I want you to hear this: Your current season is not the end of your story. You don't have to force the next chapter. You don't have to chase what God has for you. You don't have to have every detail figured out before you take the next step. Sometimes faith looks like opening your hands and saying, "God, You have the pen. I'll trust You with the story." Because when you stop forcing it, something beautiful can happen. You begin to see what God was already putting into place. You begin to recognize His timing. And sometimes... you realize you weren't watching your life fall apart. You were watching it come into alignment. 💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox. You'll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story. Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey. 👉 https://girldatethegoodguy.com 🎧 Listen to Girl, Date the Good Guy Follow the show so you never miss an episode. New episodes every Thursday at 5:00 AM. ⭐ Help More Women Find This Message If this episode spoke to you, share it with a woman who needs to hear it. And if you've been enjoying Girl, Date the Good Guy, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review helps another woman find this space. 🤍 Connect with Emily hello@girldatethegoodguy.com 🎵 Listen to Emily's Song Want a little more Emily Jordan? Listen to "I'm a Real Woman" by Emily Jordan on Apple Music. Listen to “I'm a Real Woman” on Apple Music

3. 

   24 Sept 2026

   What If Fear Is the Thing Keeping You Stuck? Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships & Heartbreak

   Fear can keep you stuck in places God is trying to pull you out of. In this episode, Emily gets real about the role fear played in her own life—from living in a toxic relationship and being afraid of what would happen if she left, to finally surrendering her fear to God and taking the steps He was asking her to take. Leaving didn't mean everything instantly became easy. There was uncertainty, financial pressure, anxiety, loss, and a whole lot of learning how to trust God one step at a time. And even after getting out, Emily discovered that leaving the toxic situation was only the beginning. The trauma, fear, suspicion, control, and survival patterns still needed to be healed. This is a conversation about what happens when fear follows you into your next season—and why God doesn't just want to change your circumstances. He wants to heal the places inside of you that were shaped by what you've survived. If you're sitting in heartbreak, coming out of a toxic relationship, afraid to start over, or wondering what you're supposed to do next, this episode is for you. You don't have to see the whole staircase. You just have to trust God with the next step. In this episode, we talk about: How fear can keep you trapped in toxic relationships The fear of leaving and the fear of the unknown Learning to surrender fear to God Taking a leap of faith when you don't have everything figured out Why leaving a toxic relationship doesn't automatically mean you're healed How trauma can follow you into new relationships The importance of healing before stepping into something new God's protection, provision, and guidance Why you don't have to figure out your entire future today What it looks like to trust God with your next step Finding hope after heartbreak and toxic relationships If you're in immediate danger or preparing to leave an abusive relationship, please seek trusted support and make a safety plan. You don't have to do it alone. Stay Connected If this episode spoke to you, share it with a woman who needs to hear it. Follow Girl, Date the Good Guy so you never miss a new episode, and if you've been enjoying the podcast, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review helps another woman find this space. And if you'd like to stay connected between episodes, join The Holy Rescue Love Letters for weekly encouragement, behind-the-scenes updates, and letters from my heart to yours. I'll see you next Thursday at 5:00 AM. Until then, keep your eyes on Jesus. And remember... Welcome to your Holy Rescue. ❤️ 💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox. You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story. Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey. 👉 girldatethegoodguy.com 🎧 Listen to Girl, Date the Good Guy Follow the show so you never miss an episode. ⭐ Help More Women Find This Message Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue. 🤍 Connect with Emily hello@girldatethegoodguy.com 🎵 Listen to Emily's Song Want a little more Emily Jordan? Listen to “I'm a Real Woman” by Emily Jordan on Apple Music. Listen to “I'm a Real Woman” on Apple Music

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