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*Gymnasts,* if you want to get your skills and compete them with confidence, tune in to "Lessons with Leah" to discover the mindset tools you need to be at your best in competition and get that gold medal you are dreaming of. These are the tools you need to make the college or national team of your dreams.
*Coaches,* we’ve got you too. Listen in to Conversations for Coaches to discover how you can develop a team full of self-motivated, hardworking gymnasts who hit consistently.
Let's have a great season... together!
Gymnastics Mental Blocks: How the Fear of Disappointing Coaches and Parents Shuts Down Your Gymnast
Episode Summary
When a gymnast faces a mental block, we assume it's a physical fear of getting hurt. But more often than not, the root cause is completely external: a deep-seated fear of disappointing her coach, her teammates, or you.
In this episode, Coach Stacie Roman and Coach Ali Havel pull back the curtain on the fear of external judgment. They dive into the evolutionary biology behind why kids are hardwired to view parental and coach disapproval as a literal life-or-death situation. Ali shares an honest look from her perspective as a former club coach, revealing how a coach's outward frustration is almost always about their own feelings of incompetence—not a dislike of the gymnast. They also tackle the heavy burden of "financial and time guilt" that many gymnasts carry silently. Tune in to learn how to change your post-practice conversations, remove the invisible pressure, and teach your daughter the lifelong skill of separating her self-worth from other people's expectations.
The Biological Caveman Brain: Humans are biologically wired to fear exclusion from the "tribe." For your gymnast, her tribe consists of authority figures like coaches and parents, making disappointing them feel like a threat to survival.
Coaches Are Human Too: When a coach shows frustration during a mental block, it's rarely about the athlete. It stems from the coach feeling incompetent or lacking the time and tools to address the mindset side of training.
The Danger of Silent Shutdowns: When a supportive parent asks "How was practice?" and the gymnast says "Fine" while looking away, she isn't shutting you out—she is engaging a safety mechanism to shield you from disappointment.
The Money & Time Burden: Gymnasts frequently carry intense, unspoken guilt over the financial and time sacrifices their parents make, creating a paralyzing pressure that "it has to be worth it."
Rewiring People-Pleasing Tendencies: Left unaddressed, the "gymnast brain" defaults to chronic people-pleasing. Teaching them how to handle disappointed authority figures prevents major identity crises later in adulthood.
00:00 – Introduction: Identifying the three main sources of mental blocks (Physical, Internal, and External).
00:54 – The evolutionary biology of why kids obsess over what authority figures think.
01:59 – The breakdown of coach frustration: Why it’s actually about them, not the gymnast.
03:45 – Coach Ali’s confession: Feeling incompetent on the floor when athletes get stuck.
05:28 – The Walmart Tantrum Analogy: How coaches, parents, and athletes all internalize circumstances differently.
06:55 – Submarine Sonar: How our primitive brain constantly measures us against everyone else for survival.
08:50 – Gym floor constraints: Why standard gymnastics practices don't leave room for mindset work.
11:50 – Clarifying the boundary between normal coach frustration and abusive coaching environments.
12:52 – Grown-up emotions: Teaching your gymnast that coaches and parents are fully capable of handling disappointment.
14:55 – Reading the signs: Why your gymnast shuts down and hides her tears after practice.
16:08 – Shifting the narrative: Better questions to ask instead of "Did you get your skill today?"
17:50 – Normalizing disappointment as a natural byproduct of going after huge, audacious goals.
20:15 – The Money Talk: The heavy emotional weight gymnasts carry regarding family financial sacrifices.
22:20 – Season-start triggers: Why external mental blocks suddenly flare up right before evaluations and major meets.
24:37 – Training the brain: Why you can't expect a normal human brain to do gymnastics without targeted mental conditioning.
Resources:
Mental Block Roadmap: Get our free guide to understanding the root causes of her fear.
The Next Level Membership: Proactive mental training for the competitive season.
Strategy Sessions: Apply for a call to see if 1-on-1 mindset coaching is the right fit for your gymnast.
26 Dec 2023
#70 Conversations for Coaches | Help your gymnasts believe in themselves this season
This is the final episode of our year long Conversations with Coaches Weekly Mindset Workout series.
All month we’ve been talking about how to help your gymnast change their belief to something that will help serve them. The thought ladder is the best tool we’ve got, and we know that with practice it will be the best tool in your gymnasts tool belt as well!
In this episode, Ali and Stacie discuss how to put the thought ladder into practice to help your athlete benefit from it. Just like learning a new skill on beam, developing the ability to use the thought ladder is a process. Each progression up the ladder takes time and dedication both in and out of the gym.
We know believing something new is a skill that needs to be well conditioned. Writing out your gymnasts thought ladder and checking in with where they’re at intermittently will certainly help them develop stronger, more positive beliefs about themselves and their gymnastics.
This podcast series is not meant to be something you listen to once. Rather that you use it throughout the year to get just the help you and your gymnasts need. So go back to January 1 and keep on going next year!
We would also be so grateful if you pass our podcast on to other coaches! Or simply leave a review so other coaches can get in on the mindset magic and we can help change the culture of our sport to be a place where gymnasts are healthy, happy and know how to win.
We have courses and coaching programs for individual gymnasts and gymnastics teams that are based on proven behavioral science. And results that speak for themselves. Invest in the one thing that will have the greatest impact on your gym or your gymnasts success. Their mind.
Check us out at gymnasticsmindestacademy.com (https://gymnasticsmindsetacademy.com/)
19 Dec 2023
#69 Conversations for Coaches | How to help your gymnasts actually think positively about meet season.
We’ve spent the last couple of weeks talking about your gymnast’s current belief and also the belief she wants to have. You know, the one that’s going to actually help her to achieve her goals!? We know your gymnasts can’t just flip a switch and believe something different. Their brains need evidence that their belief can be true before they will start trusting it. In this episode, our mindset coaches talk about the most powerful tool we teach, THE THOUGHT LADDER.
The thought ladder is a strategic tool that helps your gymnasts make their way from their current belief to the new one they hope to believe. Tune in to learn all about this incredible thought strategy and how it can help your gymnast compete with confidence.
We would also be so grateful if you pass our podcast on to other coaches! Or simply leave a review so other coaches can get in on the mindset magic and we can help change the culture of our sport to be a place where gymnasts are healthy, happy and know how to win.
We have courses and coaching programs for individual gymnasts and gymnastics teams that are based on proven behavioral science. And results that speak for themselves. Invest in the one thing that will have the greatest impact on your gym or your gymnasts success. Their mind.
Check us out at gymnasticsmindestacademy.com (https://gymnasticsmindsetacademy.com/)
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