The Grief Refuge podcast, hosted by Reid Peterson, features reflective conversations and helpful information about grief, loss, and managing the process.
More support and access to the Grief Refuge app is available at griefrefuge.com
How Grief Impacts Self-Love—and Why Coping Can Feel So Hard After Loss
Grief doesn't just break your heart—it can quietly change how you see yourself. In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked connection between grief and self-love, and why losing someone you love can make everyday life feel so much harder than expected.
When grief enters your life, it can disrupt your sense of identity, trigger guilt and self-blame, and leave you feeling disconnected from the person you used to be. Simple things like getting out of bed, caring for your body, or asking for support can suddenly feel overwhelming. Over time, this can erode self-love and replace it with harsh self-judgment.
This episode gently unpacks why that happens—and more importantly, why it doesn't mean something is wrong with you.
You'll learn how grief affects your nervous system, why your mind may confuse pain with personal failure, and how to begin separating your self-worth from what you're going through. We also share simple, practical ways to rebuild self-love during loss—without forcing positivity or rushing your healing.
If you've ever thought, "Why can't I handle this better?" or felt like you've lost yourself in grief, this conversation is for you.
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19 Nov 2025
Grief's Turning Point: How to Make the Journey Less Painful and More Manageable
Listen to explore how grief shapes your thoughts, and how small shifts can make the journey more manageable and meaningful.
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16 Dec 2024
Becoming a Mindful Mourner
Licensed counselor and author Belinda Koch shares how to navigate grief with intention and presence in this insightful interview.
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Belinda Koch
Chelsea Ohlemiller
Lisa Marie Conine
Sandy Linda
Yuivany Aguilar
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4.8 / 5
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4.9 / 5
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