Haven Hub: Empower, Engage Elevate

About Haven Hub: Empower, Engage Elevate

The show is about helping women grow and develop into their best selves. On it, you will get helpful information and tips on topics related to personal growth, relationships, and financial growth. And you should be here if you are looking for resources, knowledge and community support to navigate life’s challenges confidently. www.havenhub.life

Publisher

Lolly

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

1 Nov 2019

Latest episode

2 Jun 2026

Latest episodes

31 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   2 Jun 2026

   031: Your Habits Are Broken Because of This One Thing

   Welcome back to Back to Basics! This episode recaps our journey through foundational concepts, starting with the power of boundaries and understanding your core values. We’ll explore how to create that system using practical habits and emotional regulation skills so your transformation sticks, even when life gets stressful. Most insights about habits and emotional regulation fall flat until you understand why systems, not willpower, create real change. If you’re tired of spiralling back into old patterns no matter how much you know better, this episode is your honest, grounding guide to breaking the cycle for good.. We discuss: Why insights alone don't lead to change and the importance of systems over willpower The connection between habits, autopilot, and emotional dysregulation How emotional regulation is a skill, not a trait, and how to develop it The stack method for building lasting habits: start small, tie to existing patterns, adjust your environment, celebrate progress, and anchor to values The pause protocol: a five-step emergency system to manage emotional hijacks in real time Reframes for understanding emotions as data and expanding your response space Why your triggers aren't personal flaws but signals that your system needs support Practical homework: build one tiny habit, practice the pause, connect it to your core value, and recognise your triggers Timestamps: 00:00 - The importance of systems over insight for sustainable change 02:24 - Why habits are your brain’s default settings and how they influence your behavior 04:53 - The role of emotional regulation and how to cultivate it 07:11 - Inside Out analogy: understanding emotional hijacks in real life 09:58 - Reframing willpower: designing environments that support your success 12:49 - How identity shapes habits and why it’s critical for lasting change 15:58 - The "Celebrate" principle in habit stacking: neuroscience behind positive reinforcement 18:21 - The "Pause Protocol": recognising activation and creating space before reacting 20:16 - Viewing emotions as data, not directives, to stay in your driver’s seat 21:39 - Expanding the gap between trigger and response to reclaim your power 23:14 - Bringing it all together: habits + emotional regulation for resilient change 23:40 - Your permission slip: mess up, pause, and keep going 24:08 - Practical homework: building one habit using the stack method and practicing the pause Resources & Links: Atomic Habits by James Clear - https://amzn.to/4uEPKzh (https://amzn.to/4uEPKzh) The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg - https://amzn.to/3PwPm6U (https://amzn.to/3PwPm6U) Connect with Lolly: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/ (https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/) Website - www.havenhub.life (www.havenhub.life) Remember: Your transformation is in the systems, not the willpower. Small, consistent shifts add up to sustainable change. Keep choosing you.

2. 

   25 May 2026

   030: The Only Way To Trust | Stop Abandoning Your Own Needs

   In this episode of Back to Basics, Lolly Aiye guides high-functioning women through the crucial process of rebuilding self-trust, so they can finally follow through on their boundaries and values without hesitation or self-doubt. If you've ever felt like your confidence is just an act, this is your invitation to reclaim your inner trust, one small promise at a time. Remember: Self distrust is learned, which means it can be unlearned. Trust is the bridge between who you are and who you want to become. One small promise at a time. In this episode, we dive deep into the foundation of self-trust — the often overlooked yet critical piece for women who want to stop overfunctioning and start trusting themselves again. Lolly shares honest insights and practical steps to rebuild confidence from the inside out, so you can stop abandoning yourself and start living with integrity. Connect with Lolly Aiye: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/) Website (www.havenhub.life) Resources & Links: www.havenhub.life/links (www.havenhub.life/links )

3. 

   8 Mar 2026

   029: Find Your Values Before It's Too Late

   Discover how your hidden, inherited values may be silently guiding you away from the life you truly want and how to reclaim your power by consciously choosing what matters most. This episode invites you into a gentle yet honest space to understand your personal core values, reframe limiting beliefs, and build boundaries that truly protect your authentic self. Main Topics: The difference between goals and values and why it matters How inherited cultural and familial values can obscure your true self Practical steps to identify and lock in your five core values The importance of evolving values for growth and authenticity Connecting boundaries directly to your values to foster sustainable self-trust Links: Back to Basics Toolkit (http://www.havenhub.life/links) — Free resource workbook, scripts, journal prompts Connect with Lolly: Youtube (https://youtube.com/@havenhublife?si=zCeDjNnZHIxBlB6r) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/)

Reach and audience

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YouTube views

326,562

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

2 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 44 / 100

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Quality

40

Social presence

0

YouTube

86

Engagement

32

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