Hard Conversations is an explicit podcast hosted by Mr9inelivez, where Black queer men speak freely about desire, kink, fetishes, fantasies, power, and pleasure.
This is where sexual arousal meets education—raw conversations that explore intimacy, shame, masculinity, and liberation without censorship or respectability politics.
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🔞 Explicit language. 18+ only.
Surprise!!! I'm back with a brand new season with a few changes and announcements. This week we are discussing "app culture" and of course I have some spicy stories for you.
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8 May 2026
YN
We're finishing off the season with a spicy topic that sometimes feels forbidden.
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24 Apr 2026
Cruising
I couldn't think of a witty episode title this week LOL. Hope you enjoy.
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17 Apr 2026
(Bonus) You Forgive Me?
I wasn't able to give you guys a new episode this week, but I want to make it up to you. You forgive Daddy?
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10 Apr 2026
Picasso
Ya'll Know we had to do it eventually. This week is all about the controversial world of scat play.
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3 Apr 2026
A Group Effort
This week we're getting into 3sums, 4sums, and then sums .
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27 Mar 2026
And....Scene
This week all about verbal and role play.
SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT!!!
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20 Mar 2026
Daddy Issues
This week is all about the daddies. Who doesn't love an older man?
Anonymous submissions are open. DM @Mr9inelivezxxx on X. Stories are shared with care.
Content Warning: This episode contains sexually explicit language and adult themes intended for mature audiences only.
13 Mar 2026
Smell It
This week we dive nose first(see what I did there?) into manscent.
Anonymous submissions are open. DM @Mr9inelivezxxx on X. Stories are shared with care.
Content Warning: This episode contains sexually explicit language and adult themes intended for mature audiences only.
6 Mar 2026
Lemonade
This week we kick things up a notch and dive into the world of water sports. I even give you some tips/tricks for you newbies out there who want to explore it, and of course I'm telling you some hot stories.
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Content Warning: This episode contains sexually explicit language and adult themes intended for mature audiences only.
27 Feb 2026
Closet Freaks
This week Mr9ineLivez gives you all a jam packed episode about the fetishization of DL men, his first encounter with the culture, first encounter, and SO MUCH MORE. Stay tuned for a naughty surprise at the end. You don't want to miss this one.
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Content Warning: This episode contains sexually explicit language and adult themes intended for mature audiences only.
20 Feb 2026
Feet First
This week is all bout feet. Mr9ineLivez takes you through his first fetish journey, dives into some sexy submissions, and shares not one but TWO juicy foot stories of his own.
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Content Warning: This episode contains sexually explicit language and adult themes intended for mature audiences only.
7 Feb 2026
What Are You Into?
In this premiere episode of Hard Conversations, Mr9inelivez introduces himself, shares his sensualorigin story, and explains why this podcast needed to exist. Using the familiar question “What are youinto?”—common in Black gay dating apps and social spaces—this episode explores how desire, kink,fantasy, and turn-ons are often hidden, performed, or softened instead of spoken honestly.
Anonymous submissions are open. DM @Mr9inelivezxxx on X. Stories are shared with care.■ Content Warning: This episode contains sexually explicit language and adult themes intended formature audiences only.
1 Feb 2026
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Hard Conversations is an explicit podcast hosted by Mr9inelivez, centering Black queer men in honest conversations about desire, kink, fantasy, and pleasure. This trailer sets the tone for a show where arousal meets education and silence doesn’t lead the conversation.
🔞 Explicit • 18+ only.
Follow your host on X @Mr9ineLivezxxx
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5.0 / 5
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