Grayer & Gayer is a podcast hosted by David Begor and Jeffrey Wylie, two men in their 60s who aim to explore the unique experiences, challenges, and triumphs of the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts discuss a range of topics including pride & community, relationships, activism, and the importance of building community among queer people. They also will discuss retirement and financial planning topics with their regular contributor, Derek Lenington, who will serve as their financial coach.
In this conversation, the David and Jeffrey chat with Finn’s Place board members Nat & Mikey. The discussion centers on gender identity, the challenges faced by the trans community, and the importance of supportive relationships.
10 Mar 2025
Trans Voices: Living on the front lines in Fort Worth | S2 E5
This conversation explores the vital role of Finn’s Place, a community center in Fort Worth dedicated to supporting the transgender community.
25 Feb 2025
Just Us: Satire, News, Sighs & Laughs | S2 E4
In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, hosts David and Jeffrey discuss recent cultural events, local government actions, and the role of media in shaping public perception.
In this episode, David & Jeffrey sit down with Ted Geiss, a seasoned fitness trainer, to explore the importance of health and wellness within the LGBTQ community. Ted shares his personal journey in the fitness industry, his experiences with HIV, and how aging impacts physical well-being.
10 Feb 2025
Rainbow Dots Across America: Our Queer Community Centers
In this conversation, the David and Jeffrey sit down with James Lindquist, the Director of Development at the Palm Spings LGBTQ Center to explore the journey of community building within the LGBTQ community
3 Feb 2025
Blue Dots Across America: Our Existence is Resistance | S2 E1
In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, the David & Jeffrey discuss the current state of LGBTQ+ rights amidst political challenges, personal reflections on mental health, and the importance of community and activism.
2 Dec 2024
Thriving in Chaos: Self-Care in Dystopia | H1 E1
Hosts Jeffrey Gray and David Gayer discuss thriving in chaos, emphasizing self-care, community, and resilience, and highlighting the power of hope and kindness in the LGBTQ+ community.
21 Oct 2024
The Season One Wrap Up | S1 E11
Jeffrey and David reflect on their journey through podcasting, discussing the growth and enjoyment they’ve experienced, the importance of authenticity, and the political responsibilities that come with their platform.
14 Oct 2024
Better Latent Than Never—Part 2: Navigating Identity in Later Life | S1 E10
In this episode, David & Jeffrey engage in a heartfelt conversation with Ciana Costa, who shares her journey of coming out as a transgender woman at the age of 50. The discussion covers the challenges and triumphs of transitioning later in life, the importance of family acceptance, and the impact of surgeries on identity.
8 Oct 2024
Better Latent Than Never—Part 1: Navigating Identity in Later Life
In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, Jeffrey and David speak with Paul Elliott. He shares his heartfelt journey of coming out as a gay man, reflecting on the challenges he faced with family acceptance, societal expectations, and the importance of community support.
30 Sept 2024
True Colors Shining Through: Love & Relationships | S1 E8
In this conversation, David & Jeffrey, and their guest explore the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community.
23 Sept 2024
Life After Loss: Navigating Grief and Sorrow | S1 E7
In this episode David and Jeffrey talk with Thompson Lang and explore the profound journey of grief experienced by the loss of his husband, Joe Vargo, during the COVID-19 pandemic.
16 Sept 2024
Let’s get physical: Exercise and Aging with Pride | S1 E6
In this conversation, David, Jeffrey, along with guest Nancy Beverly explore the themes of hiking, aging, and the importance of maintaining physical and mental health through outdoor activities.
9 Sept 2024
Will Power: Health and Legal Advocacy for Queer Seniors | S1 E5
In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of legal rights and advocacy for LGBTQ seniors. They cover topics such as estate planning, healthcare proxies, and the role of wills and trusts.
2 Sept 2024
Express Yourself: Art Creativity and Legacy | S1 E4
David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of creative expression and art in our lives. The conversation highlights the universality and significance of creativity in all aspects of life, the importance of art in healing, pursuing creative passions, leaving a legacy, and advice to younger selves.
26 Aug 2024
Stronger Together: Building Bridges Within Our Queer Community | S1 E3
In this episode David & Jeffrey focus on building community among queer people and fostering intergenerational connections along with Millennial Luke Elick.
19 Aug 2024
Pride & Relevance: Why We Celebrate | S1 E2
Grayer & Gayer Show: In this episode the conversation revolves around the topic of Pride events and their relevance in today’s society. David & Jeffrey interview Mitch Battersby, who shares his involvement in Pride and the impact it has had on his life. The conversation touches on the history of Pride and the need for safe spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. They also discuss the upcoming Palm Springs Pride event and encourage listeners to get involved and volunteer.
Volunteer for Palm Springs Pride at: www.pspride.org/volunteer
9 Aug 2024
Grayer & Gayer: Get to Know Us | S1 E1
Grayer & Gayer Show: In this first episode David & Jeffrey will share who they are and why they decided to create this podcast. They'll introduce their regular contributor, Derek Lenington, who will serve as their financial coach to help with discussions of retirement and financial planning.
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Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
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Podcast Authority Score: 20 / 100
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YouTube
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Engagement
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