Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.<hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

giving (un)bothered
Claim This Podcastby Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever
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Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.<hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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June 10, 2026
emotional cheating, worst dating advice & soulmates
<p>🚨 Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Are soulmates real… or just a romantic myth? And should you tell your friend when you absolutely can't stand their partner? 👀</p><br><p>In this week’s episode, we're diving into some of the most controversial dating, relationship, and friendship topics that always start an argument.</p><p>From emotional cheating and closure to love at first sight, queer dating, red flags, and soulmate theories, we're sharing our unfiltered opinions and putting each other to the test.</p><br><p>🎙️ Topics we debate:</p><p>✨ Is emotional cheating cheating?</p><p>✨ What's the worst dating advice you've ever heard?</p><p>✨ Should you tell your friend you hate their partner?</p><p>✨ Is closure overrated?</p><p>✨ Are soulmates real or fake?</p><p>✨ Should you share your dating history with your partner?</p><p>✨ Do opposites attract or should you date someone similar to you?</p><p>✨ Do queer relationships move too fast?</p><p>✨ Is the spark overrated?</p><p>✨ Is love at first sight real?</p><br><p>Wet For Hear discount link: <a href="https://wetforher.com/WETFORUNBOTHERED" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>https://wetforher.com/WETFORUNBOTHERED</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>DISCOUNT CODE: WETFORUNBOTHERED </strong></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

May 13, 2026
sapphic toxic traits, dating icks & one-night stands
<p>We’re back with another Truth or Drink… and this one got a little too honest 😅</p><p>From sapphic toxic traits to the most random (and very real) dating icks, plus everything that comes with one-night stands… nothing was off limits. We also get into the importance of being the hottest ex (because let’s be real, it matters.)</p><br><p>So grab a drink, press play, and come get messy with us as we dive into queer dating, lesbian relationships, and all the red flag behaviour we pretend not to see 🍸</p><br><p>Find us on:</p><p>- <a href="https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><p>- <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tiktok</a></p><p>- <a href="https://open.acast.com/networks/67c4dd08a02912270dc07b65/shows/67c4de7cc6cef89b7d460784/episodes/%E2%81%A0https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Youtube</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

April 29, 2026
lesbian history, queer media & coming out with Roxy Bourdillon
<p>In today’s episode of giving (un)bothered, we sit down with Roxy Bourdillon, award-winning writer, author of What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story of Sexuality and Self-Discovery, and Editor-in-Chief of DIVA Magazine, the leading magazine for LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary people.</p><br><p>Roxy has interviewed some huge names including Emma Stone, Rachel Weisz, and the cast of The L Word, co-hosted a podcast alongside Rachel Shelley (aka Helena Peabody), and presented a documentary for Virgin Radio called Butches, Femmes And Dykes Snogging On The Dancefloor: The Incredible True Story Of Lesbian Nightlife.</p><br><p>We talk about Roxy's sexuality journey, self-discovery, lesbian history, working in queer media, the impact of representation, her experience leading DIVA Magazine, and what it was like writing her own book. We also dive into LGBTQ+ visibility, dating, identity, and why queer storytelling matters now more than ever.</p><br><p>Find us on:</p><p>- <a href="https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><p>- <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tiktok</a></p><p>- <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Youtube</a></p><br><p>Find Roxy on: </p><p>- <a href="https://www.instagram.com/roxybourdillon/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><br><p>Find DIVA magazine on: </p><p>- <a href="https://www.instagram.com/divamagazine/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><p>- <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@divamag" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tiktok</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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