Growing Yet Grown is a podcast hosted by two friends in their 30s. We explore the reality of growing after you’re already grown - careers evolving, relationships changing, money decisions getting heavier, identities shifting, and expectations colliding with real life.
Each episode is a candid, thoughtful conversation about the choices and tensions that define modern adulthood - no easy answers, just honest reflection, lived experience, and practical insight.
This podcast is for anyone who knows that adulthood isn’t a finish line - it’s a phase of continuous growth, questioning, and becoming.
If You Can’t Do A Joint Account With Someone, DON’T MARRY THEM
Can you do a joint account with the person you're about to marry? If the honest answer is no — that tells you everything. In this episode, Doyin and Simone dive deep into the uncomfortable, high-stakes world of money and marriage. From the evolution of financial transparency and the reality of joint vs. separate accounts to the myth of 50/50, vex money, and why signing those papers carries a massive lifelong weight, this conversation lays it all out on the table. If you've ever w...
23 Sept 2026
If You Don't Know THIS About Divorce, Then You SHOULDN'T Get Married
Thinking about a prenup and divorce? In this episode, Doyin and Simone sit down with Lani Akiona, a family law attorney with over 20 years of experience and someone who has personally navigated her own high conflict divorce. She breaks down everything about Prenups and Divorce: from what divorce actually costs, what a prenup can and can't do, how collaborative divorce works, and why the things you think you know about marital law are probably wrong. Marriage is often romanticized, but protect...
9 Sept 2026
The Real Reason You Can't Make Real Friends At Work (How To Fix It)
Struggling with making friends as an adult? Doyin and Simone break down the difference between networking and real connection. In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, In this episode, Doyin and Simone tackle a delicate and often unspoken conversation on adult friendships, professional networking, and the transactional relationships no one wants to admit. Many people find that while they are comfortable navigating professional spaces, forming genuine bonds feels significantly harder. We explore ...
2 Sept 2026
She Left Her 18-Month-Old To Become A Doctor — Does She Have Regrets 40Years Later?
Grandma Grace became a physician in the 1980s when very few women did. She left her 18-month-old baby at home, flew to Glasgow pregnant to specialize, and went on to run programs in 33 African countries, with the WHO. And she did all of this while raising children.. In this episode, Doyin and Simone welcome their first-ever guest: 72-year-old trailblazing physician, grandmother, and global health expert who built an incredible international career while raising a family. If you've ever ...
26 Aug 2026
The Biggest Dating Mistake You're Making Right Now!
Welcome back to the Growing Yet Grown Podcast! In this Season 3 first episode, Doyin and Simone dive into one of the most debated and stressful topics in modern relationships: dating timelines and commitment. If you've ever asked yourself, "How long is too long to date?", "Am I just wasting my time?", or "Why won't he commit?", this episode is your ultimate guide. We discuss the psychological trap of the sunk cost fallacy, why waiting around for "more data" is often just a cover for fear, and...
30 Jun 2026
The Corporate Career Mistake That's Keeping You Invisible
Success in corporate America isn't just about working hard. It's also about career growth, workplace visibility, office politics, professional relationships, and knowing how promotions actually happen. In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, We share the career lessons we wish we knew earlier. From navigating office politics to finding the right mentor and sponsor, we explain why doing excellent work alone is rarely enough to reach the next level. If you've ever felt overlooked for promotions, ...
23 Jun 2026
Simple Trick to Start a Hobby When Life Gets Too Busy And You Stopped Having Fun
Why do so many adults stop doing the things they once loved? In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, We explore why childhood hobbies disappear as we get older, and how losing those hobbies can impact our happiness, mental health, stress levels, and overall life satisfaction. Many adults find themselves trapped in a cycle of work, responsibilities, parenting, bills, and endless productivity. Somewhere along the way, the hobbies that once brought joy, creativity, and excitement are replace...
16 Jun 2026
Setting Healthy Boundary : Saying "No" Without Feeling Bad
"Is your inability to say 'no' to family expectations actually a sign that you haven't built your 'boundary muscle' yet?" In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, Doyin and Simone tackle one of the "spiciest" topics in African adulthood: how to set boundaries with the people who raised you, sacrificed for you, and still expect things from you that you can't always give. Growing up in a collectivist culture means we value community responsibility. But as we navigate life; those deep-rooted expect...
9 Jun 2026
Your Relationship With Money Is Broken, Here's Why
65% of Americans are stressed about money and most of it starts way before adulthood. In this episode, Doyin and Simone discuss how our relationship with money is formed from childhood and why they quietly shape every financial decision we make as adults: including who we choose to marry, who we stay friends with, and how we handle money in our families. They break down: The 4 money personalities: avoider, over-controller, spender, and hoarder and how to spot yours How your first money memo...
We were raised strict but with our own kids, we are parenting differently. Today, 98% of millennial parents now talk to their kids about mental health, compared to just a fraction of their own parents. In this episode, We get into what it actually looks like raising black children in America as millennial West African women. We discussed the difficulties we experienced in talking to kids about race and how our upbringing influences our parenting philosophies; From liberating ways ...
26 May 2026
56% of Adults Have No Will — Here's What That's Really Costing Them
56% of adults in the US have no estate planning documents whatsoever. If that's you, this episode is the push you've been waiting for. In this eye-opening episode, We dive into the emotional and practical sides of estate planning, revealing why so many avoid it and how to start the process without feeling overwhelmed. This episode isn’t just for the wealthy, it’s for anyone who cares about their family’s future. If avoiding this conversation has left you feeling overwhelmed, this episode offe...
20 May 2026
The New Reality of Modern Marriages - Breadwinner Wives, Stay-At-Home Dads & More
Many women are now earning more than ever, and this is causing a shift in traditional marriage roles. Even while this is happening, so many couples still hold on to old expectations. What happens when the breadwinner is the woman? And how do stay-at-home dads challenge the norms? In this episode, We have an honest conversation about these dynamics in households, and how they are reshaping marriages today. We delve deeper into decades-old stereotypes around gender...
13 May 2026
Why Changing Your Mind on Important Decision Feels Similar to Failure
Most of us get stuck in feeling like changing our minds is a failure but what if it’s actually a sign of growth? In this episode, We explore why changing your mind isn’t weakness, but rather a powerful indicator that you’re learning, growing, and refining your understanding of what’s right for you. We explore the delicate balance of making bold decisions in marriage, navigating fears, and respecting the impact on loved ones. This episode is perfect if you’re at a crossroads: considering a car...
6 May 2026
The Surprising Truth About Returning to Work After Maternity Leave
85% of working mothers left full-time employment within 3 years of having a baby — even though 98% of them said they wanted to go back. This is mostly Because the practical realities of motherhood from child care costs to work flexibility and societal expectations often make fulfilling career ambitions feel impossible. In this eye-opening episode, we explore how organizations unintentionally sideline moms through inflexible policies, and how the absence of community and support can de...
29 Apr 2026
Protecting Yourself Before Marriage: Prenups, Red Flags & Financial Protection
More women are realizing the power of financial protection before marriage and demanding prenups. Simone and Doyin discuss the purpose of prenups, how they impact trust, and why more women are asking their partners to sign them even in cultures where the idea still feels taboo. We discuss how modern women are reshaping the story around marriage and money. This episode is perfect for women in their 30s who are reevaluating what financial security means for their future. If you'...
22 Apr 2026
Why You Feel Behind in Life: Even When You're Doing Everything Right
Most of us are caught in the quiet storm of unmet expectations, making us feel like we're falling short despite all our efforts. If you're grappling with where you thought you'd be by now, this episode is your wake-up call. In this episode, Doyin and Simone get honest about one of the most common but least talked about feelings among women in their 30s. They uncover startling research showing only 25% of women hit all four traditional milestones (career, marriage, home, children) whil...
15 Apr 2026
The Real Reasons Why We DON’T Talk About Money With Our Friends
Most people secretly struggle with discussing their income, yet they also miss out on valuable insights from friends who understand their financial realities. What if honesty about money could unlock better opportunities, deeper trust, and smarter decisions without judgment or shame? In this eye-opening episode, Simone and Doyin share personal stories, from Nigeria and Cameroon to the US, revealing why conversations about earnings are often viewed as taboo and how that costs us opportunities ...
25 Mar 2026
How to Actually Find Someone Worth Building With
In this season finale, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's world. Dating in your 30s feels harder than it should be. You have the career and some stability - But finding a serious relationship still feels impossible. We have an honest conversation about the challenges of modern dating, marriage, red flags, money, boundaries, dating apps, arranged marriages, and how to choose the right life partner. Because love isn’t just chemistry — it’s decisions, character, and alignment
18 Mar 2026
Building Wealth - What ACTUALLY matters and what's HYPE?
In this conversation, Doyin and Simone explore the multifaceted concept of building wealth, emphasizing the importance of financial freedom, flexibility, and the various strategies one can employ to achieve financial stability. They discuss the significance of understanding personal definitions of wealth, the impact of lifestyle choices, and the necessity of making informed financial decisions. The conversation also touches on the challenges of societal expectations, the role of time in wealt...
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